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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by chrismex(m): 7:14pm On Jul 11
First of all, the relationship do you really want something serious like taking it to next level. If no. Then leave her and move on. But if yes, this is what i advice.

1.watch her very well she is ignorant, sometimes ladies don't take somethings serious. Sit her down and talk to her make her know she needs to be careful.

2. You should try and lay low no too much public hang out or allowing people know you guys are dating.

3.The problem is trying to make the girl understand and to also be sure if she too want something serious out of the relationship. If she just want to have fun my dear, leave her your life is precious but if she too want more. You guys need to use wisdom. I won't advise you to leave someone you love, this is what makes you a man you need wisdom to follow this kind of situation.

Be cautious, be careful most of all observe your girl to know if she is just ignorant or just love the attention she is getting and want to rock her life.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by chrismex(m): 7:21pm On Jul 11
simplesearch:
The girl don't love you a hoot she's an initiate and will want you to belong as well, her tell tails of cult guys all hitting on her at random is a calculated attempt at instilling fear in you which will lead you to seeking for a way out, of which she'll eagerly sermonise you into joining them and be free, and once she succeeds that's when you'll know she's a member, she'll eventually desert you to prey on other campus newbies. Her show of affection is to get you entrapped like delilah to samson, she's on a mission and so acting out a well rehearsed script, play safe and don't take a fearful leap into an unknown abyss, end the romance as fast as possibly now. However your best bet at this point is to surrender your life to Jesus AND seek help from some committed christian group on campus, be consistent in your decision and watch her leave you in no time. If you however resort to self help, be sure they'll come after you and once you are found to be defenseless you'll be coerced into joining them. And once this happens be sure your academic life will suffer and your chances of graduating with your head on your neck is 50/50. Jesus is the safe place. PEACE!


I respect your opinion, but don't just conclude she doesn't care about him I have been in this situation. Some girls don't know the gravity. She might just take it like it's nothing.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Matam(f): 7:22pm On Jul 11
Love dey make you blind abi? Why is she surrounded by such people to the point she has a friend that can confidently invite her to their meeting. Bros shine your eye o
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by owoeyeadeyinka(m): 7:26pm On Jul 11
You must be stupid for saying that, let your brother go and be the hero in such circumstance.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by bezimo(m): 7:29pm On Jul 11
Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Guy don't be stupid..some of us have been in your shoes..Run and block her or else you will regret if you don't.Mark my words..
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by ImaIma1(f): 7:36pm On Jul 11
Fight for your girlfriend and die for all the guys out there whose girlfriends have been snatched by cultists.

It's a good cause to die for
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Xbursta(m): 7:40pm On Jul 11
Datazone:

My bad, I was thinking Northerners don't do cultism like that. Are you done with school? Have you contacted Rose since?


i'm done with ND going for a DE to continue in university

As for Rose we haven't spoken in a while but i believe if we are truly meant for each other, we gon end up together.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by sisisioge: 7:53pm On Jul 11
Timil:
A friend actually suggested that I should stay in the relationship but we should stop with the PDA and limit how we communicate in public for some time just to confuse the gang members.

What the heck are you still saying? You want the friend to break the news about how unfair your demise is on twitter? Go find your love in front! By the way, what kind of girl are your chasing sef? Na only she dey school wey cult boys dey notice? No be one, two...5! Don't get wasted dude!

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by dboY1123(m): 7:59pm On Jul 11
Remember that if they kill you, you will die.. grin

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Timil: 8:02pm On Jul 11
MyphoneandI:


Which school are you in, dm me or WhatsApp
For what specifically bro?... sorry if I'm being inquisitive.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by kamtrix(m): 8:21pm On Jul 11
Guy, e be like say to die dey hungry you. Abeg run away. Try to reduce all communications with her especially public. No be 1 cultust, 4!!!
Unless you sef want to join cult for protection.

She knows something you don't know. Maybe she's in a female cult even though she looks innocent.

Please don't toy with your life. Girls full your school. Stop Being naive.[b][/b]
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Martinsvp1(m): 8:23pm On Jul 11
I feel like giving you a dirty slap and hot knock on d head combo...

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by samtol4(m): 8:23pm On Jul 11
The purpose you are in university is to study and become a better person. This cults vs GIRL vs you wahala are serious distraction to your destinies. Cultism is not boy"s scout nor brigade..... For now cut ties with that girl before something messy happen to you . U love her ? love is good but not at the expense of your life . A word is enough for the wise...
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by samtol4(m): 8:24pm On Jul 11
grin
Martinsvp1:
I feel like giving you a dirty slap and hot knock on d head combo...
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by itemj2k(m): 8:33pm On Jul 11
she is a cultist, and wants to drag you in, forget all the stories, she is preparing your mind
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Balolord123: 8:41pm On Jul 11
Freehuman:
The question now is if she loves you not if you love her.
She's definitely not innocent and she's definitely stupid is she's innocent. When a girl is in a relationship and keeps telling you her male friend invited her and she went out with him dump such girl . She can't take decisions for herself and doesn't know what she wants.

If she loves you and is innocent of cultism, let her tell the cult guy that she doesn't want him for a boyfriend and if he insists or threatens find 50,000 naira go pack 25 soldiers armed to their teeth for barracks make them arrest the cultists wey dey worry the girl place them for guard room make them sign undertaking say if them rape the girl or anything do am them go shoot them. No do make dem sabi say na you. The Girl fit yan the guy prior to this raid that her favourite uncle who always shower her with gifts is a high ranking military officer. Believe me guys go distant from the girl.
Na Egede men dey find your girl lol.
You also have to exercise patience and don't court her openly. Give her a break and resume when the tension has reduced. But after all these the girl would leave you. Take heart in advance.
very wrong advice. Bro free DAT girl.egede men dangerous ooo.forgiveness is a sin
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Techcrunchng(m): 8:42pm On Jul 11
PerfectlyPerfect:

I kept scrolling and looking for someone who will say this. You're totally right, that babe is a cultist too. I know because I've seen this same scenario play out several times
exactly
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by DateMynd44(m): 8:46pm On Jul 11
Abcruz:


In all you do thread with caution, acknowledge your boundary and never compromise your standard because we are tempted mainly by the evil which appears to be normal. But look!

Can you carry fire against your chest without burning your clothes?
proverbs 6:27
you're quoting off text, that verse was for who commits adultery with his neighbor's wife
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by HarunaWest(m): 8:55pm On Jul 11
Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.
go and join man o war or cadet..stop being a chicken
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Freehuman(m): 9:26pm On Jul 11
Balolord123:
very wrong advice. Bro free DAT girl.egede men dangerous ooo.forgiveness is a sin

Bro Dem fear army pass salt to fear water. Man, one time like that them mend one big man pickin join do the necessary initiation rites, The guy return home so he go fit heal make he follow go party wey dem go show am way and men wey dey game. The guy sick for house. Him old boy discover wetin Sup carry three hilux of army wey dem dey chain enter hostel pack boys wey join him pickin. Others hear story Japa from town. The guy bin dey 300 level so he no fit comot school like that. Those guys sign undertaking drop school ID and their parents come carry them for Army Base. The guy old boy vex reach the guys parents now, yan say make dem hold their children say the drilling wey happen so na small. Say anything wey happen to him pickin dem go hold the guys responsible.
The guy return to school no body even greet am.

Wahala dey when you invite another family make dem come settle another family matter . Bring DSs or soldier no man go worry you again.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by tightpussy156: 9:39pm On Jul 11
very stupid boy you want to risk ur life for a bitch right. let me give u d secret.those guys is already bleeping the bitch that why she is not afraid.she still stand gidigba.Twp things involved she is bleeping those cult guys for protection an why sheight decide to date you out of pity or to know if d relationship can move to a greater height simple as ABC
.those that will quote me wrong for telling this boy the truth should hug transformer.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by may320: 9:50pm On Jul 11
Timil:
For what specifically bro?... sorry if I'm being inquisitive.
My dear don't DM or give ur details to anybody. If you're tracked down OYO is your case. Watch your back from now on. Get rid of the 'disaster waiting to happen' gf and face your studies so you can have rest of mind. Let it be glaring you're no longer with her.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by may320: 9:51pm On Jul 11
dboY1123:
Remember that if they kill you, you will die.. grin
Lol. grin
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Stevo35: 9:54pm On Jul 11
My grandmother once told me' "Chase your dreams and never chase a bitch"
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Samuels90: 9:55pm On Jul 11
See uncle
Uncle wey Mumu! sad angry
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by nheyol(m): 10:01pm On Jul 11
may god not let you pass through where you come this world to heaven back because,pussy pussy pussy and heaven dem be 5/6 so be careful
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by luckyedgal1(m): 10:04pm On Jul 11
Because the relationship is still young ability stay na for grave you go love. Your dream alone never make u get sense abi...
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by deltateam: 10:08pm On Jul 11
2special:
is either you belong or you run for your life.... if those guys drop you now, the girl will move on to another lover.

Belong to boys scout? You are not suggesting he joins those mofos.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by HarkymTheOracle(m): 10:09pm On Jul 11
Techcrunchng:
She is a cultist as well, her mission is to initiate you! Don't neglect the power of dreams, dreams usually come to reality in a case like this, though it might not happen exactly as seen but believe you me, it will surely happen in a similar way, human soul is powerful and I have experienced the power of dream.
Been expecting someone to say this.
You took the words right out my mouth.
That girl is a cultists whose aim is to initiate him.

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Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by deltateam: 10:15pm On Jul 11
Timil:
I've asked her on multiple times the reason why numerous cult guys could be hitting on her but she doesn't seem to have an answer and I've this feeling those cult guys may be seeing what cool guys like us who dont do voodoo aint seeing.
Thanks anyways!

Look at her dressing. Perhaps it looks trendy and she has nice hair.

If she loves you. Let her change her clothes to mgbeke clothes and ties her her with black ropes. Joins a fellowship and attends it.

I doubt she would do that for you.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by teepain: 10:30pm On Jul 11
Timil:
I've been thinking of this but when I think of how much we love each other and how young the relationship is I feel like staying in the relationship.

Which do you value most; your life or the love you have for her? In any case since you feel like staying in the relationship, our advice may not be meaningful.
Re: Cult Guys Are After My Girlfriend, Should I Break Up With Her Or Not? by Goldicon49: 10:35pm On Jul 11
Timil:
Good day Nairalanders I'm Jay (psuedonym) by name and I need your candid advice please bear with me if my writeup is long.

Several thoughts have been running through my mind all day and I've been trying to get an answer within but none is forthcoming. Flash back to some few months ago there's this girl I met in school, she's sweet, lovely and she's got everything I want in a woman, we started talking and we got to know each other.

During one of our conversations she told me about a particular guy of the Aiye confraternity who has been hitting on her but she claimed its nothing to be worried about so I waved it aside.

Few months later she gave in and gave me a yes, precisely six weeks ago but on the 7th of this month (Sunday). She told me a friend of hers decided to take her out only to discover that its a gathering organised by some gang members to celebrate their annual anniversary (7/7).

She said she met some other gang members who has been hitting on her there, according to her claim she said nothing transpired between her and the members of the secret society but during the convo I got to know that apart from the other guy in Aiye there are also two other cult guys from different gang who are also after her.

I didnt take it as much of a big issue I just told her to be careful of friends and people she moves with. Sunday went by and today (Wednesday) after lectures while hanging around the school premises she showed me two other gang members who had approached her and who still holds an interest in her making it 4/5 or more cult guys who are hitting on her.

From that moment I wasn't at ease but she didn't seem bothered or disturbed like I do infact she was still getting cosy and all loved up with the PDA despite the fact that I was trying not to draw attention at that very moment.

When I got back to my hostel while thinking of what to do I remembered that two-three weeks before we started dating I had a nightmare in which some gang members were after my life.

I thought of the nightmare and the current circumstance I am and I can see some sort of relation I've been thinking whether to continue the relationship or end it even though its still young, fresh and filled with love.

Please Nairalanders I need your advice on this, thanks for your help.
My Guy there are lot of girls in this world oh . Much more beautiful than her and will love you 1million times than her . You never start to see fine girls oh no go watse your life make person use you count scores oh because when e sup eh nobody go know who do am oh even your babe no go talk na only cry she go cry but that won't bring you back . But if you feel brave enough to stay . It's your call Bro

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