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REMMEI: Nigerians even suffers racism/tribalism in Nigeria..so what else?..she go want more |
annyplenty: proverb 31:6wat ar u tryin to say |
lanrexlan: You are now talking,it's bad to be a drunkard though.dnt ever get drunk |
the bible clearly states it 'drink alittle 2 4get ur sorrows nd suffering but dnt ever get drunk' |
lanrexlan: Proverbs gives the authority,true or false? holypower: proverb didn't even give a full authority! lanrexlan: Proverbs gives the authority,true or false? |
lanrexlan: Proverbs gives the authority,true or false?In the very essence of it, the Scripture does not encourage you to sin against your conscience, thus, forbidding you from doing anything that will offend yourself and your fellow beings, in particular. Consuming alcohol, on the whole, is not really condemned but letting yourself give in to drunkenness, which will lead to a loss in sobriety, is definitely looked down upon. |
The second most difficult thing to cope with after being diagnosed with cancer, is to inform your children about your illness. Even though it may seem easier to hide the fact from your children, it is better to come out with the truth. It is natural to get scared after being diagnosed with cancer. For those who have children, it can become even more overwhelming. Parents who do not discuss their illness with their children, refrain from doing so with the aim of protecting their kids from the shock, fear, and stress of knowing that one of their parents is seriously unwell. However, keeping this information from them would only stress such parents further, who are trying to cope with their illness, as well as maintain a normal environment at home. Children will soon realize that things are amiss and that something is wrong. They will inevitably pick up clues from the hushed and anxious conversations, and the increased visits to the doctor. You must give yourself time to cope with the news, if you think that you're not ready to tell your children yet, or that it is too much pressure for you to handle. The sooner you reveal the truth to your children, the better it is, so that they feel like they are with you all the way. This Buzzle article discusses how to tell your children that you have cancer. Who Should Speak to the Children? ❖ If you're married or have a partner, ask him/her to be there with you while telling the children about your illness. You can also request your spouse to do the talking for you, while you are present during the conversation. Your spouse can help by consoling and reassuring the children. ❖ If you are a single parent and you think you can handle telling your kids alone, you can do so. However, it would be better to ask a close family member or a friend to support you while talking to the children. ❖ Even if you do not want to be the one doing the talking, your family member or friend would be able to handle the situation for you, while you comfort the children. Have All the Details Ready ❖ Before you decide to tell your children about your cancer, make sure that you have collected as much information from your doctor about the type of cancer you have, the stage you were diagnosed with, the expected treatment, and most importantly, the prognosis. ❖ Even though you may not be aware of everything, not leaving out relevant information will help reduce your children's confusion and anxiety. ❖ You can begin the conversation by explaining what cancer is, how it may affect you, and what it is doing to your health. Tell them where the cancer is in your body, and how it can be treated through medication and chemotherapy, or removed through surgery. Depending on the questions asked by your kids, you may need to explain what chemotherapy does, and how the medication might make you feel weak and sick on some days. ❖ Sharing specific information pertaining to your illness will help the children not get scared about the things they may have seen, read, or heard about cancer. How to Tell Young Children and Teenagers ❖ If your children are still young and do not understand the gravity of the situation, try to explain your condition in the form of a story. Thereafter, ask what the story meant to them. Encourage your children to ask questions based on the story. Gradually, reveal that you're the one suffering from cancer, while answering their questions. ❖ Since children tend to have a vivid imagination, refrain from using words that may give them a scary visual. ❖ Sometimes, children start believing that they must have done something bad to have caused the parent's illness. Which is why, it is better to assure your children that they are not responsible in any way. ❖ Let your children know that other members of the family cannot catch the cancer. Most importantly, you will have to assure them that they are not alone, and that the whole family is united to make it through these hard times. |
lanrexlan: Yeah,but proverbs gives the full authorityWe do not need the Bible to be telling us this, most of us have tried and tested ways to claim the same. Alcohol, in whatever form, has at some point of time caused us to do things differently. In the very essence of it, the Scripture does not encourage you to sin against your conscience, thus, forbidding you from doing anything that will offend yourself and your fellow beings, in particular. Consuming alcohol, on the whole, is not really condemned but letting yourself give in to drunkenness, which will lead to a loss in sobriety, is definitely looked down upon. Finally, what matters is not allowing anything to overpower the mind and the body, for that which is overpowered is enslaved. |
lanrexlan: Yeah,but proverbs gives the full authorityWoe to those who rise early in the morning, that they may run after strong drink, who tarry late into the evening as wine inflames them! ― Isaiah 5:11 |
LOOSE KAYNON |
Wat is the dead doing among the living |
lanrexlan: The bible advise christians to drink wine and beer to forget their sorrows.if u read no.4 it was stated "Take a little" |
God Cares Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. ~ Isaiah 41:10 (ESV) Yes, you heard right, God cares for you in His ways, and He will never forsake you. Look at your loneliness through His eyes, through your darkest days He stands close to you, never once leaving your hand. The Bible says, call upon the LORD, your God, when in distress and sorrow, and you are sure to find solace. Lay all your anxieties and fears that come with loneliness on the shoulder of God, for He truly cares for you. Help is Round the Corner Then the Lord God said, "It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him." ~ Genesis 2:18 (ESV) Everyone of us has a guardian angel out there, to take care of us. It is for us to trust in His providence and His creations. It is true that often when we are in the dumps, we fail to see the help that comes to us. There is someone for each of us who truly understands our needs and heart's desires. Consider this, love comes in any form, including pets who are more than willing to listen to you whine. Remember to reach out your hand when you need help. Sometimes, loneliness is just that monster that tends to take over your thoughts, making you blind to company that's just around the corner. Truly, all help comes from the Lord, the creator of Heaven and the Earth. Reach Out But I have trusted in your steadfast love; my heart shall rejoice in your salvation. I will sing to the Lord, because he has dealt bountifully with me. ~ Psalm 13:5-6 The least you can do is to reach out to someone else who is in need of dire company, when you yourself are tempest-tossed. Trusting His providence does not come easy in times of despair and loneliness, but trust you must. When you begin to trust His giving, the burdens are lightened, and you begin to heal once again. Be thankful and reach out to someone in need, it will benefit both of you. Take it in your stride, the only way to overcome loneliness is to open up to someone. For it is in giving, that we truly receive. Hope is not Lost And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, "Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?" that is, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" ~ Matthew 27:46 (ESV) Christ himself has gone through loneliness and despair and cried out to the Father in the same way that you would in times of loneliness. This just goes to show, He who has been through the worst of rejection, dejection, and persecution shall not let your cry go in vain. His love is profound and in your joys and your grief, He reigns high with you. It is perfectly fine for you to feel lonely and down but the bottom line is, if God is beside you, you need not fear any misery and pain. |
sseunth: well,to me drinking is not the sin.....geting drunk is the sinNo 4 states 'What you need to remember ... And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit. ― Ephesians 5:18' |
Yungwizzzy: so what's your point? I should stop drinking? never!!!!!who is decieving who |
With Jesus himself consuming wine, you would think the Bible supports consuming alcohol. But, the truth could be otherwise, drinking could well be a sin.http://www.buzzle.com/articles/what-the-bible-says-about-drinking-alcohol.html |
All Hail 2 bokoboys. So u.s deh say dey nr deh fear anybdy. Boko don make dem run |
#SINGING IN ELDEE VOICE#bt i say na wash |
make the old man go sleep na |
this na wlcum development |
bale is nt worth 25m. Is he beta than cr7, rooney, rvp or ibra. To knw hw much he is worth ask WengeR |
Divepen: How many players are there in an ice hockey team?5 |
hope the sport is nt only football |
2day na only RIP i dey see. Abi him nr use am 4 illuminati or ritual ![]() |
[quote author=P.Stacks]If not disrespect. Can GEJ see Buhari and not prostrate to greet the man.. This is a man that rose thru the Ranks and file of the Nigerian Army, well decorated.. This is a man that has served this country in various capacity tested and confirmed! Yet GEJ is a more prominent person than Buhari..[/quote]he caused the disrespect. And at his age what those he want the presidency for? |
were ar there gettin this trash frm. If phone call cant it be tracked, if through internet wheres is the ip address |
stupid thread |
payless: Tell that to PDP. There is Anenih, Tukur, Umar Dikko, and many politians in their 70s and 80s in PDP. Worry about people in your party.pls wake up frm dream, buhari nd Apc knws he cant rule Nigeria, apc need a better Candidate to win Gej, or Gej till 2019. |
if u need cool lyrics. Try this artist. Mode9, loose kaynon, mi, boogey, iceberg slim. If evrybdy in 9ja were to be me the likes of psquare, wizkid, davido, 2face etc nr go sell one track |
taiocol na 1st to comment. Who b omouwumi |
oya make e make fp. Make our young boys load free card |
note: He is 25 year old. And who made him hero at nations cup? Na goal there take deh knw hero |
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