@Leilah, Thank you for the tips, dont you want to help me out with some recipes, I have never cooked Nigerian food before, I do buy it for him all the time, tho i know it is not the same at all. There isnt any place where I live that sells Nigerian ingrediants to start off with and to get to the resturant where I buy the food from is at least an hour away from where I stay and that place import all their ingrediants. As for mind blowing sex acts, im kinda at a loss there, im not boring I will do anything and everything day and night and really enjoy it, it wont be an effort at all,I love him so why wouldnt i want to stay in bed with him all day? but thing is I havent been with many guys in that kinda of a relationship, he is just the second guy but he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, so im kinda scared that I am not educated enough in the mind blowing sex acts.

@JustGood,
My dear, Thank you for that and I understand what you are saying, any man wants to be treated like a King likewise any woman wants to be treated like a Princess. But see my man is already my King, I worship him. what bothers me is that I am not Nigerian and so i feel like i might be missing that something special. I was reading the tag from Annoyed, he keeps referring to his wife as Oyinbo, why do that, she is a person too abi? He liked her for who she was thats why he married her, and now he isnt looking for another woman is he? He is looking for a Nigerian woman. I dont want that to happen to me, I want to make sure that my man is kept happy at all times. He should be short of nothing, not love, attention,care, understanding, support, patience, nothing at all. But now see, you dont treat a kind and a Nigerian King in the same manner do you? Nigerian king is extra special, so what can I do? I dont know everything about Nigerian Culture but i sure as hell dont want my love for him to lack in anything at all thats why I am asking for help from NairaLand

So Brutal, you are a guy from Naija, help me out, tell me what a naija man really wants in a woman and how i can keep my man very very happy

I have been reading all these comments and it has been informative. I am not Nigerian, but im dating a nigerian guy whom I love with all my heart, i would do anything for him, I beleive that one should not try to change a person, we should change instead.Example, if my man loves watching football and I hate it, i shouldnt try to mke him change so that he will stop watching it, I believe that I should change to start liking it, that way he will see im making an effort and he will meet me halfway,its just an example, we both love football. its difficult being in any relationship, but when you in a relationship that with someone of another culture you face some challenges and I know that will happen. Iim asking all the guys out there and the gals please help me and give me some advice I want to keep him really happy, what does a naija woman do to keep her husband happy? Im told kalaba woman knows exatly how to keep her man very well. Im happy with him, very happy but I want to do more for him, so any help you can offer I will appreciate.Pls dont tear me appart, no woman is pefect i know we all have flaws, but i want to make sure that i am the best person I can be for him, we can all learn and become better people, we make improvement and change, I just want my man to feel like he is the luckiest man in the world. Thank You for you help in advance!

Hi, My Fiance is Urhobo from Naija and I have never lived in Naija but visited a few times. I really would like to learn to speak a bit of Urhobo to show him that who he is, his heritage and culture is important to me, and let me tell you, did bobo is fine and proud to be Urhobo. Please can someone send me a few helpful phrases translated to Urhobo, like I I love you, I miss you, You really special to me, you make me happy etc, that would be really nice and it would make him smile. I love him so much I am ready to learn anything!!! Thank you gals and guys