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Vure: Thanks so much @Ileobatojo. Ive thought along the lines of what you posted over and over again.

@Pickabeau1: Yes im through with Uni. Studied Med. Lab science and I work at a private hospital he recommended me to. He sponsored my education cos my parents were not financially stable at the time hence my hesitation to leave the relationship.

The qualities:
He doesn't hesitate to assist me financially. Its like im solely dependent on him. Lord knows im not.
He thinks all my decisions are childish and doesn't take me seriously.
He's very possesive of me, takes me out to where ever I want to go(or sends the driver), would insist if I refuse but then let it go if Im adamant.
He's obsessed with the fact that im a virgin and likes to think he would break it. Says he wud kill any guy that comes near me.

kenyattamoore: @Aluta and all those who contacted my friend, thank you very much. I don't know how to repay you for using your money to call long distance. This makes me cry for joy, complete strangers helping me without any thing in return. My friend contact me, she said she going to send me ticket before the end of this week and I will travel.
Pickbeau, lashawn, ileo, swagqueen and all those who contribute to this post with advises and useful information s ,from the bottom of my heart , I say thanks for everything.
I will come here if everything works fine and give update.

babyosisi: This is a valid advice
I also add that the time they are preparing to leave which is now,is equally very dangerous
DO Not LET THiS MAN KNOW ABOUT YOUR PLANS

I have a good friend that chopped her man that night and left in the morning
That is how deceptive you should be if need be,give him no hint whatsoever
She had found their travel passports where he hid them,visas were about the expire and she acted fast,bought tickets and made her plans
On the expected day,She got the kids ready he drove them to school and went to work
She packed her bags,her pre arranged car arrived,picked her up ,she went to the school picked the children up and headed to Owerri airport
By 5 PM that night she was on a Lufthansa flight headed to the USA.
Guard your plans jealously and just executive
Tell no one except a trusted friend or close family member and then change your phone number.

Cathaliya: Now I know the NGO am gonna work for..

LaShawn: @Uredaddy

And I won't be surprised if your husband had a hand in your ex's wife calling and accusing you. I don't put anything past those people. They set you up and then work on your guilt yo start abusing you.

A friend of mine started receiving anonymous texts after She got married. The texts were explicit, talking of How the sender supposedly slept with her, the different positions he used on her etcetera. She told me She showed her husband. Because She didn't want anyone to blackmail her..That is How a trusting relationship should be like.

You and I know that we can Never open up like that to these abusive men. They turn around and use the info against you.

LaShawn: My dear. I don't think I can ever listen to man saying sit at home, while I work..That singular incident thought me a lot of lessons that I won't forget anytime soon.
I work now and I earn a good salary, as far as I am concerned, I'll put that job first before a lot of people Because people are fickle and wicked. I'll only be with a guy who can understand that a woman is not to end up in the kitchen. She should be able to flourish and maintain her own dignity, not be asking for money to buy matches and pad.

Nogen: I don't think so. Have a family friend whose ex-hubby was beating blueblack. He is just a few yrs older than her. She left the marriage sharp sharp! Today, she's remarried to an older man and blessed with a baby. The new hubby worships her in fact!

bebe2: aaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh, he waited for six whole weeks?? he was probably getting some serious a** outside.

the morale of the story is, neva compare pple!!

Nogen: Chei! Some men and women sef! My dear, don't leave your children! Take everyone of them along! Man beat or maltreat me? Not on his life! Anyway, am married to someone more than 10yrs older but he adores me!

Les: Men and stupid machismo. I'm not afraid of death simply because I have seen life, I have only one little sis and I rather DIE than to live half a year without seeing her and any man that tries this with me eh... I won't say what will happen _{simply because I don't know what will happen} ^{but I swear its gone be deadly}

thehunted: sweetheart,u just wanna be like me.Copy and paste. coloured fonts. Seem u have issues with me or what i wrote. i settle my issues in d bedroom.....expecting u there...

thehunted: @op,
Babes of nowadays cheat a lot and that is the reason guys study them before getting married to them. ever wondered why there are too many single babes? Cos guys arent convinced that these once - upon - a - time -runs babes (most of them ) cant be trusted in marriage. IF SHE CHEATS,SEND HER OUT OF YOUR HOUSE. A CHEATING WOMAN WILL NEVER CHANGE. These babes fork around and still stay married to the rich boys. Most of them do. IF U FIND OUT THAT SHE IS A TYPICAL CHEATING NAIJA BABE,KICK HER ASS OUT AND LET HER JOIN THE SINGLES MARKET. I DONT PITY THESE SINGLE BABES ONE BIT.

okpara ugo: . This bad attitude by some girls has nothing to do with how long you courted them. They reserve a space for cheating and barcode their phones so that their partner will never find out.

Some girls can be nasty, you dare not see her phone but she sees yours. You dare not ask her who she called but she gets jealous over your calls. When she gets pissed off, she runs out of home and spends the night outside.

Op, you don land gobe..