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I don't mean guys should be bad ladies, what i am trying to say here is that, is not good to be too nice to women.
Red the bellow:

"In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”.

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them… EVER.

Don’t get me wrong here.

You don’t have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.

But if you think that treating a woman well means “always getting her approval and permission for things”, think again.

You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.

Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her…"


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I mean who can't stand out.

The qualities of what people want depends on their values. If you don't define your values, sure you don't know what you want.

Blah Blah Blah. More rubbish in my ears. This is just more of that stupid male propaganda being spread about "The Formula of Women" When will yal get it in your thick skulls that not all women are the same? So ridiculous.

Positive to sound rubbish, but you wouldn't want to have a man who can stound out.

higher status, in order words, make a lot of money, buy a jeep and live large right?

This is where lots of men fail it.
You do not necessarily need to be rich and famous before you can communicate higher status.

To communicate high status, you must start from your inside. I recommend you guys read "The Science of Self Confidence" by Briian Tracy, or "Hypnotherapy - Supreme Self Confidence" by Paul Mckenna. Goto work on yourself

All these definitions are confusing me, most women think nice guys are just guys who don't play games.

Nice guys are those who act by list above

Almost every woman will tell you that they want a "real man", and this is where the nice guys fail it. Real man are not easy to find, but nice guys are everywhere. Believe me, woman don't usually end up with what they say they want, but what they respond to.

Real men are those who doesn't do the following:

Trying to get approval by giving it
Calling, visiting, writing often to prevent the woman from seeing other men
Giving too much, creating imbalance
Selling too far in advance
Become jealous and afraid of loosing a woman that they don't even have
Sharing feelings too early
Allowing the emotional infatuation to trigger obsessive behaviors and communication

The above list is the nice guys characters

Status and Attraction are as connected as oxygen and life. There are many logical reasons why women would be attracted to “High Status” men, but the fact is that it’s true, and it’s not going to change anytime soon.

If a woman perceives you as being higher status than her, you instantly qualify for the “I’ll consider it” group in her mind.
If a woman perceive you as having lower status than her, she will instantly and unconsciously put you in the “not a chance” mental category.

If you communicate your status in just the right way, you can trigger a powerful instant attraction inside of a woman that will be palpable – it will be impossible for her to ignore.

Remember, if you want to spark sexual tension, chemistry, and ATTRACTION with a woman, you must communicate HIGHER STATUS

hope all the nice guys will read this

But all these are really nice things to say . . . .don't it? ? ?

Yes they are, and stop saying them if you do.

But all these are really nice things to say . . . .don't it? ? ?

Yes they are, and stop sayin them if you do.

ladies dont like them becuase they are too easy to find, they are seen everywhere, and they tells them the same thing all the time, like you're too beautiful, has anybody told you how beautiful you are, can you please go out wiht me, I am lucky to have you, e.t.c. If you do this, stop it!!!

If you must be honest with yourself, you must accept its your fault. Let me guess, you're trying to be too nice with her and you happen not to be making sense to her because she is not getting a good sens of humour from you. Your company bores her or you don't understand her body language.

All these could happen when you are trying to fake yourself and be too nice to her, trust me i have been in ths situation before and i can tell is the same thing that is happen to you.

Have you ever wonder why the bad guys have the most hot attractive ladies? Is because ladies want men who can protect them. I don't ask you to be a bad bad, but only if you can stop being too nice to ladies and be more cocky and comedy (I like this), you will have them around you, even your soul call girlfriend that wants to be just friend will come back to you and want to be your only lover.

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I posted this because i found too many topics identifying nice guys here, everybody wants a girlfriend. They always described themselves as nice, cool, God fearing, sometimes handsom e.t.c. But is too bad for them that attraction is not a choice.

Nice guys have idealistic fantasy of meeting a woman who just falls for them for who they are… without them having to actually do nothing.

Most of these guys go months without dates, which isn’t at all surprising.

The common ending to this story is that they meet a girl they think is all kinds of fun… and she realizes after not too long that she’s dealing with a Wussy who wants to kiss her ass and be Mr. Super Nice Guy… and she hits the road or makes his life hell.

"Nice Guys don't get laid"

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The “Nice Guy" is someone who believes that he should go out of his way to always be sweet, nice, generous, and understanding, no matter what the circumstances.

Nice guys don't draw boundaries, they don't stand up for themselves, and they don't say "no" very often.

Usually, Nice Guys harbour a secret belief: That they're better than everyone else because they’re so "nice"

Of course, nothing could be futher from the truth, when you're being nice to ladies in order to get something back, you're being manipulated

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depending on how long the text data that u want to store. If you want to store a precise or small amount of text e.g. gender which will either be male or female use char(6). if male is stored in the column the remaining column will be filled with spaces. but if u want to store for example user name use nvarchar(30). For me if i am storing anyhting more than 256 characters, i use text as the datatype. examples, Gender: char(6), FirstName: nvarchar(30), email: nvarchar(256), MessageBody: text. Hope I help u.