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bamisepeters:
for you to have remembered, you try.


It is better you invite him over to avoid stories that touch the heart.

I just hope the guy will not write Talk2Bella tomorrow telling us to advice him to

o as regards him traveling to meet her.

firstking01:
Even you sef, you no fit.

bamisepeters:
ok, if i can get you, you want it to be that she should post the issue alone here without her advice while we discuss it? Talk2Bella it might be a nice idea...

bi0nics:
Just a question Talk2bella..Why do you like fabricating stories?

Xiadnat:
Fair enough. Maybe so. But, shutting him off isn't a good way to begin earning someone's trust. Baby steps helps.

Alright, enough of this super story. We are on the same page. Next drama please.

motherfucker:
you. I need to hug my pillow.

firstking01:
Tarrrh, no girl fit

Cutehector:
oh lawd!!! I need to stop beeing good...

Cutehector:
u see, two heads Berra dan one

Cutehector:
wat's d right word?

motherfucker:
there are many many fishes, that's not disputable. How easy do you find good healthy fish?

Cutehector:
abi... that is why I don't want to form good guy anymore.. I take it that because you came alone, dah means u need the koko.

Cutehector:
Lol from the look of things, the second time I invited them over, dey didn't want to come again..


Maybe dey wanted sex in the first place

NoMoreTrolling:
-Meet at a public Location

-Pack with you a mace, a taser and a swiss army knife (or better yet, the Russian ones )

-Tell at least two people of your whereabouts, your destination, ETA...

-Turn your phone GPS on and share the update status with the devices of the two people you told of your whereabout

-Pack an emergency clicker that automatically sends a panic signal to either the police or loved ones once clicked

-Be sure to put on a form fitting bullet proof vest

-Pack a portable flame thrower and grenade launcher

-Pack a protein bar, just incase you end up stranded somewhere

NairalandEFCC1:
whats the use, in the end, you will break his heart

Cutehector:
Girls, remember Cynthia Okusogu oooooooooooooooooooo

motherfucker:
That is what you would think that there is many fishes in river. I used to be member of that school of thought until something happened. Trust me, that thought if very destructive that we think.

Xiadnat:
So then, you advocate people hide or lie to their partners about stuff that's personal? And is this healthy emotionally? Psychologically? spiritually? or to certain point, physically? NOOOO.

At some point, everyone should have at least one person they can be open and vulnerable to. If its not your partner, then you should not be with that person at all.

Per your abortion example; it is the right to tell your potential spouse a past like that, if they can't get past it, then so be it. If you hold on to a secret like abortion, what kind of relationship succeeds when it is based on lies and secrets like that?

motherfucker:
No guy who wants to make make a woman become a house wife would agree to let her work in the first place. The dude want her to succeed.

All she has to do is tell what's up ( she hasn't done that but already making up issues on assumptions)

They can get married and decide not to have babies for 3 years till she wants it.

She can take your advise, marry her job and cry later af losing the guy.

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]i see no problem in that.

have you given consideration to the fact that as time goes by her job may become more demanding, supposing the man understands and allows her some time to settle i, does she keep giving him more excuses as to why they should keep raising a family on hold because of her job [/color]

motherfucker:
do you lack comprehension problem?

Cutehector:
sorry I replied late. I just never saw dis mention...



Some ppo"s comments in here sha.. dey do me mk I konk dem

Xiadnat:
I think you misunderstood my post. When I said something is going on that includes anything ranging from other men to just family or self esteem issues etc .

Yes, it could be that the issue is not really another guy. The thing is that's what a relationship/friendship is about--you share your issues with other people especially the ones you are in intimate relationship with.

How can you be going thru a life issue (asides from cheating) and you not let the person you are in relationship know about it. Then, what are they there for? To chop your money or for decoration or for appearances? What?

firstking01:
What a 21st century FooL

NOBODYY:
Talk2bella you give questions and you answer it yourself..
i dont see where we come in anymore
Or do you need my dïck

Xiadnat:
Classic case of ambivalence. Not only is she not sure of what she wants, but it is clearly not you. I mean, you are not her priority. In fact, she doesn't even value you as a friend in the simplest of case.

Something clearly is going on. It's a matter of what. She doesn't even value you as a friend enough to share what's bothering her nor mature enough to be upfront with you because you are spoiling her with all this attention of love and probably money- so she doesn't want give that up entirely. She puts you on hold instead of hanging up.


So yes, this guy is being taken for granted and for a roller-coaster ride. The writing is on the wall. Do not plan a future with someone who is exhibiting these signs. Case closed.

queencalipso:
Often times than not, being in love means being foolish.

izzou:
You are dating a girl who is not working and not schooling for 8 months?

So what have both of you contributed to your personal and collective growth




But Talk2Bella, I don dey suspect you

samuelUMOH:
Then you loose and weep later such men are scarce to come by .Abundance of boyfriend around but scarcity of husbands! You can't marry your career you need to balance the two .Most successful single ladies saying I don't need a man ,in their secrets chamber they are weeping and lamenting going through internal depression .

bamisepeters:
all still boils down to carrying him along, they took the decision together from the start, he must be fully involved in all decision.