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He just want to be so proud of you...he wants his friends to be seeing you as a very good in law....I don't think anything is attached to that...grow up and develop your mentality sir...he is not trying to control you...I love seeing my son in laws...often...it makes me feeling great.

ststyreal:
Mr saint and righteous man, hope you have not bleep any girl since you were born, if not, as you are pointing a finger at this girl, check, the remaining four fingers are pointing back at you. Smhhhhh

One single mum sighted and disturbing here....we bleep with care and not under age...at 15.? Nooo....we just don't ant her....child's ove is the first she will considered before thinking of my bro

Failed government with failed ppu.

bettercreature:
They are more like Microfinance

Micro finance better...they wiped off my 10k in current account in just one Month as i stopped to to use there bank. They said maintenance fee... I just called the branch manager and told him am coming for him soon and he will pay that 10k cash to me cos he knew about it

silverspringle:
@Op, listen to this... " If u don't marry that girl, another person(maybe someone berra than u) will marry her. Since u know this, back to ur topic, that a girl gave back at d age of 15 doesnt mean anything. It was just a mistake, most girls commit abortion like a 'million' times and still get married with their dirty parts hidden. I ve noticed that even though our parents wants d best for us, they can be very selfish. They want to keep up a face not minding their children's happiness. My fiancé's mum kept finding fault with me but d son stood his ground. That is what i call a man, its not disrespect, its called know ur boundaries with ur spouse and ur family. I told my fiancé that d way ur mum doesn't like me is d way my mum doesn't like u cos she wanted me to marry a richer guy. What should u do? Wisely let ur parents know why u should marry this girl, invlolve ur closer uncles and aunties, let them see reasons with u though it will take a long time but dnt give up if u think she's worth it. My mum will say "that she's has given birth before means she's fertile" lolz... Goodluck

Good luck ko...Jonathan ni...we don't want that bitch...she started bleeping at 15...do you know how many abortions she might have vomited since then till now...you blowing one nonsense advise...face your front and never come here

Sunnytega:
Is it becs she did nt abort d pregnancy?

No but because she started bleeping at 15

Sunnytega:
I don't understand. Does it mean somebody dat has given birth bf can't get married? She only had a child nt dt she's a witch or has one terrible dz dat pipo are afraid of

She only had a child...yes...she did...at age 15...kilode... they swear for her toto ni...we don't drink boredhole in our family

goingape1:
see them!

one cornered brain people
protect again who? the girl did something irresponsible at her youth and you want the op parent to pay for her irresponsible act.

useless women everywhere

Don't mind them...when they started bleeping without condom and future they don't know there will be tomorrow....assholes...everywhere...that lady fit don born 2 to different man

Qriousity:
Bro go ahead with the marriage. Your parents ain't the ones to decide who you marry. BTW, ask them if their own parents did the same to them.

Come and tie them together naa...the girl know say we get character for our house so she go feel the warmth weather

JerryTemi:
Bros I will start from telling you a story and you will make or take your decisions.my girlfriend took in one certain time like that and she had the baby,today that boy is 6 and you won't believe it she got married last year and to grown it all the guy didn't disclose her baby to his family so bros take your ground cover her unclothedness now, call her, tell her not to tell or answer anybody about that baby,you are a man and I will tell you to in for them that such information is not real at all,stand your ground. Don't let anybody to run your life or family for you because nobody will do same to me that is a woman because is my choice.all the best

Bitch....we already knew the girl got a kid...my brother will be her second love and not first becos her child will always come first....continue to give a dead advise to mislead him....we are waiting for him here...you can follow him up to cook the lies very well though

Kakamorufu:
well. follow your mind and don't fret when talking with them.

Buh I must say, your brother is a big bad snitch.

Whatever...we don't want that bitch in our house

Cutehector:
I feel like giving ur brother a slap

Come na...

cutediva87:
what is wrong in marrying a single mom? after all girls marry single dads. plus if it were to be their daughter that had a child out of wedlock will they not want her to get married, or will they advice any man that wants to marry her not to? they are being selfish here.
and you if you already told the girl that the decision rests on you why are you scared now?
my advice: if you love her, go for her they will learn yo accept her with time. especially if she has a good character.

Dem no born him well to marry her...person wey don start dey bleep since 15...you don't know us in our family...you can come over and help him beg naa...

MayowaAleem:
bro follow your heart..

Them no born am well to follow his mind...we go beat the hell outa him...we warning him already before now.

Harun111:
I met this 22 years old girl 1 year ago. We both got along and decided to settle down together.when we met she told me her past and one of the thing she told me about her past is she had a baby when she was 15years. She asked me if my family will allow me to marry her I said that should be my decision.i went ahead to Introduced her to my family which all of them accepted her.but recently my younger brother finds out she once gave birth,he then went ahead to tell my family about it. and they have called the family meeting which I was asked to appear on Sunday.my problem here is I love her so much and we are planning to settle down together this year and my family will want to stop me from marrying her.most her things her in my house. Am kinda confused I don't know Wat to do. Am going through some emotional pains rite now. I don't know if I should tell her, any time she calls my heart beat. Please I need ur advice..

Just know that you are her second love...bro... her child comes first...think welll before you move on idiot...so many single mum can love you till death when they are facing challenges to be in love

TINALETC3:
Hmmmmmm, I jst pity d gal, if she is nt needed in dat family, she kindly walk away, some families cn fight u both physically and spiritually even after marriage, even though ur hubby luvs u. If trouble start later, na she go hear am nt d man

You right...families don't welcome a wife that's a single mum only if the man is a single Dad too

The worst bank I ever see...

suzan404:
Hmmmm....why are you even scared?....you don't know why they called you to appear on Sunday,you're already shaking like a jellyfish.....tell them what you want if they try to go against your relationship.....shikena.....having a baby is not a disease tho...

Pain of a single mum.,..na joke I dey o...but seriously if that guy is Yoruba and he go ahead with his plan...he will regret it.

Anonymous1234:
I want to start this post by saying PLEASE do not judge my situation. (I'll try to be brief. Please ask questions if you have any)

So almost 2 years ago I met a guy online. He was from Nigeria but he was here in the states. No green card. He had a job but lost it later in our relationship. Super sweet. Very attentive. We hit it off immediately, talked and text on the phone all day everyday for about a month.

Then out of the blue he starts acting shady then I came to find out he had a girlfriend. We stopped talking for maybe 2 weeks but started back up again as friends (he told me that he wasn't with her anymore, I believed him) and eventually we became "exclusive" we moved in together.

Since we've been together he has cheated on me several times with multiple different women. I would find him on dating sites messaging women I've found Facebook messages, if messages, text messages. Most of them the women never responded to. Some of them did. Some of them he revealed his real name to and some he gave a fake name. Every time I would out information he would apologize cry, beg, plead for me to forgive him and take him back and I did every time.

I later found out that he was a scammer. He pretended to be other people online. Sometimes men sometimes women to get them to send him money. He would scam people on eBay making up fake PayPal invoices and taking the product and never giving them the money for it.

His friends also have taken people's credit cards and swiped them. He somehow got a hold of people's bank info etc. (I've now come to understand this to be 419 scamming) I never saw any of the money, meanwhile I was working and taking care of us.

Whenever we went out I paid for everything. Vacations. Birthdays. Literally everything. He never pressured me to marry him or asked me for large sums of money. He would ask for money for his bus card or phone bill. Small things like that. I loved him. I supported him. I wanted to help him. I wanted him to do better and be better. I wanted him to change so badly but he never did.

Cut to 2 months ago. I find out he's been cheating again. And in my house. I kick him out, we break up. He's apologizing he's crying he seems genuinely sorry promises to change the whole bit..

The minute I have him another chance he flipped the script. Started acting shady. Was telling me one thing and doing the complete opposite. He would tell me he still loves me and still wants to be with me etc.

cut to 2 days ago I find out on Snapchat that he's in a new relationship and "in love" and taking trips with this girl.

Mind you just last week he wanted to still work things out with me. I'm completely over it now. My question is was I apart of the scam? Or was this just a typical case of dealing with an unfaithful man? I knew he was a scammer. I begged him to stop but he wouldn't but for whatever reasons I never thought he would scam me.

You should know the answer to this your question.he played you like ludo game...well I have a serious guy for you in this state that is ready for marriage...he is a citizen too...and hardworking.

Mimzyy:
She got served what she ordered . I actually thought he was gonna push her into the trunk,lock her in, drive off then leave her stranded somewhere.

Beauty and brain...tell them

ShootToKill:
You sound clearly like a quota-system illiterate. Why is your Arewa skull ashamed of my Biafran skull? Does my IPOB skull really care about what towel-headed cattlemen think? You already know the answer.

Taurudeen, Not a 'nano-fucccck' is given.

Ride on, just continue your protest....waiting to read that story about you too here...idiot.

ShootToKill:
A heart-wrenching RIP to Matthew Essien my blood Biafran brother from Akwa-cross!

Rest on soldier! You didn't die silently under a brown roof like an unknown cowardly dog. While you rest be assured that the struggle goes on, for as long the enemy wants.

I'll will join you one day, as death is our ultimate future.

21 gun salute!

Am ashamed of you with this your write up...Donald Trump don't even know if any one die in America cos of him not to a talk of Nigeria in Africa....am sorry bro if this hurts...but you have to sleep and reset your thinking...God bless

Her hustle pure no be small

sarrki:
No brother

GEJ is the worst on the entire planet

He's part of the mistake Nigeria ever made

As a deputy governor he was a disaster

As a governor he was an epidemic

As Vice President he was a damaged

As president he was a calamity

He's an epidemic to the global peace

U just hating...if he is that bad, he won't ruled all this positions u made mention of...I will love to be like Goodluck Jonathan when I grow up.

Lols...the man to the wife be like wafekulaleyi

Rip to his father

True love for catfish.Clarias gariepinus

Stupid people and front page now a days tire me

Lie Mohammed at work...they will rather join AD...instead of APShit

Eyor1:
Guyman, face reality.. .. We gat two LGAs done and dusted for APC (Opobo and tai).
5 more to go of which 3 are fully APC (Eleme, Oyigbo, Andoni) and the other two will be contested for..... My dear, PDP no get say.

I don hear u

Eyor1:
Hahaha, sowie oh... My area(Rivers East) is owned by APC.

OK...we are coming to beat all of you like small pikin again.we gonna force u guys off from Rivers.

Joy1706:
If he beats her, it's just a confirmation that he is the wrong man for her. Good riddance

And so? There own case is not the first and it won't be the last...better dey settle demself home rather than embarrassing each other in public...na Yoruba ppu dey do DT tin most