tope2000:

Well i guess thats is true  
But does that mean u wont look or admire any other babe again

Ebony-Silk:

w/e. . . .keep gbadu-ing your blubbery thighs and complications of heart failure

chika98:

Ofcourse he will. He just wont be chasing her

~Sauron~:

I won't. . . . . . .I am romantically blind to other women when i have a girlfriend.
Those eyes won't see nada until i kick the present babe out like POLIO.

Ebony-Silk:

That was not what syphillis wrote.
She said it's perfectly ok for a man with big woman to admire a thin woman.
What's the point of marrying someone and wishing for another?

Ebony-Silk:

That was not what syphillis wrote.
She said it's perfectly ok for a man with big woman to admire a thin woman.
What's the point of marrying someone and wishing for another?

I beg to differ.  .  .you can't MAKE a man do/feel/think anything he doesn't want to of his own volition. Unless na jazz
Its because of threads/ideologies like this one that make most women believe they have to lower their personal standards to level zero to hook a man.  .  

syphillis:

when will u stop lying?where did i say its "perfectly ok"

even chika that joined this thread already understood what i meant by my statement

havent u seen men that hate busty women and prefers small bust,but laterz fell inlove wt d so called busty women(d opposite of what they liked before) they never liked from d beginning

chika98:

LISTEN CAREFULLY TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY NOW

lol. . The man you will marry won't be the IDEAL dude you have always wanted! Mark my words. In terms of looks. . he may not be that which you've drooled over and dated. Marriage isn't about looks but about what's on the inside. Nothing is wrong with a man admiring a cute woman even if she's thin or thick. Nothing wrong with that at all. Infact, it is kind of sexy for a man to say " babe. . look at that gorgeous chic right there. .she's hot" Nothing is wrong with at all.

Sweet T:

Does anybody know the Dollar-Naira rate

debosky:

You women and Sharon (no wonder, his name is feminine  ) just don't get it!

A man doesn't marry ONLY for physique!!

Being 'romantically blind'   is not the same thing as not seeing a DIFFERENCE. Your wife's boobs are 32A and you see 36D won't you know the boobs are bigger? Does that mean you don't love your wife? That is simply a fact! You can admire different things without wanting to be that thing or wanting that thing!

You women are simply misguided if you think a man will look only at physical attraction before marrying. You talk as if there is a production line of women where you can choose hottest body, smartest mind and non-irritating attitude and combine them into a wife. You take your IMPERFECT wife and LOVE her. Does that mean she doesn't have flaws? NO. Does that mean you can't ADMIRE other women? NO Does that mean she is the most beautiful? NO

Just like she may not be the smartest but you love her REGARDLESS of that. If you think you are the 'most beautiful woman' YOU ARE DELUDED. What you should value is that your husband LOVES you, not on some falsehood about being the most beautiful.

Anyone who needs to think they are the most beautiful has poor self esteem and hasn't gotten her head straight. I will NEVER marry the most beautiful woman I meet - she will definitely LOSE that beauty over time - what happens then? will I stop loving her??

syphillis:

debo like i said,a man might prefer a slim babe,but might one day jam orobo who carries herself like "the most beautiful woman in d world" that alone will make d man change his mind,i told u that my eldest brother loves dark skinned babes,he used to hate d light skinned babes,until he fell inlove wt a fair skinned and today they r married

now comparing her wt every dark skinned or still saying he admires d dark skinned till date is not right

if a man wants to admire ok,once,twice or a couple of times,but not still having d same mindset of still digging d slim shadys
if u know u r going to coninue admiring her all d time then why marry a fat woman

common

debosky:

You women and Sharon (no wonder, his name is feminine  ) just don't get it!

A man doesn't marry ONLY for physique!!

Being 'romantically blind'   is not the same thing as not seeing a DIFFERENCE. Your wife's boobs are 32A and you see 36D won't you know the boobs are bigger? Does that mean you don't love your wife? That is simply a fact! You can admire different things without wanting to be that thing or wanting that thing!

[b]You women are simply misguided if you think a man will look only at physical attraction before marryin[/b]g. You talk as if there is a production line of women where you can choose hottest body, smartest mind and non-irritating attitude and combine them into a wife. You take your IMPERFECT wife and LOVE her. Does that mean she doesn't have flaws? NO. Does that mean you can't ADMIRE other women? NO Does that mean she is the most beautiful? NO

Just like she may not be the smartest but you love her REGARDLESS of that. If you think you are the 'most beautiful woman' YOU ARE DELUDED. What you should value is that your husband LOVES you, not on some falsehood about being the most beautiful.

Anyone who needs to think they are the most beautiful has poor self esteem and hasn't gotten her head straight. I will NEVER marry the most beautiful woman I meet - she will definitely LOSE that beauty over time - what happens then? will I stop loving her??

Cristalz:

So in essence what you are saying is because a man is married to a fat woman he must NEVER admire a slim woman again.

chika98:

U are getting this all wrong. If i marry a man today does that mean he's the most handsome I have ever been with?? BUT with the inner qualities HE then becomes the most beautiful to me . . Inside and out!

syphillis:

debo

yeah we know but u yourself don't understand d thing wella,lets say a man married a fat intelligent woman,smart and wise,but normally he'd prefer a lepacious woman anytime anyday ok why not look for a lepacious woman that is also intelligent,smart,and wiser dan d orobo instead of mayrring d orobo and still prefer the lepa

listen up debola,that man is bound to cheat on his wife

debosky:


Why not look for a lepacious woman?? so he should forget the 80% he has DECIDED to love and go and look for LEPA? If the man has DECIDED he can love this woman (in the end it is a decision) the story ends there - he can admire a lepa, doesn't mean he will leave his wife for that woman.
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chika98:

Infact, it is kind of sexy for a man to say " babe. . look at that gorgeous chic right there. .she's hot" Nothing is wrong with at all.

debosky:

You women and Sharon (no wonder, his name is feminine  ) just don't get it!

A man doesn't marry ONLY for physique!!

Being 'romantically blind'   is not the same thing as not seeing a DIFFERENCE. Your wife's boobs are 32A and you see 36D won't you know the boobs are bigger? Does that mean you don't love your wife? That is simply a fact! You can admire different things without wanting to be that thing or wanting that thing!

You women are simply misguided if you think a man will look only at physical attraction before marrying. You talk as if there is a production line of women where you can choose hottest body, smartest mind and non-irritating attitude and combine them into a wife. You take your IMPERFECT wife and LOVE her. Does that mean she doesn't have flaws? NO. Does that mean you can't ADMIRE other women? NO Does that mean she is the most beautiful? NO

stillwater:

Can someone tell that sweet t with his irritating personality to get off my back once and for all?

tope2000:

Lmao
Sweet T, back off

sistawoman:

I can fully understand both sides of the arguement:


Prefering someone else body type:

That is totally something different. I would not want my husband to be with me BUT PREFER a skinny womans body. That is disrespectful, degrading and mean. That is called settling for the best you feel you can get.


As long as we have eyes and free will we will admire other people in society but I PREFER hands down my husband and as long as he PREFERS me over any other woman then we have no issues.

I don't think i could be happy if i knew that all my husbands ex-girlfriends were all skinny chicks because that would say to me that PREFERS skinny girls but settled for me.

Infact, it is kind of sexy for a man to say " babe. . look at that gorgeous chic right there. .she's hot" Nothing is wrong with at all.

syphillis:

sweetie admiring is quite different from wanting and still prefering

its good to admire but the worst thing is admiring this particular specie of women till death takes u away,and saying u still prefer the lepas,cristalz that means d man will continue admiring the lepas till he enters his grave

and if d wife gets to know that the hubby married her personality and watever but still prefers d lepas,trust will be very far from them both

stillwater:

@ debosky

Is it by force to admire?

syphillis:

debo

yeah we know but u yourself don't understand d thing wella,lets say a man married a fat intelligent woman,smart and wise,but normally he'd prefer a lepacious woman anytime anyday ok why not look for a lepacious woman that is also intelligent,smart,and wiser dan d orobo instead of mayrring d orobo and still prefer the lepa

listen up debola,that man is bound to cheat on his wife

stillwater:

He should keep his nonsense thoughts to himself. Who wants to hear that? Definitely not me.

sistawoman:

I don't think i could be happy if i knew that all my husbands ex-girlfriends were all skinny chicks because that would say to me that PREFERS skinny girls but settled for me.

Sweet T:

what did i do, sweetie?

chika98:

. Infact, it is kind of sexy for a man to say " babe. . look at that gorgeous chic right there. .she's hot" Nothing is wrong with at all.

~Sauron~:

It won't be sexy few days later when u find the same woman your man is admiring on ur matrimonial bed.



Then he is gonna get it from me!

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with all this orobo and lepa talk ?

I have an uncle who married my aunty and she was lepa and pretty. afther the second child she blew up as in she became orobo. so what do u do in this kind of situation?  There is more to a woman than her physical presence and if any guy does not know that then he is not a man.

Thank U ooh. Who is to say she will remain a size 6 even after popping them kids out