prodigy123:

Hi,

Me n your sis could hook up. Holla - abegunde.tosin@gmail.com

egire:

please i no mind if u can connect me to your sister,am complete african man

No2Atheism:

u guys shuld get a life and stop lookin for a source of green card.

SeanT21:

I am in the south also.The south is better. Cheap and Beautiful

He was just passing there  to give out some free money, 

oyinda.:

na2day, translation??

tpiah:

the thread should even be about "How can a Black American woman avoid all these naija guys wey dey chase me".

Ebonyeyes:

Just have to open your eyes, some just want the papers and will divorce you as soon as they get the papers.

Tayo okora:

That is so true. So but what is it with Nigerian men an the LIES/SCAMS? Sha, such a turn off.
I keep gettign approached by Nigerian men but I notice that they tend to go cold so quickly is it a cultural thing?
Cos I don't get that with men from other countries.

Ebonyeyes:

Just have to open your eyes, some just want the papers and will divorce you as soon as they get the papers.

Scooby1:


No it is not a cultural thing, it is more an individual thing. Tayo did u bother to ask these guys why they went off you so quickly?

[b]In all honesty I don't even know what to say because the change is so drastic I wonder if I allow the wrong men into my life. By wrong I mean wrong for me. I tend to leave the situation alone you know? Let it fade away because I am of the opinion I could be wrong but still it is my view that a man should be a man. If he initiates a relationship and for some reason no longer desires the lady he is with he should say so and why so that at least they both can move on in a healthy fashion.
Maybe I am asking too much. But when someone goes from hot to cold point blank so suddenly it makes me wonder and feel rather cheated. One of the Nigerian men of whom I speak was married and I did not know he hid it very well. The others were studying. The strange thing is that the two that were studying just stopped talking to me point blank and then out of the blue one who I had heard from in months tried to talk to me today but I was away from the computer. I am sure he thought I was ignoring him but I was in the shower. I left him an offline msg explaining. Maybe I am too much of am open hearted person and I don't protect myself in the best way. But from my experience with Nigerian men I really don't know what to think because I know good Nigerian men are out there I just don't meet them some how [/b]

Tayo okora:

IN ALL HONESTY I WOULD LIKE A NIGERIAN MAN I AM A JAMAICAN WOMAN. MY REASON IS THE CULTURE AND THE FAMILY ORIENTATION OF NIGERIAN MEN. I KNOW NOT ALL ARE LIKE THAT BUT I WOULD LIKE MY CHILDREN TO LEARN THE YORUBA HAUSA IGBIBIO AND OR KAFANCHAN LANGUAGES AND HAVE A SENSE OF BLACK PRIDE AND IDENTITY. WESTERN CULTURE IS TO SATURATED WITH EUROCENTRIC VIEWS.
I HAVE BEEN WITH A NIGERIAN MAN BEFORE AND IN ALL HONESTLY THAT WAS THE ONLY TIME IN MY LIFE I EVER FELT LIKE A WOMAN. ERGO MY CHOICE. NOT ALL NIGERIAN MEN CAN DO THIS SOME TRUELY HATE THEMSELVES BUT SOME ARE REAL MEN

Ebonyeyes:

Just have to open your eyes, some just want the papers and will divorce you as soon as they get the papers.

na2day?:

didnt i tell u got your back? stop worrying about naija men, the right one will be coming soon

OK prophet

I HAVE BEEN WITH A NIGERIAN MAN BEFORE AND IN ALL HONESTLY THAT WAS THE ONLY TIME IN MY LIFE I EVER FELT LIKE A WOMAN

tpiah:

since when did nigerian men become so hard to get?
Is there something I'm missing here or is the thread sarcasm.


anyway, offtopic:

"Igbibio"
that's a new one. abi na new tribe.





naija males= universal panadol

NIGERIAN MEN ARE NOT HARD TO GET MY COMMENTS ARE ALL RELATIVE I AM SEEKING A SPECIFIC TYPE OF NIGERIAN MAN WITH CHARATERISTICS THAT I FIND ATTRACTIVE YOU AND I BOTH KNOW THAT I SPEAK OF THE IGBO TRIBE AND THEIR LANGUAGE SO PLEASE IF YOU HAVE NO MATURE COMMENTS THEN , THANKS

IN ALL HONESTY YOUR SARCASM IN WEAK PLEASE THE POSTER HAD A SERIOUS QUESTION IT MAY NOT MATTER TO YOU AND THAT IS FINE BUT PLEASE TRY TO BE NICE ABOUT IT IF YOU CAN

Tayo okora:



NIGERIAN MEN ARE NOT HARD TO GET MY COMMENTS ARE ALL RELATIVE I AM SEEKING A SPECIFIC TYPE OF NIGERIAN MAN WITH CHARATERISTICS THAT I FIND ATTRACTIVE YOU AND I BOTH KNOW THAT I SPEAK OF THE IGBO TRIBE AND THEIR LANGUAGE SO PLEASE IF YOU HAVE NO MATURE COMMENTS THEN , THANKS

IN ALL HONESTY YOUR SARCASM IN WEAK PLEASE THE POSTER HAD A SERIOUS QUESTION IT MAY NOT MATTER TO YOU AND THAT IS FINE BUT PLEASE TRY TO BE NICE ABOUT IT IF YOU CAN

Tayo okora:



NIGERIAN MEN ARE NOT HARD TO GET MY COMMENTS ARE ALL RELATIVE I AM SEEKING A SPECIFIC TYPE OF NIGERIAN MAN WITH CHARATERISTICS THAT I FIND ATTRACTIVE YOU AND I BOTH KNOW THAT I SPEAK OF THE IGBO TRIBE AND THEIR LANGUAGE SO PLEASE IF YOU HAVE NO MATURE COMMENTS THEN , THANKS

IN ALL HONESTY YOUR SARCASM IN WEAK PLEASE THE POSTER HAD A SERIOUS QUESTION IT MAY NOT MATTER TO YOU AND THAT IS FINE BUT PLEASE TRY TO BE NICE ABOUT IT IF YOU CAN

tpiah:

relax.

and you do know there's a tribe called Igbo and another one called Ibibio, right?

Igbibio is news to me, hence my comment. So, no, I didnt have any idea which tribe you were referring to.

or is your guy Igbo and Ibibio?

Black_Revo:

My sister she is a Jamaican and would not know the right spelling for the tribes or could easily make mistakes, all you had to do was to correct her in a polite and friendly way. Take it or leave it she is your sister just like a nigerian girl is your sister as well. We all trace our origins back to Africa so be friendly to your sister in the Caribbean and be happy/helpful that they are hooking up with African brothers. You could have simply said there is igbo and ibibio sister so which exactly are you referring maybe i can be of help with more description.

Black_Revo:

My sister she is a Jamaican and would not know the right spelling for the tribes or could easily make mistakes, all you had to do was to correct her in a polite and friendly way. Take it or leave it she is your sister just like a nigerian girl is your sister as well. We all trace our origins back to Africa so be friendly to your sister in the Caribbean and be happy/helpful that they are hooking up with African brothers. You could have simply said there is igbo and ibibio sister so which exactly are you referring maybe i can be of help with more description.

tpiah:


easy on the waterworks.

Last time I checked, Jamaicans are better able to stand up for themselves than Nigerians.

neither do i hear any jamaicans whining about how bad their leaders and life are treating them.

So your concern is rather superfluous, imo.

in other words, back off!!! There was nothing rude about my post and learn to pick your battles.


geez- you naija guys are so annoying when you start your woman wrapper ways!!!

Una dey too local, I swear. Fresh off the boat and person no go hear word again.

If it's not "oh, australian aborigines and solomon islanders are the best type of women", it will be "Did you know amazon rain forest dwellers are the best in bed"

ara oko wo ilu

That is so true. So but what is it with Nigerian men an the LIES/SCAMS? Sha, such a turn off.
I keep gettign approached by Nigerian men but I notice that they tend to go cold so quickly is it a cultural thing?
Cos I don't get that with men from other countries.

oyinda.:

@topic, I think a pig could get a nigerian guy.

oyinda.:

^ i'm sorry sir

i mean, sorry OP, u have to be a beautifu, super well rounded girl to get a naija man