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Sleekskin:
Honestly, who cursed Nigerian men with their archaic mentality.
There is serious problm among d men folks dat must be addressed asap. U hate ursefs, why?

Let's assume u nat gay, fyn its acceptable. A man admires u or walking up 2 u pose no threat, so why shame or assault him. Dz is a terrible mindset. Y hate ur fellow gender 4 admiring u. Simply tel him off politely. U can apply violence if d nid arises, in case of sexual assault or harrassment.

Some stupid hypocritical dunderheads hate gay men but cherish gay women. Smh.

D women u are desperate to fvck reject u 4 fellow girls but u luv dem still. Sum men are kul dating bisexual girls, nd bin frnds with gay women. Mention gay men, n watch dem go mad with urge 2 harm dz marginalized dudes.
Its cruel n unfair. Why are most men stupid, angry n hateful 2wads demselves.

I hav had gr8 intimacy wit 2 guys. We deepthroated, kissed, cuddled, caressed, BJ'ed, romanced, licked/sucked nipples, gist, played n it was memorable.

Minus sex, men can explore demselves.

HillaryNelo:
Angry gay man lol.

Flamemignon1:
Wow......
Would you say the same to a bisexual woman?

InsideLove:
Lagos

SarkinYarki:
He remains a National Hero

JoyousFurnitire:
@TechBlogger

InsideLove:
Helpe me ask him.

Joeyfizzo:
Lucy Akpan Udo..... U don't Look like someone that is suffering....lol

ZombieSlaughter:
So the guy been dey show una pepper.

That guy is my hero.

BeardedmeatR:
It's a glitch which works sometimes.

OnyeOlokoro:
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solasoulmusic:
I get that all the time… I was educated through failure

Sleekskin:
U dont go about casting aspersions on ur gender personality bcoz of their supposed sexuality. Datz totally gross yunno. Men are their own enemy.

Most men are juz too cold n rigid, filled with hate n extreme toxicity.
U giv women unlimited freedom 2 effortlessly xprez their sexuality, but threaten, brutalize, bully n demean ur gender 4 doing xame.

D evil society u create wil eventually consume y'all. Kip assaulting innocent gay men dat did not harass u.
My sympathy to gay people dat hav suffered injustice n RIP to doz who died due to d marginalization dey suffered 4rm homophobic idiots.

rymzo228:
Available

Stallionhorse:
First of all.. You bore him during sex.. Secondly the man is tired of wasting sperm on you with no outcome (Child) my dear go and do fertility test, study your body the next time you raise the issue and he fuvvks you make sure you conceive or pack your things and leave..
I'm sure this things your facing is as a result of your over knacking when you were younger.. Now your brought a wide. Dry hole into marriage to use and suffocate somebody's son.. It shall not be well with you.

steryj:
This is why I hate to belong to the living if there is another chance to be on this planet earth again.

seanwilliam:
Im so sorry for your loss. May God gives you the fortitude to bear the loss.

To other people reading this , Pls take care of your parents whilst they’re alive ..

Dosoq:
Was once in your shoes, I lost my beloved mum 2018 November, I'm yet to heal.

I really took care of her by asking her to get a referral letter from lagos hospital (when they were just turning up and down) to uch ibadan cos I reside in ibadan.

I was 7months gone(pregnant) when she came over,was always going to the hospital with her even in my condition, she did surgery and all,but i lost her exactly a month after I gave birth.

If I tell you that I miss her every passing day,there's no day I don't remember her,as I type this,I'm shedding tears.

One of the things that help me heal are those memories we share,her smiles,her jokes and all.

I'm also the last born and we were the closest in the family which was evident to my siblings.

I'm now an orphan,but God has been faithful.

She's gone to rest, take good care of yourself.

ShenTeh:
I quite understand this feeling very well.

June 2016 I lost my mum and I became very depressed. While trying to get over that rude shock, I lost my immediate elder sister October same year. I was completely devastated. Death lost its worth for me, more so life and living.

It is a tough place to be. Time will heal you but if the affection is deep, it would take a very long time.

Ps I still shed a tear or two just 2 nights ago before I slept off.

MetaPhysical:
Op, your mother transitioned from a physical state to a metaphysical state.

I know Im going to get a mention for typing my moniker but thats ok.

There are three phases of this life, they are partitioned from the other. Those stages are

1. Prelife
2 Life
3. Afterlife.

Life is a continuity through all three stages and is never extinguished but transforms.

It goes like this...when a child is born they already carry in them the imprint for reproduction. In other words they come out of womb with a capacity for recreating ancestry.

The fertilization stage of sperm and egg is a manifestation for that ancestry to experience life. In the womb the life has no knowledge of time, space or distance...it exists in a void. Life is where experiences happen to know, to taste, to touch, to feel and to see. Then a muvh richer and better experience lies ahead when life transforms into afterlife. We become like bird, we can at once see everything, be everywhere, touch every link up and down in the ancestral link.

In afterlife we can experience a ancestor of 300yrs ago or a descendant to be born 500yrs in future. Imagine a baby in womb, inexperienced, dependent and need an adult to care and nurture its development. That is a relationship between life and afterlife. They are in the metaphysical state caring for us, looking out for our best interest and grooming our development. To them, we are in the womb of life.

So your mother is not dead. Keep her in your memory and remember she is looking out for you. When you need something that she cannot provide she will reach to your ancestral link and ask for someone to get it to you so you will be okay. So remember to pray and love her and as well your ancestors because you are in the womb of life and they look out for what is good for you.

Dont forget your mom, keep her in loving memory and stop saying she is dead. She lives in afterlife with your ancestors and descendants. Your descendants cannot come to your aid because they are in prelife and are yet to know what living is....unlike ancestors, they have passed through it, they know, and can bring solution to a dillema in your path.

You do a disservice when you think of your mom and past ones as dead. They are in afterlife, love them, adore their memories with flowers, nice incence, good perfume, white clothings, cook their favorite food and give out in alms...particularly on their birthday or afterlife day. Tell them to come be with you and love you.

Fairandlovely:
going through same,,lost my mum a month ago nd it hasn't been easy,,saw when d doctors nd nurses fought hard 2 resuscitate her but she still left me

tinacrl01:
I feel the same way when I lost my dad..my mom died last year Oct and my dad died April this year your will not understand how I’m feeling now about there deaths

nnamdi640:
For me to overcome mine, am sure God will give you the heart to overcome yours. 5:05pm, 16 November 2019 can't just escape my mind. I left her healthy just to come back from work met her rolling on the ground. My brother, this world is nothing.

purpleicious:
Almond
Mmansang Mbakara in my local dialect

frozen70:
You have to be very strong if you realy want her to get to her final destination

And if you realy want to move on with life

Once she is buried, you will start getting back yourself

Don't be surprise, she will visit you and talk to you to move on that she has gone to prepare a place for you

God is your strength

solasoulmusic:
Thanks and the moniker matches the real sex just so you know. Mum is able walk around easily foot is back to normal quick thinking

Divay22:
I heard there's a way you can rectify it on jamb portal.

Ferrytech:
once had a friend too (he went to a baba place for yahoo juju .only for the man to do osole gigbona for him) his mum died that very day(but seem he has mental problem now

Lataability:
that Story is lie, na the security of that hotel and some tout beat that boy to death because he break there television

Ferrytech:
i dont support plusing your hustle

Fearme344:
God i need this kind of blessing please.. somebody send prayers to me please