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Could someone please tell me the meaning of this word and phrase in context please? Someone I like said "No bubu I tickle" is that disrespectful or playful? I could only find two meanings for Bubu one is cotton dress the other is likens the meaning of bubu to mumu meaning idiot or retard etc. What does the phrase 'na u sabi" mean? Please tall me whether it's yoruba or igbo etc thank you very much ![]() |
tpiah: NIGERIAN MEN ARE NOT HARD TO GET MY COMMENTS ARE ALL RELATIVE I AM SEEKING A SPECIFIC TYPE OF NIGERIAN MAN WITH CHARATERISTICS THAT I FIND ATTRACTIVE YOU AND I BOTH KNOW THAT I SPEAK OF THE IGBO TRIBE AND THEIR LANGUAGE SO PLEASE IF YOU HAVE NO MATURE COMMENTS THEN , THANKS ![]() IN ALL HONESTY YOUR SARCASM IN WEAK PLEASE THE POSTER HAD A SERIOUS QUESTION IT MAY NOT MATTER TO YOU AND THAT IS FINE BUT PLEASE TRY TO BE NICE ABOUT IT IF YOU CAN |
apocalypse:YOU ARE RIGHT SOME WOMEN ARE AGRESSIVE AND REALLY ANYONE MALE OR FEMALE WHO REACTS TO THEIR PARTNER LIKE THAT DOES NOT LOVE THEM OR CAN'T FULL APPRECIATE THEM. BUTYOU ARE RIGHT IF A WOMAN OR MAN STARTS TO WANT SPACE ALL THE TIME THEN YOU NEED TO BACK THE HELL AWAY. FAST COS THEY ARE NO LONGER SOLELY YOURS i HAVE LEARNT THAT. iT'S THE HARDEST THING TO ACCEPT ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY BUILD YOUR HOPES UP ![]() |
[b]WELL I AM IN THE SAME SITUATION THERE IS A GUY I MET ONLINE ON FACEBOOK HE IS REALLY NICE BUT HE IS SHY HE HAS ASKED TO MEET ME BUT WE ARE NOT IN THE SAME COUNTRY BUT OUR COUNTRIES ARE VERY CLOSE. I AM WITHOUT A VISA RIGHT NOW SO HE WOULD HAVE TO BE THE ONE TO VISIT. I REALLY LIKE HIM IT IS OBVIOUS THAT HE IS A SHY GUY HE HAS SAID IT AND HIS BEHAVIOUR MAKES IT EVIDENT. BUT I KNOW THAT HE REALLY LIKES ME BECASUE I DREW A PIC FOR HIM AND HE HAS IT AS HIS PRIFILE PICTURE. AND HE HAS BEEN POSTING PLATASHUN BOIZ SONGS FOR HIS STATUS. ALSO HE FRIENDS COMMENT THAT HE REPLIES ONLY OT MY COMMENTS ON HIS PICS BUT THAT HE IGNORES THEN. ADDED TO THE HE CALLS ME HIS LIONESS WHEN REPLYING TO MY COMMENTS ON HIS PAGE. HE ALSO COMMENTS ON MY PICS AND STATUS. THE ONLY THING IS THAT HE GOES TO SCHOOL AND HE WORKS SO HE IS VERY BUSY IT WOULD SEEM. I WONDER IF HIS RECENT NONE RESPENSIVENESS TO MY MESSAGES IS DUE TO HIS BUSINESS SHYNESS OR A CHANGE OF HEART. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO ASK HIM THIS. ![]() HE DID SAY HE WAS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO DATE/MARRY AND THAT HE WOULD LIKE TO TAKE IT SLOW WE HAVE BEEN CHATTING FOR A MONTH AM I MOVING TOO FAST FOR HIM OR EXPECTING TOO MUCH? HIS COMMENT/RESPONCE TO ONE OF MY COMMENTS ON HIS PIC WAS "I AM TO SHY TO TALK TO U" ![]() OH HE DID ASK IF HE COULD SEE ME HE KNOWS WHERE I AM TOO AND SAID HE WILL SEE AS TO HOW THAT PART WILL GO. I THIN YOU SHOULD ASK HER OUT NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THAT. MAY MARRIAGES START ONLINE GO FOR IT I SAY [/b] |
na2day?:OK prophet ![]() |
Scooby1:[b]In all honesty I don't even know what to say because the change is so drastic I wonder if I allow the wrong men into my life. By wrong I mean wrong for me. I tend to leave the situation alone you know? Let it fade away because I am of the opinion I could be wrong but still it is my view that a man should be a man. If he initiates a relationship and for some reason no longer desires the lady he is with he should say so and why so that at least they both can move on in a healthy fashion. Maybe I am asking too much. But when someone goes from hot to cold point blank so suddenly it makes me wonder and feel rather cheated. One of the Nigerian men of whom I speak was married and I did not know he hid it very well. The others were studying. The strange thing is that the two that were studying just stopped talking to me point blank and then out of the blue one who I had heard from in months tried to talk to me today but I was away from the computer. I am sure he thought I was ignoring him but I was in the shower. I left him an offline msg explaining. Maybe I am too much of am open hearted person and I don't protect myself in the best way. But from my experience with Nigerian men I really don't know what to think because I know good Nigerian men are out there I just don't meet them some how [/b] |
rokiatu:Thanks I needed to hear that I feel like a fool for falling for the lines. He didn't get my cookie LOL! but still I wasted my time Oh well moving on |
Ebonyeyes:That is so true. So but what is it with Nigerian men an the LIES/SCAMS? Sha, such a turn off. I keep gettign approached by Nigerian men but I notice that they tend to go cold so quickly is it a cultural thing? Cos I don't get that with men from other countries. |
rokiatu:OMG you know he did don't even joke about it. Sometimes I wish I werent such an honest person because whe I speak I do so from the heart. My mom says there is worse out there and it makes me cringe to think that I will come upon more suiters who as idiots. Yet play as if they are nice men. How can you be too busy for someone even if you have school n work as a man? Find time for your lady, because when you approached her you knew you had other obligations. More over taking it slow does NOT equate avoidance. Some men are jerks and some women are bitches. The jerks should go mess with the Bitches and leave the good woman in peace. |
IN ALL HONESTY I WOULD LIKE A NIGERIAN MAN I AM A JAMAICAN WOMAN. MY REASON IS THE CULTURE AND THE FAMILY ORIENTATION OF NIGERIAN MEN. I KNOW NOT ALL ARE LIKE THAT BUT I WOULD LIKE MY CHILDREN TO LEARN THE YORUBA HAUSA IGBIBIO AND OR KAFANCHAN LANGUAGES AND HAVE A SENSE OF BLACK PRIDE AND IDENTITY. WESTERN CULTURE IS TO SATURATED WITH EUROCENTRIC VIEWS. I HAVE BEEN WITH A NIGERIAN MAN BEFORE AND IN ALL HONESTLY THAT WAS THE ONLY TIME IN MY LIFE I EVER FELT LIKE A WOMAN. ERGO MY CHOICE. NOT ALL NIGERIAN MEN CAN DO THIS SOME TRUELY HATE THEMSELVES BUT SOME ARE REAL MEN ![]() |
rokiatu:Rokiatu no it's not ok because I don't see why a man would want to initiate a relationship go cold get hot go cold and then ignore a woman and with no explanation not even so much as a am sorry I am busy right now. This is after the saying of the nice things mind you things like "you are my world" and the rest of it. UGH! men are confussed creatures. All this is making me want to be a nun. ![]() |
Tee_Jay:I think that men that say I love you a behave in an estranged manner ruin relationships. If a man wants to be with a woman say so if it changes say so please stop play with peoples hearts and minds. It's not right. People who a are hot and cold in relationships should not be in relationships cause they are not ready. |
Comunication is Key. It's really good to read signals but I think it's ok to say exactly what you prefer not with all things but if you need time or space for an extended time please say so and let the person know that you really do have few things that you are dealing with that you really just dont wish to talk about. To me that is the mature thing to do that is is you want to keep the relationship alive.[color=#000099][/color] |
Seriously tho do guys ever mean anything that they say to women? cos the same guy that said I am his world is going out of his way to ignore me. Guys play so many mind games it's even worth the time. Evey woman should just become nuns. It's like Jill Scott said "How would you feel if you would up and there were no coco wombs to carry you babies" When will african men start to value their women? This is too much fo me sha , I quit!!! ![]() |
Numba tree rilly had me thinin DAMN BUt dat moment has passed you ting da guy is serious? ![]() Hmmm Guys r trickie soooo ![]() |
The sweetest things I guy has ever said was and I quote [they are as follows] 1) U r ma world 2) wen eva I on 2 smile I come to your page 3) I wish your eyes could open to see through my heart then you would see that my heart cries for your love my lips yearn for your kiss and my brain never stops thinking abt u , ![]() I tnig numba 3 ws di HOTTEST What you ting? And yes all from da same guy. Added question do you guys rilly tin da online relationships can workout? Am curious sims to b da craz nw a dayz |
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