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blackprowler:
Nigerians are incredibly dumb with a subscription to a morality that is unsustainable and unnatural. People who read my contributions would wonder what I'm doing here.
This our hypocrisy is what is costing the society so dearly. In the future, the guy complaining of too much excitement would beg himself to even have an erecshn to finish the job. Men and women self-service in secret and come out to say "nothing spoil; I never even had the desire." Who is deceiving whom? You want to cheat nature because some people have tricked you with some religious injunctions? We are so far from the light in this Third World country

Appreciated Sir

Kasimaramma2:
Dear teejay,the problem is from within and not external source or if otherwise are there things that turns you on?i have known someone that at a particular tym in the morning,he feels Hot.
Now you Wish to ....n it is nt ur Will to.
I am also an introvert like yourself so i know how it feels..take up a hobbie dear,like riding,singing,cooking etc...n resist sexual driven items dat would make you remember sex...set some goals for yourself...learn to cherish and respect the dignity of your friends,they are beings not objects of self gratification

Thanks a bunch ma..I appreciate

FLAWLES:
Jesus is the Answer

Jesus is not going to come down from heaven to provide me answer..Why not act like his messenger?

hotice01:
I'll give u just 3 advice for you to chose from....
1. Limit what you feed your mind with,that's limiting the amount of sexual content intake I.e pornography.

2. Draw closer to God,but then again you have to determine to be committed. Remember, Resist the devil and he'll flee from you.lol

3.Its naturally OK,God on a bleeping spree.an over dose of sex will cure ur hormonal madness.'no matter how sweet honey is,when u eat too much U'll get tired of it'(speaking from experience).Become more social,talk about it when u can.Get a female Bestie,u guys can be frnds with benefits sef.

Well......I've advice you on the good,morally right and bad.chose wisely.

Thank u very much Sir..But as much as i try to resist i end up falling for it..Its not been easy but hopefully i wil adjust..Thanks once more..

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]You see that's why I said you should get a girlfriend.
I am not saying you should find a girl to use to satisfy yourself, No.
Just go into a relationship with someone who would be ok with having sex with you. Someone you love and who would love you too.

Have an active sex life and trust me, those your desires would decrease.
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I misunderstood u then..Thanks for the d clarification..

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]Are you a virgin?[/color]

No

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]In this case, yes.

The guy needs to fvck someone. It will curb those desires.

Why don't you ask him if he is a virgin or not.
Best guess, he is.[/color]

Most probably I can say Yes i am and no am not..
Yes bcus, in my attempt to get rid of this sexual desire, have visited hostel, i end up paying d said grl without service rendering bcus as soon as i lay on grl on grl, i release and those grl are not kind enuf for any explanation

missclasssy:
[color=#000050]Do you have a girlfriend?
If you don't, go get one and fvck her. [/color]

I need a long-term solution ma..Getting a grl to lay is not d problem neither is it expensive bt keeping my frail integrity is more important to me..Let's say am a frd of ur's, who u truly trusted and c as a close confidant, in ur usual self Wit a pure mind, u visited me and d next and only thought i have is to slip wit u..what who u do in dat situation and after?

Hello nairalander..
Am in my early 20's.. I noticed i have a Super-normal desire for Sex.. I don't know how to keep female friends because i end up lusting after them.. I am more of an introvert, i can't seem to discuss dis with anybody..It's really affecting my r/ship with d opposite sex, in actual fact, am scared of having a female frd bcus i know myself amd my problem..This

nearly put me in trouble sometimes ago.... pls advice me on d possible step i could take to minimize this or totally put a stop to it..Thanks

Hello ebankole

Pls help interpret this dream
I dreamt that i was fetching water for a grl everyone everyone assumed to be my gf nay fiancee.. All of a sudden the bucket i was using fell into d well together with my phone.. At dat instance, d lady in question embarrassed me in public(i guess d embarrassment was d reason why d water and my phone fell into d well) i woke up immediately after that..

Samtowo:
you can't guess shit Pal..., I've been in such before only to finally find out that she was having issues with her Dad and didn't want to paint him bad but also wanted to tell someone... just brace yourself Pal, you can't guess shii from such breeds... just wait till she opens up, don't guess.., stop asking her.., pretend not to worry about it anymore but keep showing her how much you love her telling her nice things and making her feel better as much as you can.., the amount of love you can show her is equal to the pressure you mount on her to open up to you.., the moment she starts talking, just stfu n listen! don't say a single word till she's tru.. when she's done.., remain calm, kiss her forehead and give her a hug without saying a single word... if you decide to guess, you'll hurt yourself better than she'll do...

*ma 3 kobo advice*

Thanks baba, this is d real deal...

Nneka123:
yeah, you can go see her and talk to her.

It's d only option am left with.. i wil gv it a Consideration

harlos:
Stop suggesting and think of how you'll get to see her and sort it face to face.

if from now till Friday she stil do not tel me wat d problem is, i might have to visit Lagos..

Nneka123:
she's being dramatic.

Drama?..This is too expensive...Though i would be glad if it is..

Hazardd:
maybe she see you as stingy... Lol
Who knows maybe she is trying to ask you for help.

Your Thought

texybaby:
Habaaaa u cant b so sure.....
Op..mayb she will say she was raped....I really can't say shaaa

Raped?... Molested?
its possible but u never can tell....From the little i know about her, she hates body contact with a guy.. i just can't get myself to believe she opened legs for someone..

Hazardd:
she need something,
Thats the trick.

She needs something? What can it be?
She's not materialistic..She's not rich but moderately Ok...

Princecalm:
Two things are involved, either you imprenated or someonelse did but since you said she is still a virgin and you did not touch her, you are save. But if someonelse did, there are two things involved.

Everything point to the fact that she might be pregnant...i jst can't get myself to believe it

princealbashir:
She's pregnant

i hope not

Cutehector:
lol someone else has gvn her belle. Wat wil make a girl cry like dat on d fone if it aint missin her period!

Am also tinking that way bro.. i even asked her but she said its not what i think..

freeboy604:
May be she has betrayed you.

Jst maybe

flinton:
Get a cane, simple

She's a precious metal to me... Cane is meant for animal

Cutehector:
U don giv am belle be dat!

To d best of my knowledge, She is/was stil a virgin til d last day we met b4 i left Lagos(Oct 2014)...i don't know what has happened btw then and now

She told me she had an important issue to discuss with me, when i called her leta in d day she said its nothing at first then leta she said there was something. but instead of telling me what d problem is she kept crying..
She's finding it hard to tell me what it is, she's just crying
Have done all i know to persuade her, have begged, have yelled at her but she's still resolute..
What other means can i used to make her tel me what the problem is?