₦airaland Forum

If almost every woman you know have been sexually assaulted the best advice to give them is to stay away from men... Simi can divorce her husband and go ahead and marry a woman since she practically see men as rapists

Responsible men carry heavy financial and emotional loads because society equates provision with love. But the real issue isn’t men vs women , it’s expectations. When responsibility isn’t shared and appreciation is missing, resentment is inevitable.

Child support and family duties exist to protect children, but they can feel one-sided when communication breaks down. Many homes mistake presence for love and provision for obligation.

Strong families aren’t built on silent sacrifice by one person. They thrive on shared effort, mutual respect, and accountability.
Partnership not endurance is the goal.

Right now the law have made so many women to turn scammers. Imagine, every Billionaire woman today got her wealth from Divorce fees and a few via inheritance.

Men don suffer

k2money:
Less than 60k , is around 45k to 50k now

Thanks for the input

initstime:
Hope this realities reflect in the market and we can witness it not just estimated digits that will do no
good to common man. We don't want aesthetics.

Price of foodstuff have reduced drastically in the last few months. Reasons as to why farmers and food hoarders are crying up and down. Imagine rice dropped from #120k to 60k

The US is 100% correct on this. Come to Nasarawa Local government in Nasarawa State and see how the Chinese mine lithium illegally. These accusations is not baseless. I know the US have its facts on ground

techbro1:
This is good but this is a private business. What's with the fanfare and the banner claiming he's the most performing governor? 😂😂😂

You can’t separate development from governance. One of the core duties of any government is to create a stable, healthy society and implement policies that attract investors. When the environment is predictable and supportive, businesses come in, jobs expand, technology becomes more affordable, and public revenue grows.
Look at highly developed economies like Singapore or South Korea—private investment didn’t happen by luck. It followed deliberate policies that built trust, infrastructure, and opportunity. Strong states don’t replace private investors; they create the conditions that make investment worthwhile

Kemetian:
They will release them. That's for show. What are they going to do with all those little children and babies?

This is the most insensitive and ignorant post I've seen all year round. You talk like Chibok and all those other kidnapped school children were not kids

dominique:
No competent court to will grand full or joint custody to a type of parent like Davido and the tragedy of losing his son has little to do with it. He's hardly available and he surrounds himself with all sorts of shady characters no sane parent will be comfortable leaving a child with.



Sophia did not sue him, he was the one that sued her. She never stopped him from seeing Imade, she only requested that the visits must be supervised and the child cannot travel with him. Considering the type of lifestyle Davido is living, that's the best kind of access he can get with the child, let's leave sentiment out of this. It was through this lawsuit that we got to know that Davido did not pay child support on Imade for years, Sophia never made this public till she got sued and Davido never refuted this till date. Whoever advised Davido to embark on this custody battle did not do well at all

He was living same kind of lifestyle when they were together right?? Seems you don't know women. It's never about her child's safety. She just want to have the child to herself and have control over the child's relationship with her father. She's scared the child will prefer being with Davido. Especially as she's a female child .

Well it's true that these Chinese men are paying hikitia for protection. They are currently in Nasarawa LGA of Nasarawa State. The governor kept quiet because they've paying him hundreds of millions through the former commissioner of environment. It became so juicy that the governor now handled the ministry of environment funds himself .... 😂

This regime completely failed in the power sector.
They increased electricity bills yet all na rubbish.

Bottom line is we place so much power and dependence on the government.

We know the government is corrupt, but we as Nigerians must also reflect. Sometimes we enable what we complain about. Some of Tinubu’s policies are insensitive, yet many say most Yorubas hardly complain because Tinubu is their tribe, and many APC members rarely call out the truth because they benefit from the system. When loyalty to tribe or party overrides truth, accountability dies. That is the real insanity.

On power generation, we have rich people who can partner with solar companies to provide solar systems on loan to creditworthy people and hold them accountable for quality delivery. In so doing, plenty people will go off the national grid. States and LGAs can learn from that and scale it.

We can demand better governance, but we cannot wait forever. Real change will come when citizens start building alternatives.

All of them. He's a Balon d'or winner. An individual achievement none of them had

Wiz kid could have just ignored 2Baba. Now he is giving 2Face a reason to do a remix of Kuku Google am with Burns. 😂 E go sell, e go mad.... This is a beef Wiz won't win if 2Baba want do am

Tinubu is trying everyday to show even his most loyal followers that he only cares about power grabbing, enriching the rich/governors and securing his second tenure. Nothing concern am.

DeOTR:
Perhaps you have another alternative to subsidy removal when the nation is running on debt, our source of revenue is selling for half the price it used to be 10 years with more mouths to feed? Have you ever run a successful business? We should not remove subsidy? Are you the one that'll be paying it from your pocket?
Instead of you guys to ensure we force these people to stop spending recklessly, you want us to continue paying subsidy.

You probably choose to ignore where I mentioned that our leadership failed to improve Nigerians’ standard of living. If subsidy removal had come with visible economic benefits, people would accept and wouldn't complain of the higher fuel price.

This country will only truly progress when citizens vote based on competence, not party, tribe, or religion and hold leaders accountable for results.

DeLaRue:
Mr Obi is the least impressive of the potential major presidential candidates.

He rarely says anything on the economy that comes from original thinking.

He said we should copy Argentina. We should copy Indonesia. We should copy this and that.

Now that Mr Tinubu has applied his own original policies and steadied the economy to global acclaim, Mr Obi has gone quiet on his Argentina advice.

Stabilized the economy? What economy please?
Real stability is what citizens can feel through a stronger Naira and better purchasing power.

Leadership should be judged by tangible improvements in living standards, not promises. Increasing taxes while social amenities remain poor, and relying on subsidy removal that has brought years of hardship and inflation, makes it hard to ignore the everyday reality many Nigerians face.

Yet some delusional Nigerians will tell you that there is no genocide against Christians in Nigeria

KINGKONG:
So make Dangote kill us with high price of fuel like he's doing in the cement industry?

But Fuel price is going down ai

solomonbrown200:
useless country with stupid ranking .

wicked and useless leaders God will kill all of una oneday every day New story fools

Which God pls?? If you want to kill someone go and do it yourself, no de call God for this kind matter

The heart of a man is indeed desperately wicked. All these politicians don't even want a change. They just want to steal money even at the expense of integrity and name.

Goodmarlian:
Hmmm so this day will come when Nigeria becomes Afghanistan for who no fear Nnamdi kanu.

Yep because we believe so much in religion that we throw away our human brains. An Imam would tell them to go and kill and they would do it shouting Allahuakbar. Or a pastor will ask you to show your car and close called Christians would do just that. Haba

You should be asking yourself practical questions like where she works, what she does, and how she earns a living.
Right now, she may not see you as someone who can fully take care of her yet. That could be why she brings you food. When a woman visits a man she sees as settled, she’s more likely to feel comfortable cooking in his home. She may not be doing that because, in her mind, you’re still a student.
Focus on your studies. Build a career or a business. Become financially independent. Only then will you be in a strong position to take the relationship to the next level.

Don't be surprised to hear that the judge who rules the punishment is a pedophile .
I told my aunt who's a Muslim that it's things like this that makes me have deep disgust for Islam. This act is just barbaric

Ironfaceman:
This most be the most disgusting read I've seen today.

Without sex there's no relationship, man got into marriage to fulfil a sacred order and sex is one of it.

It's in the vow for better or worst in sickness and in health.

If you most take permission to have sex with your wife, you might as well pay a woman money for sex.

Whereby the objectivity of sex has been fettered to reason.

For better or for worse” is not a legal justification. What the law is trying to do is actually very simple: no forceful sex, even within marriage.
Consent works both ways ,she cannot force him, and he cannot force her. It really is that straightforward.
Anyone who is married should understand this clearly. Honestly, it’s hard to imagine how a sane person would even want to have sex with their spouse by force in the first place.

Wizkid's be definitely hiding right now. How can you compare yourself with Fella?? That's the height of stupidity

Because of lack of education and religion, Nigeria cannot execute Boko Haram. Religion especially Islam is what's bringing us backward as a country

A man cannot truly be objective when he places religion above humanity and basic human understanding. Religion often demands obedience to certain actions, even when those actions appear morally or humanly wrong. At its core, religion is built on faith. And what is faith? It is the act of believing and accepting something even when it contradicts reason, evidence, or human instinct.
This tension is exactly why absolute objectivity becomes difficult when faith is placed above empathy and rational judgment

QuinQ:
If someone is physically abusive how else do you display humility other than not fight back?

Physical abuse is never in the conversation. Don't shift goal posts. Learn to maintain topic of conversations

QuinQQ:
Sooo, your husband beats you and almost kills you if you don't defend yourself. You'd get humble and let him beat you to death.
(Not bad actually - you have ended the beatings )

Where does beating come into this conversation? Beating is domestic violence, while loneliness has to do with emotional disconnection. They are two completely different issues and should not be confused.

These guys have made traditional bank staffs to be wearing okirika. It's either they upgrade their services or they'll be forever left behind... I have GTB, First Bank and Access bank accounts. I only use them to receive salary or any official credit alerts. After wichi I forget them for th next 30 days 😂

When you meet a woman and start catching feelings, it’s important to pay attention to how she earns a living and the kind of life she’s building for herself. This isn’t about judging — it’s about clarity. Just as women observe men for stability and direction, men should also observe women for independence and values.
If you don’t earn enough to comfortably support yourself, don’t try to sustain a relationship with money you don’t have. That’s not love, that’s pressure — and pressure eventually breaks things. When a relationship is built mainly on financial maintenance, someone with deeper pockets can easily step in and replace you.
The real lesson is simple: use your head before your emotions. Use your brain to think instead of your heart or dick. Choose wisely, build yourself first, and let relationships grow from mutual effort, not financial desperation.