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HarkymTheOracle:
Been expecting someone to say this.
You took the words right out my mouth.
That girl is a cultists whose aim is to initiate him.

exactly

PerfectlyPerfect:
I kept scrolling and looking for someone who will say this. You're totally right, that babe is a cultist too. I know because I've seen this same scenario play out several times

exactly

Glory147:
Dear Nairalanders, Please I Need Your Opinion About A Crucial And Disturbing Matter.

Seven (7) Years Ago, I Had A Dream Where A Man Walked Up To Me And Showed Me A Group Of People In Bondage. This Man Told Me That I Was Destined To Save This People From Bondage But There Is Something I Must Not Do. The Man Said I Must Not Have Sex With Any Woman Until I Am Married.

At The Initial Stage, This Instruction Was Easy For Me To Keep But Presently, There Is A Strong Pressure On Me.

I'm In A Relationship And I Have Asked My GirlFriend For Sex Because I Want To Act Normal Like Every Other Guy But She Keeps Denying Me The Upportuinity To Have Sex With Her. And When Ever She Agrees For Us To Have Sex, Something Just Happens And We End Up Quarreling. My Relationship Is Actually Not Working And I'm Loosing Control Of Myself.

To Make Matters Worse, My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian, And I Never Knew Until We Had A Heated Argument "Can You Imagine What Fate Brought To Me "

I Don't Know If It's This Dream That Is Affecting Me But Staying For Over 27 Years And Still A Virgin Is Killing Me. I Really Don't Know What To Do.

That's a very good decision my man, but make sure you've not been masturbating because if you are; hell still awaits you.

subcbouy:
oh you shared my view. Can you join me in coffee's table?

yes of course

Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.
During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.
Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).
She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.
I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.
From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.
When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.
I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.

She is a cultist as well, her mission is to initiate you! Don't neglect the power of dreams, dreams usually come to reality in a case like this, though it might not happen exactly as seen but believe you me, it will surely happen in a similar way, human soul is powerful and I have experienced the power of dream.

cat and dog, Las Las they will be best of friends

From my observation, it seems girls cheat more than guys and they lies a lot.

Vega100:
kai God!!! Why am I not you? Kai!!!
The way I for use fvck that girl eh!!! I for fvk her shegge her 2 legs for dey shake for ground!!! When I am done, I'll mind my business like nothing happened!!!

you can't fvck it all bro, few minutes you lay and the urge is gone!

Attention seekers

Ok

AmazonHippolyta:
Ask your lady what else you can offer her she would be in a much better position to answer you.

but you raised the topic yourself. Though she said money,money,money,and money

AmazonHippolyta:
At least you have agreed that that is what they want in a relationship. Hope you all will not complain and call them leeches and goldiggers when they start askibg for money?
Nigerian men are the reasons why ladies ask for money because they believe money is the only thing they can offer a woman

Tell me what else men need to offer, please

My man, money first and all these nonsense stops, are u happy with your current financial situation? If yes; that means what she said is true, but if no; that means she definitely found a richer guy and she formulated an excuse which will make you feel wrong. Don't blame her though, just forget her and double up your hustle my man because nobody loves a broke niga. Don't let any girl stop your ambition.

netpro:
This could be her opportunity to settle down and put the temptations in the past. Don't ruin it for her. If your friend finds her good for a wife, that is good enough. Most likely your friend had already test-drive her engine too. So he is guilty as well.

If the truth is told about how many men your wife (or future wife) slept with before marrying you, you will be shocked.

Btw, your friend may already know or have heard the rumours but love as she is.

Bros mind your own business. And give them the support they need to both settle down and have a family.

True talk! Unmarried males and females sleeps around and the OP is not exclusive, most will stop when got married.

AccessME:
After 4yrs in the University with Lot's of frustration, carryover, sleepless nights and humiliation, I ended up not graduating now I'm depressed contemplating Suicide. Trial time 4 me

those that graduated how far? Hope they all working in the oil company?

Thanks be to God Almighty! This bad one is not from Nigeria!

Deepfeel:
But you have a close friend or a brother/ family member you discuss heart to heart stuff with that's what I mean

yes of course, not that I don't have friends but I don't like keeping best friends

Godsage:
Only losers dont have best friends..

I don't have a best friend

Deepfeel:
Even criminals have best friends, any man without a best friend has a questionable personality, all men have that special person, just say not all men are into premarital sex simple

I don't have a best friend

I think i have Gerascophobia because i believe getting older brings one closer to the grave.�
I won't say i have Thanatophobia because almost 97% of humans has this problem.
Please what should I do to get rid of Gerascophobia in me?

One of the things that makes Nairaland fun is the funny replies from funny members, so those replies are highly welcomed!

What did she came to do?

Embracegossip:
Nigerians was celebrating the new cheat on board before a girl on Twitter reported the cheat but Nigerians rained hailstone on her.

It was reported she found the cheat posted on "FLUSHREVIEW" Telegram channel and decided to report the cheat to MTN because it didn't work for her.

See photos:

she was looking for rewards and fame, but she didn't blew the whistle in a smart way.

GistMore7:
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liar! This is Dj Derek, Flavour's immediate younger brother.

lilianofentse:
I know. I was confused cos you just stated it outrightly in a public forum. Its a confused emoji right? I even followed you back

alright

lilianofentse:
I love you too :-/

that emoji though, just admired your maturity, smartness, and beauty. Nothing else

lilianofentse:
you have cctv to monitor her?? Or cos she tells you she's an indoor type and you're always lucky to meet her at home That's the oldest trick in the book dude. She's not sexually attracted to you. EOD

I love you

Apeshy101:

Apart from my first and second ex, the highest I've spent on a girl is the recharge card I use to call them.


Currently I'm with two and a third one is really disturbing me.


I wonder where men that beg for se..x are from.

Come closer, you need a knock

baba say e sure for u doesn't mean others are fools or dem no sabi. Though the OP na big time fool sha