u guys get power o.all in all,it doesnt make sense for a woman to take up a job that makes her come home very late at night.and a woman shouldn't be a complete house wife.she should take up a job wud still make her have time for her kids.its dt simple.cos the economic situation isnt like those days..even rich pple some tyms bcome broke.no need for long story.both argument are kind of extreme. this is the only balance i feel is realistic

my mum used to work.she leaves home 4am comes back 10.it wasnt easy,we saw little of her,one day we decided to wait for her that whatever time she comes bk.we waited in front of d house in mosquitos.when she came bk and saw us,her heart melted.she decided to resign and took a trading job.that singular act helped me a lot.cos she was able to monitor us and d pple we mix with.i was able to tell her about those who bullied me in school and other things.

na for china person go dey see these weird things.

maclatunji:

No is the general answer.

tbaba1234:

A possible solution to this, is to leave earlier and get to work before the end of fajr. Pray at work

maclatunji:

No is the general answer.

baraka lahu fihi

i don't pray on time.but i pray all.prayin on time is the major problem i have,which am praying to Allah to make easy for me.i have a question tho


if one is to leave home for work by quarter to 6.and salat is by 6.is it allowed in islam to pray by quarter to 6?

kaboninc:
Meaning you're seriously SINGLE?
Am available in case you are...

am nt single.am hissing at that annoying osewa

mcheeew

Seun: Bump?

pls mr osewa,i dnt really understand d hmm in d other thread.is it that there is no solution?

Seun: Hmmm....

is that the help you can offer?

pls seun.my nairaland doesnt show smiley anymore.i use opera mini.pls what can be done about it.thanks

uj_sizzle:
You sure they ain't settlers from Abakaliki??

no they are not

sexkillz: I know what I am still seeing. . .

well,they have fine guys.but the ladies have seen look like men.very strong!

sexkillz: You know I'm right.

i know what i have seen.no be them say

uj_sizzle:
una wan turn am to debate?

lol!

sexkillz: Anambara as well. . .

i beg to differ

sexkillz: Change the browser picture settings to high. . . I am guessing you are using "opera".

wow!.worked for me too

this is the best post on marriage i have ever read.great job!

baba dey: When dat girl is still a virgin until you get married

SniperInADiaper: When BOTH of you are willing to fight through all of the relationship battles together then you have found "the one"

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Rocktation: You 'just know'. There's that quality of your partnership that just makes sense. Those feelings which influence your lifelong decisions, do not necessarily need or even have logical thought as basis, but are often sensed, wholly by your intuition.

i agree, although our intuition could be wrong sometimes.i feel he is the one if the relationship stands through the test of time and the love doesn't diminish

choi!

joeydozzy: you know she's the one when:

your feelings are deep
all you think about every minute is her waist
when you go the extra mile just to please her
when she sleeps, you look at her and think about the kids, cars and house
when you call her and no one wants to drop first
when she touches your hand and you have an erektion
when a big batty girl passes you and you don't notice

well if she leaves you, then you know she isn't the one

candygosh: There's no ryt one anywhr. Whoeva thinks u r worth spendn d rest of their lives with would stay.

true!

its not as simple as that

OMITAF: Very simple, jst ask him/her "are u d right one for me?" Chikena

Lovetinz: If she comes with her bags and a 4months old big tummy.

She is definitely the right one.

lmao!

190-the-clown: