dangotesmummy:
helooo please think again.

He cheated initially,she forgave him,she cheated,he can't forgive?

Of what use is marriage without forgiveness.so it's only 1 party that should be doing the forgiveness? Mshewwwww

Miss bride Go and thank God for making you escape a bullet.england or no England, you didn't enter into a life of regret and only you in the marriage.thank God.you don't know how God has delivered your body and soul from destruction

Moreover if it's England that is paining you, you can tell your parents to sponsor your trip to England

It shows she was about to enter a marriage where the man will show only conditional love (,traits of a narcisst) as if he's perfect and not guilty of the Same thing he cannot forgive his wife for

My thoughts exactly. Correct narcisst. It's funny how if this story was the other way round all the guys here would still support the guy and blame the lady. The ones saying they can't marry a lady that takes alcohol are the very ones that drink and forget their first name. Most of them even cheat on their wives on their bachelor night, we just don't get to hear because their friends always cover up for them.
You can drink but your wife isn't allowed to. You can cheat but your wife isn't allowed to. You can make mistakes but your wife isn't allowed to. Perfect being.

There's a lot that's not being said.
Did you just toss the question as per were you serious when you asked her?
Because, if you ask me that kinna question in between a conversation, I'm most definitely telling you No. Because I'm not sure if you're serious or not. It's not me that will say Yes you'll now laugh and say it's a joke.
But on a more serious note though, she might like you but have certain things hindering her from saying Yes like Career and stuff.
This is the point where you sit her down and have a serious convo. There's no time again, February is around the corner. Sha come back and tell us how it went.
Good luck