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Joromi1:
The op doesn't have a clean conscience. Did the lady ask u to sleep with her? What if she finds u more respectable and dignified than the bachelors? Judge urself first before judging the lady's motive

My dear this is not a game of conscience. A wise man learns from other people's mistakes and avoids the same path. I've seen this kind of issue cause serious marital problems and I don't want to tow that line.
Even with a clean conscience, how will she feel if another woman takes her husband out?

Good evening family!
I'll keep the story short.
A young single lady of about 33yrs has been newly employed in our office. She relocated from Abuja.

I am a married man but for the past two weeks she has been begging me to show her some key places in town.

I've given her lots of excuses because something does not feel right about her request. She keeps pestering me daily even though she sees my wedding ring. The disturbing fact is that we have more than 5 bachelors in the office. I'm tired of her. Please how do I go about this?

henryexe:
Few weeks ago I took a HIV test, it turned out negative. I asked my fiancee to also take the test. We don't stay in the same state so there was no way we could go together. Fews days later she said she took it that she's negative too but the Doctor didn't allow her go with the result. I was surprised because I took mine in a govt clinic and went home with my result. She said she took it in a Teaching hospital. So please is this how it is done in Teaching hospitals? I think she's not being honest

Your result is your property even in teaching hospitals. No doctor will withhold it from you.

I have seen wonderful people die from this AIDS virus due to their silence of shame.
Most of them acquired this virus from no fault of theirs.
Please don't die in silence. The Nigerian government gives out antiretroviral drugs for free.

Are you HIV positive?
Don't be afraid!!!
I can help you get your antiretroviral drugs almost at no cost. Your identity is strictly confidential.

Getting ready for their ride to China.

Meeeeeeehnn!!!!

I really wonder if people will play this game with you.

Who told u dt this is a presidential jet?

Seeing a dentist might never be enough. There is something called tonsillolith in medicine (tonsil stones). They are very very smelly and they accumulate in some people's tonsils and cause bad breath. A dentist won't check your tonsils but an ENT doctor should.

The tonsil stones can be removed one by one and in extreme cases the whole tonsil is removed.

Google it. You can do it yourself but if you can't a doctor can help you. No amount of brushing, mint or gum can help you if this is your problem.
I hope this helps. By the way, this is medical advice and I would have charged you for this information.

zeongeon:
If ur engaged in cohabiting u can still turn a new leaf and walk away with ur remaining dignity that's if u still have any but never the less dignity can be restored.

You girls keep saying why aren't the men blamed too but u girls fail to realize that girls are different from men. Women are the pride of a society that's why pple will everly complain when they see girls misbehaving. I bet you wouldn't want ur daughter to cohabit with some random dude whom u have no idea about his family background or where he is coming from and where he is going.

Girls should give themselves brain because when the chips are down they still would be d one to bear the stigma. Some girls hve died on abortion table thanks to cohabiting, some hv been left as single mothers, some can't give there loving husbands children again.

Don't be deceived by feminists civilization..for the way a woman is build u will know she is meant for one man, to be loved and cared for and not ravaged..while the men are made to facilitate reproduction that's why are man can be with so many women and won't be affected or wrecked like woman who has been pounded by so many men.

Now u r talking like a normal human being. I will never be in support of cohabitation but I will also never agree with anybody who says that girls who cohabit deserve no bride price. We all make mistakes and everyone who sincerely turns a new leaf deserves a second chance.
In summary, a girl who for some reason cohabited with a guy and later turns a new leaf deserves a better bride price than some girls who never lived with anybody but yet sleep around town.

Chain!!!! Your confusion is real and it's very painful to be emotionally torn apart in this manner.
Make every effort to turn away from this wave of lust. In a few years time you'd be glad you did.

Well done sister!!!

Amen and amen!!!

vincent72:
You most be an Inresponsible person by supporting such act. I hope u will have a girl child, that will do same.

Self righteous idiot. You have no control whatsoever over any consenting adult's decisions, be it daughter or anybody else

zeongeon:
The truth is as bitter as MAMA F.K. BITTERS so deal with it..why will another guy bang a gurl to remnants only for d supposed real hubby to pay bride price for another mans vomit.

There is no guy that is sex starved or else he decides to starve himself off sex so ur point of calling OP sex starved is void cos sex is so easy, cheap to get and as worthless as white crayon..if wielders and fabricators can bang girls for 200naira in ogun state then what more..an iron fabricator even had a 3some with 2 friends after buying them food and drink infact they co-habited with the iron fabricator till his contract was over in ogun state..constant 3 somes for 6months..

I know your type. Kettle calling pot black.

Rapmoney:
Are u sure u still have those white materials working in ur head?

What right do you have to judge anybody? What's your business with any woman's bride price. My good guess is that you are gay and you will never ever have to pay anybody's bride price.

There is no doubt that you are sex starved and that no girl will ever agree to visit talk less of cohabiting with you.
Rubbish!!!!

When man thinks he has discovered all of God's creation, that is when he's just beginning to discover.

Ur offence is ur very bad English grammar.