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Dear Doc,
Thank so much for your advice, i really appreciate it.
I wish to tell u that i ve missed my period, i was supposed to see it on the 7th of may, but up to this moment, i ve not seen it
All indicationshows that i am pregnant, altho, i ve not gone back to the hospital for another test, wat do u advice i should do?

Dear Doc,
I ve gone to the hospital, a pregnancy test was conducted on the 2nd of may, but it was negative, altho, i am still having all d symptons of pregancy i.e. d breast getting bigger and painful, still feeling very weak. A scan was also conducted, but the doc said he was not sure of wat he saw. It is possible that i might be pregnant, but too early for the pregnancy test that indicated negative?

doc, tanx 4 ur reply to my question. there is another one i wld like 2 ask.

i was pregnant last month, but due to some complications, i was advised to remove it. i did the d & c on the 6th of April and my period came on the 9th, altho it was not dat flowing. i had sex with my fiance on the 10th and 11th April, my question now is: is it possible for me to be pregnant, cos for the past 2 days i ve bn feeling very weak and tired. i dnt want to see a doctor yet, cos they might say its d anxiety of gettin pregnant,
please ur reply as soon as possible
tanx

Doc, tanx somuch for the work u r doin,

my prob is, wen ever i am having sex with my fiance, i always feel very dry despite all pre-intimacy, makin it very painful for me. it also does not allow me enjoy sex with him, despite dat we ve bn tryin for me 2 get pregnant,

why dnt u look for a good goldsmith, i had a goldsmith dat did mine for 50k (complete set), i was d one dat chose the design i wanted and d outcome was lovely,

Hi Fade,

My wedding is comin up in august and i ve bn havin a prob of getting a good cake design, can u send some of your designs and d quotations to my email box? the email add is ayogbaro@yahoo.com, looking forward to ur prompt response,

hi everybody,

i applied for a tourist visa around april this year and was refused based on the ECO saying my bank statement was fake which was nt true anyway. i didnt reapply then cos i just got a new job then n i thot its a waste of time n money, so i didnt reapply to counter attack the ECo decision becuase my laywer and my bank wanted 2 give a letter based on the account then, but now, im thinkin of reapplyin, do i need to get a letter from d bank confirming the genuity of the account and a letter from my lawyer statin my integrity? pls kindly help me out on this

Hello Everybody in the house, i would appreciate it if you can give me good tips on starting a small scale supermarket here in lagos, location is ojodu or ogba precisely, thanks in anticipation

@almondjoy,
u talk as if u were nt born in nigeria.  because u r bn opportuned to b in d states does not give u d right to talk without thinkin, if u think nigeria is bad, y dnt u come back and contribute ur own quota instead of abusing nigerians as if u r not one, there is an adage in yoruba that says and i quote ' omo ale nikan ni o ma fi owo osi juwe ile baba re' meaning its only a bastard dat uses d left hand to describe his father's house.

@asanwa,
Thanks for your response, i had an experience like urs last yr january wen dey didnt return imy documents early whereas they ve already denied me on d 31 of jan, 2007 and i got my application on the 13th of febru where they were askin me to appeal b4 28 days.

@ all
the most annoyin part is, there is an insurance conference coming up in algeria which i am bein nominated 2 go frm d office cos i work in an insurance broking firm, but i dont ve my passport, so as to process the visa. Atleast, if they r not givin me the visa to uk, dey shld atleast return my documents with d passport.

@londoncool,
I dnt understand wat my data has 2 do wit the question i asked,

Hi everybody, i would like to know how long it takes in processing a tourist visa to UK, cos i submitted my application on the 25th of march and up till this moment, i am yet to get back the reply.  Initially, i was asked to check back after 10 working days and it has even passed 15 working days and whenever i call the vfs, they tell me they r still processing it,  i ve all my documents as genuine, cos the company i work for is the one sponsoring my trip

can somebody pls tell me if its always like dat?

i was given a right to appeal, but i just decided not to appeal ,

(Both reasons are valid reasons.So my thinking is that you were refused because of your circumstances.That has to change.Now that you are married,try aain and say you want to visit your aunt.It is better to stick to one story.If you are planning on eloping,life is hard in the UK oooo.Aunty or no Aunty.Many Nigerians are stuck here doing menial jobs(some don't even have jobs), just be warned!

Don't apply with your wife,that might help,)

@blueband
thanks for your contribution, i am not eloping, i ve a very good job here, i just want to go if i can apply to any of the schools there for my masters degree, but i want to do everything over there (admisiion wise), and moreover, d last time i applied, it was my company that sponsored me with all d documents i used and they r very much aware of my reason for goin to d uk. im not yet married but my wedding is coming up in april 19. Altho d reason i was refused was because i didnt include details of my fiance,

Anybody is entitled to their opinion, but please, stop crucifying people just because they asked for help.  This is d second time i will be postin in dis forum and wat u guys like to do is crucify, for goodness sake, if u dnt have anythin 2 contribute, pls dnt bother reply, thanks

WHAT REASON CAN YOU GIVE THE UK EMBASSY FOR THEM TO ISSUE YOU A VISA, COS I VE APPLIED TWICE, D FIRST ONE I SAID I WANTED TO VISIT MY AUNT, BUT WAS REFUSED, THE OTHER ONE, I SAID I WANTED TO GO SHOPPING FOR MY WEDDING BUT UNFORTUNATELY WAS REFUSED AGAIN, DESPITE THE FACT THAT I HAVE ALL THE NECESSARY DOCUMENTS.  CAN ANYBODY HELP IN GIVING ME ENOUGH REASONS because I M THINKING OF REAPPLYING AGAIN.

THANKS.

@amaikama,
Thanks for ur advise, i do appreciate it. I would like to tel you dat we r not really on right now, cos i got to know that he was dating a friend of mine, whom i asked him 2 pick from the airport over there. Altho, he is saying there is nothin between them, but the girl told me alot of shit dat went on while she was there, i didnt tell him wat she told me, but now, we ve decided to give ourselves some break.

okk,
he did not run away, he went 2 study,

i thank each and everyone of u for ur contributions, one love

Thank you all once again for your advice.

I would like to tell u dat, i recieved an sms from him y/day, still tellin me to bear wit him, dat he is really missin me, but how do i no if he is really sincere?

I thank you all for your post, i really appreciate every one's view.  The point is wen i call him, he is always apologising 4 not callin, altho age is not on my side and i m d kind f person dat does not double date.  Altho, i ve applied once for UK visa but was denied, and initially it was his idea that i shld apply,

and now, im thinkin of re-applyin for UK visa again, so dat i can see things for myself if its worth it 2 continue wit d relationship

we ve bn dating 4 d past 2yrs and, yes, we talked abt marriage b4 he left,

i need u guys to enlighten me more on distance relationship.  i have a fiance that left for UK last year, initially, we were communicating effectively, but recently he has stopped calling, I'm d one making most of the calls and wen i complain, he always tell me not to worry, dat there is no cause for alarm, dats its due to his work. but its dat enough reason for him not to call me?   

ladies want guys dat r straight forward, not those dat enjoy lieing to babes over evrything, some guys dnt no how 2 say d truth, because they r used to lieing,