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No'' i am father already so no need for now''
Just that my experience last night shows that pregnant women are passing through alot.

Samantha124:
Is your girlfriend pregnant?

Imagine igbo man telling me he is feeding my people'' maybe he mistake me for an hausa or yoruba man'' people that kidnap an hungry man that eats indomie.

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I get ur point'' is not like running away from responsibilty'' bleeping u everyday is boring so sometimes we need to wait like two weeks or 1month so that when we jam everybody go feel the flow'' that is just the truth.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
You mean are men are running away from the responsibility as a husband.

Okay na'' in ur imagination.

na2016:
You are a joker. There will be a rerun or outright cancellation of that 2023 elections. Screen shot this and keep.

So that is your excuse

Puss360:
Lol .. so because I have kids I won't enjoy my life again?...
Men that has kids , that still go out to look for sex nko?

Abeg tell me something else

so if your brother dey mad u will also follow his steps.

That means without dildos' u can't even go 24hours'' chaiih

Puss360:
We aren't talking about me here oo... If you can go a month without sex , I can go 3 months without it....
But remember.....


Dild.dos doesn't count as sex

If the hype about church and christian is real' we would have not been taken the sick to the hospital.

Wodu89:
And you attacked me after saying all this nonsense. How does these edify ?

I just laugh

From ur statements'' can you go one week without sex or dildos.

Puss360:
wonderful

Puss360:
Then the man should get her one or two dil.dos

what do u need dildos for? When u have kids to train and look after?.

the only things that makes dating complete''
1.mouth agreement followed by sex.
Even if we live for 1year or more without sex i don't take you as my babe or ex.
2.sex is a feeling' and whenever you have sex with the right person there are always memories to remember..
3. A girl i was dating some year ago refuse to agree to me' but the moment i bleep her that is where the relationship begin no mouth agreement'' though i know the girls i will call my babe and the ones i will not.

Puss360:
We die here ooo.. dem no gree let me rest... The dragging pass tiger Gen...
Ontop this matter

Puss'' sex is just overrated'' as a man i can go one month without sex at this my ripe age when i am living alone.

Puss360:
Why don't say sex is overrated.... You of all people that like sex " A lot"

You want a man with responsiblities and business plans to bleep u two times every week for the marriage that is above ten or twenty years?

Puss360:
Well, to the OP, I pity the man...
The woman really went too far...
Encounter like dis in the hands of kidnappers can give the man PTSD for life...

Since Money is not the problem of the woman, and obviously she paid those kidnappers, it would have been better if she paid them all to have sex with her...

Her husband is one = 1 rod ..
Kidnappers are up to 3(or more) = 3 rods

So she will enjoy it well..

But the husband sef, na wa... You too try to dey service madam twice a week na,... Wednesday and Saturday night...

For better for worse ...
Court Rise....
Case Dismissed..

Why do u give me PhD'' babe

Puss360:
Lol... PhD in marriage counseling!!! Sex is overrated, oya stay one week no sex, na wahala

I can't frown at him' na him sweet he is spending, but just that you will never see those trillionaires spend their cash this way.
Life is choice.

eventainment:
They all got their crazy fancies that they spend their money on that you will still frown at.

Madam sex is just overrated'' responsible men don't take sex that serious again in marriage.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Seems it has become trend now. Alot of my friends, aunties keep complaining of their husbands starving them of their conjugal right. Is it that more and more men are become less interested in sex or having challenges in getting an election?!

Puss360 come and see ur people.

Na olosho she be' you take her like that or u leave it.

Normal' You will never see dangote or elon buy things like this upon their excess money.

Atiku' planning for 2027' to fail no dey tire u

I have viewed your lifestyle and when we meet in reality i will know how to deal with you''
But toasting chats make it more clear' because from abundant of the heart the mouth speaketh.
Let's continue our beautiful discussion tomorrow, i am weak
I am on weeds now
Have a pleasant night and greet ur husband to be.

Samantha124:
But you can't notice me through chats, I'm unpredictable...

The issue about wrong partners are sometimes so clear but many people easpecially women when money is involved' they think everything is a joke.
And with men who think with their dick.
I can notice half of you through chats' before we can even meet in reality. That is why i don't reply some women in this forum' many of them talk with pride unknown to them because it has become their character.

Samantha124:
That's why I said some and not all.

There are things you will get from ur children'
1.sex
2.that special attention.
And
3. If ur children are not doing well' you will struggle on your own.
4.trauma'' from ur late or ex husband, especially when going across lovely couples.
5. That confidence as a married woman who has a protector'' you know husband and wife are protecting each other.
Do you know why matured unmarried ladies are so quiet compared to the young women?
There are so many things' but just that we accept whatever god give to us and bear the pains.

Samantha124:
For someone who has children, but no spouse... It could either be that the spouse has passed away or he or she has never been married before, but he or she has kids.

What are those things that he or she can't discuss with his or her children?

Your reason for getting married is companion and sex right?' if am not mistaken.
We always complain about wrong partners' what about the good partners' are you telling me there are no more good marriages over there.
In every 80% of bad partners, there is always red flags in the beginning' the problem is people want to change what they can't, thinking your partner will change with time is very dangerous.

Samantha124:
Everyone that gets married thinks that they're getting married to the right person, only for things to not work out as planned for some of them.

Most people my age need companions because the hormones are dealing with us us and in most cases only an opposite sex can help calm them down...

But for people in their 40s and 50s, it's mostly because of loneliness... The children have grown and have their own lives to live.

Giving birth is an achievement for some people while with others, it's not.

The one above me what are you preaching?
There this general problem with womean' i don't know whether i will call it low IQ, love, simping or they are afraid they will not marry again.
Many women always see this signs in the beginning of their marriage but they act dumb and i don't know whether they think he will change or whatever.
Reasons i don't take women serious by their statement' even the one forming holy or hard to get in nairaland. Because majority of women get sense on nairaland but not in reality.
The worst of it is this enduring women will never meet the right person' it is always those senseless women that always meet the right man and will just frustrate his life.
I love ur sister' even though the man is acting irresponsible for now and it seems your sister understand him that is why she is still with him.
Nobody can predict life, and for u to convince ur sister to leave him will not be that easy, just give them time and try to convince the both of them especially the man..''

For the women who has a child or for the woman who said marriage is not an achievement and don't marry. I want to understand something here because it seems i made a mistake earlier.
By then i will give u my reasons.

Samantha124:
Mention at least two of those things.

To know the right partner you have to start from somewhere' which is when you are young.
Even at this your young age you still need a companion what then will happen when you are between 40 to 55yrs old because that is where women feel it the more.
Sama'' let me ask you question. To born children it is an achievement?

Samantha124:
You'll only know whether the person is the right person once you reach old age with him or her.

I want to get married because I don't want to be lonely, I want a companion in my life... But in order for me to get one, he must also agree to the companionship.

Naa'' there are so many things u can discuss and plan with ur husband but you can't do those things with ur children'
I will not mention anything in particular but one thing is that you will never get the attention you get from your husband'' from your so called children.

Samantha124:
According to you, what do you think are those things that a parent can't share his or her adult children?

The word marriage is not an achievemt sound like a threat to the singles because everybody has different imagination'' the important thing is that one should go into marriage when they are financially okay and with the right person' because poverty has end so many marriages.
So since u said marriage is not an achievement' why do you want to marry? What is the reason of getting married? Since there is nothing to achieve in it (marriage)
Enlighten me''

Samantha124:
I don't hate marriage and I'm not condemning it.

I was raised by both parents, my two sisters are happily married, and so far I've never had any bad experiences with men.

So I don't have any problem with it, but I just don't see it as an achievement.

You have a point here''
You see that lonely part it will surely get to everybody because your own children will go outside and marry or even if u are living with them there are things you will not share with them as you was sharing with ur husband.

Samantha124:
I've never said marriage means nothing to me, I'm just saying it's not an achievement... But a lonely old person might disagree simply because loneliness would be dealing with him or her mercilessly.

As for the man who committed suicide, 40 years is a lot of years and he grew attached to his wife to a point that he felt like he couldn't face the world without her.

Loneliness would make you see certain things as achievements when they're not... For example, some people see smoking and drinking as an achievement because when they drink and smoke, they get high and life is good, but some people don't see any achievement in that.

I think the whole thing just depends on the person's view about life in general.