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Cristalz:
Thank you.

Society has made women believe being super sexy is all it takes for true love to happen.

@syphilis

A man is never stupid for choosing personality over looks.

but why he keeps preferring other womens look instead of his wife's is crazy

Cristalz:
Girl seems you still believe love only happens when good 'ol cupid shoots people in the butt with his love arrow

Men look at character.Personality. Because beauty will fade. Okay? A woman can be the most beautiful angel ever,but if her character and personality is lousy, she will roast on the spinster shelf.

so if someone asks d man

interviewer:sir wat do u like bout ur wife

man: her personality

interviewer:her body look,is it exactly wat u want?

man:nope,in as much as i love my wifes personality,i still dig a slim woman anyday anytime

why not marry out of love and forget the looks
now tell me,if dat man is not stupid

Cristalz:
Whatever90


We are on the same track to the same destination,just that we are using different modes of transport. The same ''I will never marry a fat girl'' theory holds true for my dear Sarah example above.

He falls in love with her self-confidence,her personality, and that makes him not mind her body. But if he is being butt-honest with his guys, he will tell them he still digs a slim body, but he LOVES his Sarah the way she is.

oh na personality d man marry no be love,i dont think dat love should be there,that means if he meets a lepa woman wt d same personality as his wife,he will most def run to her

Cristalz:
Exactly. . .he admires doesn't mean he wants it. Hez admiring ONLY. Simple. That's what he will tell you if/when you catch him staring at another woman

he digs?cristalz u said d man said he still digs,digs is more like orefer,i dig saurons reply over debosky's,meaning i enjoy,love or prefer saurons over debos

chika98:
. Infact, it is kind of sexy for a man to say " babe. . look at that gorgeous chic right there. .she's hot" Nothing is wrong with at all.

is dis a joke?

sistawoman:
I can fully understand both sides of the arguement:


Prefering someone else body type:

That is totally something different. I would not want my husband to be with me BUT PREFER a skinny womans body. That is disrespectful, degrading and mean. That is called settling for the best you feel you can get.


As long as we have eyes and free will we will admire other people in society but I PREFER hands down my husband and as long as he PREFERS me over any other woman then we have no issues.

I don't think i could be happy if i knew that all my husbands ex-girlfriends were all skinny chicks because that would say to me that PREFERS skinny girls but settled for me.

thank u

now tell me do u prefer llcoolj over ur hubby?admiring is ok,but preferring dat person over my hubby or wife is bad


@debo

I'm a woman and i kn ow how hurt i'll be if i notice that my man loves or prefer yokozuna over me

debosky:
Why not look for a lepacious woman?? so he should forget the 80% he has DECIDED to love and go and look for LEPA? If the man has DECIDED he can love this woman (in the end it is a decision) the story ends there - he can admire a lepa, doesn't mean he will leave his wife for that woman.
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said who?for real said who?for him to still prefer d lepa,then im sure if d orobo says sthg one day,d first thing dat will come to his mind is"if it is a lepa she wouldnt have done dis"


d man will leave his wife anyday for a lepa since he still digs them

Cristalz:
So in essence what you are saying is because a man is married to a fat woman he must NEVER admire a slim woman again.

sweetie admiring is quite different from wanting and still prefering

its good to admire but the worst thing is admiring this particular specie of women till death takes u away,and saying u still prefer the lepas,cristalz that means d man will continue admiring the lepas till he enters his grave

and if d wife gets to know that the hubby married her personality and watever but still prefers d lepas,trust will be very far from them both

debo

yeah we know but u urself dont understand d thing wella,lets say a man married a fat intelligent woman,smart and wise,but normally he'd prefer a lepacious woman anytime anyday ok why not look for a lepacious woman dats also intelligent,smart,and wiser dan d orobo instead of mayrring d orobo and still prefer the lepa

listen up debola,dat man is bound to cheat on his wife

Ebony-Silk:
That was not what syphillis wrote.
She said it's perfectly ok for a man with big woman to admire a thin woman.
What's the point of marrying someone and wishing for another?

when will u stop lying?where did i say its "perfectly ok"

even chika that joined this thread already understood what i meant by my statement

havent u seen men that hate busty women and prefers small bust,but laterz fell inlove wt d so called busty women(d opposite of what they liked before) they never liked from d beginning,but end up prefering her more than d women wt small bust

debo like i said,a man might prefer a slim babe,but might one day jam orobo who carries herself like "the most beautiful woman in d world" that alone will make d man change his mind,i told u that my eldest brother loves dark skinned babes,he used to hate d light skinned babes,until he fell inlove wt a fair skinned and today they r married

now comparing her wt every dark skinned or still saying he admires d dark skinned till date is not right

if a man wants to admire ok,once,twice or a couple of times,but not still having d same mindset of still digging d slim shadys
if u know u r going to coninue admiring her all d time then why marry a fat woman

common

chamotex:
Jenny . . . .againnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Ebony-Silk:
Answer the question. . . .simple

morenike let me be,if u dont understand my post then ask someone else to explain it to u

sistawoman:
But i guess the real question is why is he settling for something that he really does not want?

thank u

@debo

even we women admire cute guys out there,but the fact that this men keep admiring slim shadys and keep saying that he will never stop liking them,is where i come in

if u prefer them then y marry a woman personality?why not go for d slim ones

Ebony-Silk:
What part of the road are you on?
Do you agree or disagree, becasue your post perfectly made it clear that you've seen ",because ive seen men fall inlove wt d opposite of what they want and still appreciate their women till date"

are u ok?why not read watever90's post right from d minute she started arguing wt cristalz,im sure then u will be on d d right track,cos u r not

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@cristalz

no way,u r beginning to turn dis upside down,u talked bout sarah,how her hubby sais he still admirers slim shady

dat means till he dies he will continue admiring slim shadys

if he just admired once ok,but this one he will continue admiring them is wat d germans call "schaise"

Ebony-Silk:
Plz, they should even stop making them like you
What type of r/shp is that? Being with someone else and falling in love with another ?

i think dis qstion should be for cristalz,dont u think so

Cristalz:
Whatever90

Jeez

I didn't say the man starts to compare his wife with other women. . .I said he loves his wife but he still admires a stunning body when he sees one,which every normal red-blooded man does (if they will admit it,of course).

My point still stands. . .a woman cannot MAKE a man love her body if he doesn't want to of his own volition. Self-confidence makes him love her personality,which in turn allows him ACCEPT her body. Note the different word meanings here This acceptance may/may not develop into love.

To ensure it develops into love, most women will try to make their bodies become what their hubbies really prefer. And because he loves her already and appreciates her effort, hubby goes ''I love you the way you are honey'' and wifey goes ''yay,he loves me fat'' , not realizing that fat is not his first preference, but he will take her fat, thin, whatever,because he is in love.

to a large extent i dont agree,cos ive seen men fall inlove wt d opposite of wat they want and still appreciate their women till date

~Sauron~:
Not possible. . . . . . . . .Every man's wife should be the most beautiful woman to HIM.
If she's ugly to him, why marry her in the first place??

~Sauron~:
Not possible. . . . . . . . .Every man's wife should be the most beautiful woman to HIM.
If she's ugly to him, why marry her in the first place??

thank u


if a man prefers d slim body then why marry a woman on d big size and then tell his friend dat he still loves d slim shadys "but" he loves his wife d way she is

that is not love,d worst of it all is admiring or talking about slim shadys wt his friends,dats crazy

God punish d man dat will go tell his friend dat he prefers the big body but he loves her personality,dat mans manhood will not live to see d next day