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Oga observe you wife well, if she change her behaviour just lately, there are things you need check..
1.your behaviour toward her in the past and now..
2.check well if there is a man behind the scene..
3.the financial aspect in the house..
4.are you getting close to other women thinking she is not aware..
5.are you still giving her the same attention you was giving to her before.
6.does she have new friends..
7.the important thing is, there's something behind her sudden change of character and that's what you need to figure out before you can find solution to the problem in ur family..

Yamleg:
In what ways do you discipline/scold your wife once she goes out of being well-behaved?

I don't owe any community or world any responsibilty.. Work on yourself and love ones...

The struggle is not funny so don't stress urself with any thing relating to woman when you're not capable..
Is not really the standing but other challenging issue might be the cause

Firstly i borrowed my senior cousin 30k way back in 2019, i borrowed the money from someone since he has a tough problem concerning his health. After when he re-gain his health, i told him to work with me so that i will pay the money myself because i observe him finding it difficult to pay the cash. Atlast he betrayed me by blackmailing my name, but i later paid the money without stressing him because i sense he is not ready to pay the money. But when i've the worst difficulty in my business he was the first man to make mockery of me..
I've alot of experience because i was doing great in an average community some years back..
The truth about the matter is don't lend money to friends and relatives but you can help them if possible and if you want to do remember there are 70% chances you will not get ur money back or likely it might cause a life time enemity..

When will people stop making this useless things going on in church and mosque popular, they're just organizations like others but deceiving theirselves with the believe that they're perfect...

Pictures to back ur claim, audio killing everyday. Lazy nigerian soldiers...

Police is being kidnapped, what about ordinary citizens..

What you get in ur account don't really matter, what matters is how much you make dailly.
That is why tinubu and dangote is still desperate for the cash..

Fighting after another man's property' if you ask me is laziness..
I believe in my ability, so i always work with all my power in whatever field i'm involved to avoid stories like this..
My propertier are meant for my children and wife, if their is anybody apart from them like my mother and siblings, i will do it when i'm alive..

I don't really believe this because the few i came across there is nothing like what you wrote down here, though may be i'm the one that never go across such.. ..

Bobloco:


The issue of big bride prices is relative.

Most families collect little or nothing as bride price; they will implore you, the intending groom, to settle the kindred or village men and women.

what is wrong if she is been buried in her village, do you want your mother to be buried in a strange land, right? When there is no challenge in the village she comes from

What is wrong with burying a woman in his husband's community or compound?

What about the big pride price and a woman been buried in the husband's community, is that one a lie too?

Bobloco:


You heard wrong bro

The guy is not serious with his life for now..

BabyOku2022:
I stopped givin my bf money to help am for over a month now...Yet he still using different ways to try getting it from me.
So I told him that I will give him money only if he look for a job and work ONLY for 1 month.
Then he said he wont work for anyone and look for anytin.Because he didnt go to uni

i was a boss before i became a 2k daily helper worker, even the helper work i have to make some sacrifices so that i'll get work to do everyday..

he has passed stage of doing Labour jobs.
But he needs money seriously.
Is there any way that will push him to go and work?
Because Im not ready 2 give him anytin anymore...

when you see people who has the zeal to succeed it is crystal clear..
My last opinion is you still need to make things clear to him, remember if you where in his shoe he would have done more..

But i heard in that part of the country they don't value their women, that's why they always sell their women out..
Why will grown men will be looking after another man's property when he has a wife and children. If you ask me it is laziness..

I believe christians are the most weak religion, though they're also strong in their own sha, especially against their fellow brothers and sisters..

He has a dream but battling poverty at the moment..

Those lying and like gossip should always pay the price for their evil deeds...

I'm not suprised though, nigerian govt with their petty salaries..

Keep on trying, story go change one day.

This is a normal thing any traveller in this part of the world will go across..

No be lie.

No be lie...

gunners160:
Can Nigeria men stop all this rubbish. If you are dating rubbish does not mean others are dating rubbish. if you have issues with marriage, tackled it , if you have issues with your relshp, walk away or get some one better, Yes marriages is filled with ups and down but please never you look down on the institution. their is nothing that beats two partners with thesame ideology, fighting for dsame goal and want thesame for each other, Men makes sacrifices so does women. IF YOU OWN IS NOT DOING THAT, THEN FIGHT UR RUBBISH NOT THE INSTITUTION.

Very very interesting writeup..

matify83:
E no easy o!

With a mother like this, do we expect him to listen to one babe yarning dust tomorrow?

Your life is private including your parents.. Don't too good in talking..

Not how far but how well..

fyzaila:
This simi that her marriage isn't even up to 10years has been dishing one relationship/marriage advice or the other. She didn't even let the likes of Omoni oboli, Omotola or patron jokè silver that theirs have stood the test of time dish out the advice.

I've same thought, is more like simping or low self esteem.

advanceDNA:


Belejàyan guys....they know they being used but their Low worth/ low self esteem settle for wateva type of woman comes their way...

Women that love simps call them caring and strong men....but we know those are just words for exploitable/ stvpíd men....

If your parents no get money, you gat face the reality of life..
But the truth is you have to be strong because things are not going to easy anytime from.. Work on yourself, if you are able the sweat in your body can help you with a good reasoning..

People taking care or marrying a woman with another man's pregnancy, is it really love or they do it out of pity.
Because i have seen such incidents in four different areas.
I was wondering what is really their target when women are everywhere. Though it is life of choice..