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Celebrities › Re: Oprah 'suffers Racism' In Zurich Switzerland by taiocol: 6:16pm On Aug 09, 2013
REMMEI: Nigerians even suffers racism/tribalism in Nigeria..so what else?..
she go want more
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 1:04pm On Aug 09, 2013
annyplenty: proverb 31:6

6 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts.
wat ar u tryin to say
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 7:34am On Aug 09, 2013
lanrexlan: You are now talking,it's bad to be a drunkard though.
dnt ever get drunk
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 7:19am On Aug 09, 2013
the bible clearly states it 'drink alittle 2 4get ur sorrows nd suffering but dnt ever get drunk'
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 7:12am On Aug 09, 2013
lanrexlan: Proverbs gives the authority,true or false?
holypower: proverb didn't even give a full authority!
"Wine is a mocker, strong drink is raging: and whosoever is deceived thereby is not wise." (Proverbs 20:1).

Separate yourself from drunkeness...
"Be not among winebibbers; among riotous eaters of flesh:" (Proverbs 23:20).

Other books of the Bible that condemned it...
"Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof." (Romans 13:13-14).

"Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God." (1 Corinthians 6:10).
lanrexlan: Proverbs gives the authority,true or false?
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 11:46pm On Aug 08, 2013
lanrexlan: Proverbs gives the authority,true or false?
In the very essence
of
it, the Scripture does not
encourage you to sin against
your conscience, thus,
forbidding
you from doing anything that
will
offend yourself and your fellow
beings, in particular.
Consuming alcohol, on the
whole,
is not really condemned but
letting yourself give in to
drunkenness, which will lead to
a
loss in sobriety, is definitely
looked down upon.
Health › How To Tell Your Children That You Have Cancer by taiocol(op): 11:42pm On Aug 08, 2013
The second most difficult thing
to cope with after being
diagnosed with cancer, is to
inform your children about your
illness. Even though it may seem
easier to hide the fact from your
children, it is better to come out
with the truth. It is natural to get scared after
being diagnosed with cancer. For
those who have children, it can
become even more
overwhelming. Parents who do
not discuss their illness with
their children, refrain from doing
so with the aim of protecting
their kids from the shock, fear,
and stress of knowing that one
of their parents is seriously
unwell.
However, keeping this
information from them would
only stress such parents further,
who are trying to cope with their
illness, as well as maintain a
normal environment at home.
Children will soon realize that
things are amiss and that
something is wrong. They will
inevitably pick up clues from the
hushed and anxious
conversations, and the increased
visits to the doctor.
You must give yourself time to
cope with the news, if you think
that you're not ready to tell your
children yet, or that it is too
much pressure for you to handle.
The sooner you reveal the truth
to your children, the better it is,
so that they feel like they are
with you all the way. This Buzzle
article discusses how to tell your
children that you have cancer.
Who Should Speak to the
Children?
❖ If you're married or have a
partner, ask him/her to be there
with you while telling the
children about your illness. You
can also request your spouse to
do the talking for you, while you
are present during the
conversation. Your spouse can
help by consoling and reassuring
the children.
❖ If you are a single parent and
you think you can handle telling
your kids alone, you can do so.
However, it would be better to
ask a close family member or a
friend to support you while
talking to the children.
❖ Even if you do not want to be
the one doing the talking, your
family member or friend would
be able to handle the situation
for you, while you comfort the
children.
Have All the Details Ready
❖ Before you decide to tell your
children about your cancer, make
sure that you have collected as
much information from your
doctor about the type of cancer
you have, the stage you were
diagnosed with, the expected
treatment, and most importantly,
the prognosis.
❖ Even though you may not be
aware of everything, not leaving
out relevant information will help
reduce your children's confusion
and anxiety.
❖ You can begin the conversation
by explaining what cancer is,
how it may affect you, and what
it is doing to your health. Tell
them where the cancer is in your
body, and how it can be treated
through medication and
chemotherapy, or removed
through surgery. Depending on
the questions asked by your kids,
you may need to explain what
chemotherapy does, and how
the medication might make you
feel weak and sick on some days.
❖ Sharing specific information
pertaining to your illness will
help the children not get scared
about the things they may have
seen, read, or heard about
cancer. How to Tell Young Children and
Teenagers
❖ If your children are still young
and do not understand the
gravity of the situation, try to
explain your condition in the
form of a story. Thereafter, ask
what the story meant to them.
Encourage your children to ask
questions based on the story.
Gradually, reveal that you're the
one suffering from cancer, while
answering their questions.
❖ Since children tend to have a
vivid imagination, refrain from
using words that may give them
a scary visual.
❖ Sometimes, children start
believing that they must have
done something bad to have
caused the parent's illness. Which
is why, it is better to assure your
children that they are not
responsible in any way.
❖ Let your children know that
other members of the family
cannot catch the cancer. Most
importantly, you will have to
assure them that they are not
alone, and that the whole family
is united to make it through
these hard times.
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 11:28pm On Aug 08, 2013
lanrexlan: Yeah,but proverbs gives the full authority
We do not need the Bible to be
telling us this, most of us have
tried and tested ways to claim
the same. Alcohol, in whatever
form, has at some point of time
caused us to do things
differently. In the very essence of
it, the Scripture does not
encourage you to sin against
your conscience, thus, forbidding
you from doing anything that will
offend yourself and your fellow
beings, in particular.
Consuming alcohol, on the whole,
is not really condemned but
letting yourself give in to
drunkenness, which will lead to a
loss in sobriety, is definitely
looked down upon. Finally, what
matters is not allowing anything
to overpower the mind and the
body, for that which is
overpowered is enslaved.
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 11:26pm On Aug 08, 2013
lanrexlan: Yeah,but proverbs gives the full authority
Woe to those who rise early in
the morning, that they may run
after strong drink, who tarry late
into the evening as wine
inflames them! ― Isaiah 5:11
Entertainment › Re: Q & A: Which Of These Is Your Favourite Nigerian Rapper? by taiocol: 11:20pm On Aug 08, 2013
LOOSE KAYNON
Entertainment › Re: Q & A: Which Of These Is Your Favourite Nigerian Rapper? by taiocol: 11:17pm On Aug 08, 2013
Wat is the dead doing among the living
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 11:10pm On Aug 08, 2013
lanrexlan: The bible advise christians to drink wine and beer to forget their sorrows.
Proverbs 31:6-7 (NIV)- Give beer to those who are perishing,wine to those who are in anguish;let them drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more.
The bible also recommends wine in preference to water.
1 Timothy 5:23 (NIV) -Stop drinking only water,and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses.
if u read no.4 it was stated "Take a little"
Christianity Etc › What Does The Bible Say About loneliness by taiocol(op): 6:12pm On Aug 08, 2013
God Cares
Fear not, for I am with you; be
not dismayed, for I am your God;
I will strengthen you, I will help
you, I will uphold you with my
righteous right hand. ~ Isaiah
41:10 (ESV)
Yes, you heard right, God cares
for you in His ways, and He will
never forsake you. Look at your
loneliness through His eyes,
through your darkest days He
stands close to you, never once
leaving your hand. The Bible says,
call upon the LORD, your God,
when in distress and sorrow,
and you are sure to find solace.
Lay all your anxieties and fears
that come with loneliness on the
shoulder of God, for He truly
cares for you.
Help is Round the Corner
Then the Lord God said, "It is not
good that the man should be
alone; I will make him a helper fit
for him." ~ Genesis 2:18 (ESV)
Everyone of us has a guardian
angel out there, to take care of
us. It is for us to trust in His
providence and His creations. It
is true that often when we are in
the dumps, we fail to see the
help that comes to us. There is
someone for each of us who
truly understands our needs and
heart's desires. Consider this,
love comes in any form, including
pets who are more than willing
to listen to you whine.
Remember to reach out your
hand when you need help.
Sometimes, loneliness is just that
monster that tends to take over
your thoughts, making you blind
to company that's just around
the corner. Truly, all help comes
from the Lord, the creator of
Heaven and the Earth.
Reach Out
But I have trusted in your
steadfast love; my heart shall
rejoice in your salvation. I will
sing to the Lord, because he has
dealt bountifully with me. ~
Psalm 13:5-6
The least you can do is to reach
out to someone else who is in
need of dire company, when you
yourself are tempest-tossed.
Trusting His providence does not
come easy in times of despair
and loneliness, but trust you
must. When you begin to trust
His giving, the burdens are
lightened, and you begin to heal
once again. Be thankful and
reach out to someone in need, it
will benefit both of you. Take it in
your stride, the only way to
overcome loneliness is to open
up to someone. For it is in giving,
that we truly receive.
Hope is not Lost
And about the ninth hour Jesus
cried out with a loud voice,
saying, "Eli, Eli, lema
sabachthani?" that is, "My God,
my God, why have you forsaken
me?" ~ Matthew 27:46 (ESV)
Christ himself has gone through
loneliness and despair and cried
out to the Father in the same
way that you would in times of
loneliness. This just goes to
show, He who has been through
the worst of rejection, dejection,
and persecution shall not let your
cry go in vain. His love is
profound and in your joys and
your grief, He reigns high with
you. It is perfectly fine for you to
feel lonely and down but the
bottom line is, if God is beside
you, you need not fear any
misery and pain.
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 5:40pm On Aug 08, 2013
sseunth: well,to me drinking is not the sin.....geting drunk is the sin
No 4 states 'What you need to
remember ...
And do not get drunk with
wine,
for that is debauchery, but be
filled with the Spirit. ―
Ephesians 5:18'
Christianity Etc › Re: What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 5:37pm On Aug 08, 2013
Yungwizzzy: so what's your point? I should stop drinking? never!!!!!

you can't deceive me!!
who is decieving who
Christianity Etc › What The Bible Says About Drinking Alcohol (wine) by taiocol(op): 5:14pm On Aug 08, 2013
With Jesus himself consuming wine, you would think the Bible supports consuming alcohol. But, the truth could be otherwise, drinking could well be a sin.

One look at the happenings of the New Testament is sure to make you shout with joy. Assuming that, if Jesus himself shared wine with his disciples, then drinking and consuming alcohol cannot be a sin. While wine and other drinks are mentioned in the Bible, it is also true that drunkenness has been condemned and considered a sin.

To really know what the Bible says about drinking, we ought to be clear what it meant by the word wine. Wine, for instance, was the common drink in ancient times, and Biblical scholars are of the view that, the water available for drinking contained pollutants and harmful microbes, which made it unfit for consumption. From what is believed, the alcohol content in wine was needed to kill these microbes, and also to keep ailments and infections at bay.

If all this is to be believed, then we need to consider another factor in analyzing the reference of wine. The alcoholic content in wine back then, and now, is bound to differ, solely because the process of distillation began only around 1000 A.D. To know the truth, let's try to decipher the actual messages from the Bible.

Thus spoke the Lord
Drink no wine or strong drink, you or your sons with you, when you go into the tent of meeting, lest you die. It shall be a statute forever throughout your generations. ― Leviticus 10:9

In the Old Testament, we see the Lord speaking to Aaron, the brother of Moses and the first High Priest, forbidding him and his sons from indulging in alcohol. In Numbers 6:2-3, we see the Lord speaking to Moses, asking him to tell the people that, whoever wished to take the Nazirite vow had to stay away from wine and strong drink.

Abstinence from wine, vinegar, and the fruit itself, here, is of utmost importance for those who wished to be separated and consecrated. During the conception of Samson, as given in Judges 13:4, the Lord once again reminds us of the Nazirite vow, forbidding both Manoah and his wife, from consuming any form of strong drink and wine, and anything that would be unclean.

Wisdom lies in following ...
Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise. ― Proverbs 20:1

Coming to the Book of Proverbs, the central theme is to give instructions for prudent behavior. Here, it's not just the Nazirites who are to abstain from indulgence but also the wise, including leaders and rulers. In Proverbs 31:4-5, King Lemuel explains that wine and strong drink is not for rulers and kings, for it will take them away from what is established.

Woe to those who rise early in the morning, that they may run after strong drink, who tarry late into the evening as wine inflames them! ― Isaiah 5:11

Misery, suffering, and punishment seem to rule the day as Isaiah talks about judgment, and calls for repentance and holiness. Which just means that indulging in the pleasures of the senses was considered to be unholy, and eventually called for the wrath and curse of God.

The lighter side of it
Go, eat your bread with joy, and drink your wine with a merry heart, for God has already approved what you do. ― Ecclesiastes 9:7

Indeed, Solomon's words give us something to cheer about. Taken literally, Solomon's words can be applicable to the present. What the verse actually does is, calls us to trust God and His providence, not just because all else is meaningless, but because it is the Cruz of all life. Psalms 104:14-15 mentions that all things come from God, who joyfully gives food to satisfy the soul and wine to gladden the heart.

What you need to remember ...
And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit. ― Ephesians 5:18

The Bible instructs us to avoid drunkenness and overindulgence, rather you are called to be sober and filled with the Holy Spirit. We, as children of God, are called to tread the path of wisdom and sanctity. In all measures, we, as people, are called to tread with caution, and never let the pleasures of life consume us in a fire.

What alcohol can do ...
Who has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaining? Who has wounds without cause? Who has redness of eyes? Those who tarry long over wine; those who go to try mixed wine. Do not look at wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup and goes down smoothly. In the end it bites like a serpent and stings like an adder. Your eyes will see strange things, and your heart utter perverse things. ― Proverbs 23:29-33

We do not need the Bible to be telling us this, most of us have tried and tested ways to claim the same. Alcohol, in whatever form, has at some point of time caused us to do things differently. In the very essence of it, the Scripture does not encourage you to sin against your conscience, thus, forbidding you from doing anything that will offend yourself and your fellow beings, in particular.

Consuming alcohol, on the whole, is not really condemned but letting yourself give in to drunkenness, which will lead to a loss in sobriety, is definitely looked down upon. Finally, what matters is not allowing anything to overpower the mind and the body, for that which is overpowered is enslaved.
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/what-the-bible-says-about-drinking-alcohol.html
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Was Part Of Al Qaeda “conference Call” That Sparked U.S. Embassy by taiocol: 9:40am On Aug 08, 2013
All Hail 2 bokoboys. So u.s deh say dey nr deh fear anybdy. Boko don make dem run
Politics › Re: Channels Tv Presenters Made To Look Silly by taiocol: 2:13pm On Aug 07, 2013
#SINGING IN ELDEE VOICE#bt i say na wash
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mugabe Wins Zimbabwe Elections by taiocol: 1:00am On Aug 04, 2013
make the old man go sleep na
Politics › Re: Abubakar Shekau Boko Haram Leader Is Dead by taiocol: 7:46pm On Aug 02, 2013
this na wlcum development
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Is Gareth Bale Worth £105m? by taiocol: 7:40pm On Aug 02, 2013
bale is nt worth 25m. Is he beta than cr7, rooney, rvp or ibra. To knw hw much he is worth ask WengeR
Sports › Re: Nairaland's Forum Sport Quiz...you Can Join Anytime by taiocol: 2:47pm On Aug 02, 2013
Divepen: How many players are there in an ice hockey team?
5
Sports › Re: Nairaland's Forum Sport Quiz...you Can Join Anytime by taiocol: 2:47pm On Aug 02, 2013
hope the sport is nt only football
Celebrities › Re: Bob Manuel Udokwu Loses Mum by taiocol: 1:38pm On Aug 02, 2013
2day na only RIP i dey see. Abi him nr use am 4 illuminati or ritual undecided
Politics › Re: APC May Not Last Long- Okupe by taiocol: 1:18pm On Aug 02, 2013
[quote author=P.Stacks]If not disrespect. Can GEJ see Buhari and not prostrate to greet the man.. This is a man that rose thru the Ranks and file of the Nigerian Army, well decorated.. This is a man that has served this country in various capacity tested and confirmed! Yet GEJ is a more prominent person than Buhari..[/quote]he caused the disrespect. And at his age what those he want the presidency for?
Politics › Re: We Shot Our Leader..........boko Haram by taiocol: 1:09pm On Aug 02, 2013
were ar there gettin this trash frm. If phone call cant it be tracked, if through internet wheres is the ip address
Christianity Etc › Re: Who Dominates Nigeria Muslims Or Christains? by taiocol: 1:06pm On Aug 02, 2013
stupid thread
Politics › Re: APC May Not Last Long- Okupe by taiocol: 12:52pm On Aug 02, 2013
payless: Tell that to PDP. There is Anenih, Tukur, Umar Dikko, and many politians in their 70s and 80s in PDP. Worry about people in your party.

Mandela became South African President at the age of 74. The current Indian Prime Minister is 82, Mugabe is 86, and many others are older than Buhari, yet serving honorably as leaders of free world. By the way, what has the youth who got opportunity to serve done in the last 14 years? Bankole, Orji Kalu, Ibori, Fayose, and co come to mind.
pls wake up frm dream, buhari nd Apc knws he cant rule Nigeria, apc need a better Candidate to win Gej, or Gej till 2019.
Music/Radio › Re: Mind The Lyrics: Poor Lyrics In The Nigerian Music Industry by taiocol: 12:22am On Aug 02, 2013
if u need cool lyrics. Try this artist. Mode9, loose kaynon, mi, boogey, iceberg slim. If evrybdy in 9ja were to be me the likes of psquare, wizkid, davido, 2face etc nr go sell one track
Celebrities › Re: Omawumi Beats Up Journalist? by taiocol: 12:16am On Aug 02, 2013
taiocol na 1st to comment. Who b omouwumi
Jokes Etc › Re: Am Giving Out Free MTN N1500 Recharge Card.. by taiocol: 3:10pm On Jul 29, 2013
oya make e make fp. Make our young boys load free card
Sports › Re: Sunday Mba Makes Goal.com Top 50 List. Ranked 24th Ahead Of Ibrahimovic, Pirlo. by taiocol: 3:00pm On Jul 29, 2013
note: He is 25 year old. And who made him hero at nations cup? Na goal there take deh knw hero

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