Sweet T:

@Poster

yeah, there is shortage of real men. They don't make us like they used to no more.

Plz, they should even stop making them like you

syphillis:

to a large extent i don't agree,because ive seen men fall inlove wt d opposite of what they want and still appreciate their women till date

What type of r/shp is that? Being with someone else and falling in love with another ?

Ebony-Silk:

Plz, they should even stop making them like you
What type of r/shp is that? Being with someone else and falling in love with another ?

i think dis qstion should be for cristalz,dont u think so

Ebony-Silk:

Plz, they should even stop making them like you
What type of r/shp is that? Being with someone else and falling in love with another ?

whatever, HATER !

@post
YES!!

Whatever90 / syphillis

A man can admire a slim woman and love his fat wife because love goes deeper than just the way she looks.

Come on,remove the romantic scales and get real here. The fact that he loves his fat wifey doesn't mean he has lost his appreciation for a slim,beautiful body.

@debo

Thank you. You're the only one that seems to get it on this thread.

@chamo

Found your own good girl yet?

syphillis:

i think this qstion should be for cristalz,don't u think so

What part of the road are you on?
Do you agree or disagree, becasue your post perfectly made it clear that you've seen ",because ive seen men fall inlove wt d opposite of what they want and still appreciate their women till date"

Ebony-Silk:

Plz, they should even stop making them like you
What type of r/shp is that? Being with someone else and falling in love with another ?

You need to see my new Afro hairstyle, it's about as tall as your entire body.  

But i guess the real question is why is he settling for something that he really does not want?

@cristalz

no way,u r beginning to turn dis upside down,u talked bout sarah,how her hubby sais he still admirers slim shady

dat means till he dies he will continue admiring slim shadys

if he just admired once ok,but this one he will continue admiring them is wat d germans call "schaise"

Cristalz:

Whatever90 / syphillis

A man can admire a slim woman and love his fat wife because love goes deeper than just the way she looks.

Come on,remove the romantic scales and get real here. The fact that he loves his fat wifey doesn't mean he has lost his appreciation for a slim,beautiful body.

Sure, love goes deeper than the way she looks, but what'z up with admiring/fantasizing about a slim woman when your wife is big?

Does it not lead to infidelity?

@ jenny

syphillis:

to a large extent i don't agree,because ive seen men fall inlove wt d opposite of what they want and still appreciate their women till date

The fact that the man loved the woman doesn't mean she 'MADE' him love her body type. I can tell you right now what my ideal body type for a woman would be, but will I make sure the woman I marry has all those qualities? Not necessarily - as long as I find her sufficiently attractive, the rest doesn't matter. Men always have a preference but only the most shallow men with only physical requirements would dump another lady who has 80% of what they desire but isn't as high physically.

@ Sharon

You can say whatever you want. The issue here is not comparing - do you have to compare before you know a Porsche is higher quality than a Kia? Do you have to bring out measuring tape before you know that Pius Ikedia is shorter than Peter Crouch?? Fact is fact - you can say your lovey dovey mumbo jumbo to convince the woman, but the reality remains reality.

Beauty for you may come first, but not all men are like that. All men want to have attraction, but it cannot be equated with absolute beauty. It's just a lot of romantic nonsense that has been put in people's heads. I don't want to hear I'm the most attractive man in the world, all I need to know is that I'm the one my wife wants, even if there are finer guys out there.

Ebony-Silk:

What part of the road are you on?
Do you agree or disagree, becasue your post perfectly made it clear that you've seen ",because ive seen men fall inlove wt d opposite of what they want and still appreciate their women till date"

are u ok?why not read watever90's post right from d minute she started arguing wt cristalz,im sure then u will be on d d right track,cos u r not

t

chamotex:

Cristalz
Tope
Danke
Sistawoman
Ebony
Aunty Mary
Chika

Go out there and grab your men now . . . . . . .

I already have a GOOD MAN, thank u very much

~Sauron~:

Sometimes??
I am flattered.

This is a classic drivel. . . . . . .Why would i compare ma wife to other women?
Was she forced to marry me or what?? I don't even admire other chics when i am with ma girlfriend, let alone the woman that would make ma babies.
Beauty comes first for me, other stuffs can follow later.
I would spot beauty before getting to know if the content of her character is good or bullshit!!!!
If her character is rotten, then i move on to the next babe. QED!!!!

hmmmm. . . i dont blv that one
there is nothing wrong in admiring o, as long as u dont have any hidden agenda

Sweet T:

You need to see my new Afro hairstyle, it's about as tall as your entire body.

Is this a joke? What retard would be carrying a 5'6 afro on his head?
What am I asking again, this is Sweet Taiye we're talking abt.
Perfectly normal to him

sistawoman:

But i guess the real question is why is he settling for something that he really does not want?

thank u

@debo

even we women admire cute guys out there,but the fact that this men keep admiring slim shadys and keep saying that he will never stop liking them,is where i come in

if u prefer them then y marry a woman personality?why not go for d slim ones

syphillis:

are u ok?why not read watever90's post right from d minute she started arguing wt cristalz,I'm sure then u will be on d d right track,because u r not

Answer the question. . . .simple

syphillis:

are u ok?why not read watever90's post right from d minute she started arguing wt cristalz,I'm sure then u will be on d d right track,because u r not

t

Jenny . . . .againnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Ebony-Silk:

Answer the question. . . .simple

morenike let me be,if u dont understand my post then ask someone else to explain it to u

chamotex:

Jenny . . . .againnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

biko zia nu
who is syphyllis?
ojigbijigbi!!

sistawoman:

But i guess the real question is why is he settling for something that he really does not want?

How can you reduce it to that??  You have little understanding of men. Men will calculate and make their peace with a woman. It is a CONSCIOUS effort to declare that this is the woman you want. You don't automatically stop being attracted to other women, regardless of what some of you ladies think. You DECIDE to focus your attraction on your wife. You may still see other women that are attractive, sexy, curvaceous, etc. but you MAINTAIN your focus on your wife. The fact that you can admire a skinny woman when your wife is on the large side is not a sign of infidelity. No woman can be fat, slim, tall and short all at the same time, and men will ALWAYS find more than one body type attractive.

Of course focusing and meditating on another woman is wrong, but you can find something attractive without lusting after it. I like Porsches, but I won't dump my Honda tomorrow and go and do anything to have a Porche. I like well built physiques, but I won't kill myself to get it.

Women think the fact that you love someone means you can't be attracted to someone else, but that is by and large a feminine mind's invention. men can and WILL be attracted to other women, it's the fact that they CHOOSE to love a woman that will prevent straying, not that their wife is the 'most beautiful woman in the world' - that is simply romantic nonsense.

tope2000:


hmmmm. . . i don't blv that one
there is nothing wrong in admiring o, as long as u don't have any hidden agenda

I am telling u the true story, babes.

Admire who when i have a classic diva by ma side.
I won't even look in ur face to see if you have tribal marks or black eye.
It's a mind state. . . . . . .If u believe ur wife is the best, Halle Berry won't convince me and thatz OFFICIAL.



@ Debosky,

Ya analogy leaves nuthing to be desired.

U like Porsche but you won't leave your Honda and go for it.
Why not tell us u won't leave your Honda because u cannot AFFORD the Porsche. . . . . .
There's a UNIVERSE between that analogy and women. . . . . . .
Why lust after what u cannot get? You are married to a fatso but u love a slim woman??
Were u forced to marry the Fatso in the first place?? It is statement like this that makes women think men don't know what they want.
I know what i want!!!

Ebony-Silk:

Is this a joke? What retard would be carrying a 5'6 afro on his head?
What am I asking again, this is Sweet Taiye we're talking about.
Perfectly normal to him

5"6?? who dash you 5"6'?? I've seen 5"6' midget before.

Sweet T:

5"6?? who dash you 5"6'?? I've seen 5"6' midget before.

Good. It wasn't me.
Na God dash me 5'6
Who dashed you 350 pounds?

Ebony: What is hard for you to understand?? A man can say he wants a thin woman but ends up falling in love with someone who isnt so thin but he LOVES her. It happens all the time.

syphillis:

Wetin u do again

~Sauron~:

I am telling u the true story, babes.

Admire who when i have a classic diva by ma side.
I won't even look in ur face to see if you have tribal marks or black eye.
It's a mind state. . . . . . .If u believe ur wife is the best, Halle Berry won't convince me and thatz OFFICIAL.

Well i guess thats is true  
But does that mean u wont look or admire any other babe again

chika98:

Ebony: What is hard for you to understand?? A man can say he wants a thin woman but ends up falling in love with someone who isnt so thin but he LOVES her. It happens all the time.

That was not what syphillis wrote.
She said it's perfectly ok for a man with big woman to admire a thin woman.
What's the point of marrying someone and wishing for another?

tope2000:

Wetin u do again

Well i guess thats is true  
But does that mean u wont look or admire any other babe again

Ofcourse he will. He just wont be chasing her

Ebony-Silk:

Good. It wasn't me.
Na God dash me 5'6
Who dashed you 350 pounds?

A whole lot of double cheeseburgers and extra crispy chicken dash me 350 pounds.  

Ebony-Silk:

Sure, love goes deeper than the way she looks, but what'z up with admiring/fantasizing about a slim woman when your wife is big?

Does it not lead to infidelity?

Whatz up with married men admiring Beyonce's assets and curves?

With men,everything is not emotionally related like we women see things. He can admire as its in his nature to. He will resist the temptation to touch because he loves his wife.
That's just how they are made.

syphillis:

@cristalz

no way,u r beginning to turn this upside down,u talked bout sarah,how her hubby sais he still admirers slim shady

that means till he dies he will continue admiring slim shadys

if he just admired once ok,but this one he will continue admiring them is what d germans call "schaise"

Yep,till he dies he will keep admiring and appreciating a well-formed female body. Its the harsh,brash truth. Don't kid yourself that your hubby has lost his appreciation for a beautiful female because he has you.

He married you,he didn't die. Infidelity is prevented because he loves you and doesn't want to cheat on you. That's how deep love goes. Deeper than just the physical.

debo like i said,a man might prefer a slim babe,but might one day jam orobo who carries herself like "the most beautiful woman in d world" that alone will make d man change his mind,i told u that my eldest brother loves dark skinned babes,he used to hate d light skinned babes,until he fell inlove wt a fair skinned and today they r married

now comparing her wt every dark skinned or still saying he admires d dark skinned till date is not right

if a man wants to admire ok,once,twice or a couple of times,but not still having d same mindset of still digging d slim shadys
if u know u r going to coninue admiring her all d time then why marry a fat woman

common

Sweet T:

A whole lot of double cheeseburgers and extra crispy chicken dash me 350 pounds.

w/e. . . .keep gbadu-ing your blubbery thighs and complications of heart failure