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HanisahZuwy:
What? Please say something.

yarimo:
Hahahaha in Anambra state where are the developers na

Rubicon80:
I met this lady at katsina during our NYSC. I talked to her as I do to other corp members no emotions or fillings attached. She visited me once with a guy because we are in different PPA. After years of serving we met again on Facebook we started getting along , emotions and fillings comes though we did not see face to face because she was at Dubia at that time. After which I proposed to her and she accepted and we started working towards it. I lost my job that period she send me money and take care of things - in fact she is a very nice lady. Along the line we had misunderstanding over religious issue because she is born Catholic and am born Pentecostal we couldn't resolve it though she tried , i admit the fault was from me. The communication ended for months. Later I tried making peace with her but she seems mean so I let go, even when she return from Dubia I tried my possible best to see her no way . she later secured admission in UK and traveled. After months or a year of no communication i lost my dad and she collected my number from my friend and call me for condolences which from there we starting talking again. But all has changed. We started talking about marriage again , she get serious today and get fed up tomorrow, she reply my chaat after hours though she I'll be seen online. Today she want me to come to UK tomorrow she stop picking my calls. After a while I gave up. After like months she I'll call me again start asking if I have gotten a girl friend and want me to come to UK . In fact she told me to get my transcript and my documents ready that I'll be coming to UK by September. The problem here is that we don't talk if I don't chaat her she won't check on me unless after months if she wish. last week I sent her a voice note asking her that we need to talk, after hours she replied and said send me a voice note. The truth is that I love her so much. Am not in a relationship since after we had issue though I meet some potential girl but with her in my heart I couldn't do anything. Even when I sent her the voice not concerning our marriage if she is still interested in it or not she has not reply me going to a week now and she has led the messages. I base in Lagos and I earn monthly. All I want is to settle down. What do I do . I'll appreciate your contributions thanks