₦airaland Forum

iceybux:
it shoukdnt b an issue...I dated a lady she was 12 years older but we respect each other. . but u shouldnt av lied at first. .

LorDBolton:
Lol I was quipped about demanding a babes birth certificate and waec result once I begin to think about wifey'ing here.

bamisepeters:
She has gotten valid point as adoption is concerned, we are in Nigeria where documents are not properly signed in order to work with change. However, for the main time she should try adopt from reputable orphanage homes. Adoption is never a lost of faith in God. Mother-in-laws are always like that and it is normal because every woman want to be proud to hear their grandchildren call them grandma.

You can't say, it might be adoption that will lead to your happiness, i share in your pains but pray to God for guidance and keep the faith.

Cutehector:
nope, he just wants a kid dats all... he is concerned abt what people will say abt him if his wife isn't able to give birth to kids. Dats why he wants a kid by any means.

Cutehector:
I know.

Cutehector:
dats why I mentioned earlier dat her husband shouldn't force her to adopt.. infact if I were her husband, I would prefer her to bring up that idea by herself.

agarawu23:
Screenshot of your convo

saintfellow:
Lol as funny as it look.
The gospel truth is that, whether you are 50years older than him, it does not matter for a lady is suppose to respect her boyfriend, be loyal to him, apologise to him when you do him wrong.
It does not matter even if he is 18years of age.
This should not be an issue at all, If you behave yourself, there wnt be any need for him to tell you to apologise.
Anyways tell him your real age but it still wnt change a thing.

Essence6055:
Please stop dating the guy... He is a child...

Only children use the age factor to get apologizes and state their authority...

Cutehector:
When two people are in an intimate relationship, age should be excused from day to day conversations.



If I happen to annoy her, I shouldn't be too proud to say i'm sorry cuz i'm older.. likewise her.



Mutual respect has to be inculcated else such relationship will be bound to hit the rocks.




Respect is like a fuel that revives love.

Cutehector:
she still won't be happy if she finally adopts..... its good when her mind is totally up for it.

Cutehector:
I think she should listen to her husband... take a year or two and recuperate from the depression.


If she doesn't want to adopt, fine.. her husband shouldn't force her abeg. She's d one hurting, so her husband has to stand by her at this time.

firstking01:
Children only comes from God.

Immatex:
Yes it can count for rape. Please remember rape has diverse definition. It goes beyond forceful intercourse to sex without consent.

Rape victims can enjoy sex and can chose to enjoy it to mitigate pain and hurt.

And for this case study, this is rape within marriage. This subject is highly misunderstood in Africa.

See it from this angle: If you must drink a bottle of beer every morning, what are you?
If you must smoke a stick or roll to be sane, who are you
What should a man who depends on constant every morning sex to feel normal b called?? Is he married to a machine Think about it

herbie27:
True "children are children", but another's biological child can't be yours biologically.

Immatex:
You don't complain of what you enjoy.
Love is unselfish and does not seek it's own interest but puts others interest into consideration.

It's hence rape, an addiction that should be checked

chigoizie7:
It makes him relaxed.

To some people, sex calms them down.


When I am stressed, I look for weed or sex.

firstking01:
Wait for God, HE never disapoints his own....truth is, if you adopt a baby now, you will still born in the course of time...i dnt wanna qoute bible but i'm sure you know the stories of these noble women, sarai, the case of hannah, peninah, elizabeth and etc.

ItsQuinn:
She should please adopt ....there are millions of orphans praying to God to get adopted and have a family. When you adopt it will be a blessing to your life and also to the child's life, it will bring happiness to your home and also to the child ....God can even use that to bless you with your own children. This is one of the things you can do to help humanity. God bless you

herbie27:
Atleast she's not barring.
She should keep trying with prayers anything is possible.

ItsQuinn:
What about ladies raised by a single father

Julian08:
What the lad needed was a challenge and it doesn't come harder than the things I suggested.

ItsQuinn:
generally yes but to me....definitely not hahaha

Proffdada:
Pure Photoshop at work

Wetin shark dey do for tropical waters?

NB: I even forgot about the make up, are there waterproof make up in vogue?

Julian08:
Who told you that? You think by having a girlfriend you'd be less bored? Sorry to say but you'd be miserable if you let what the society tells you to decide the quality of life you lead. Have you tried picking up a novel to read? Fecking hell! You could even try saxophone.