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Hoe they have dialogued with herdsmen

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seunmsg:
The part in bold is inevitable.

Sad-waste sore losers. Cry me a River

Indispensable85:
The man made some sense sha.

No sense. The sad-waste land are sore losers

Sore sad-waste losers. Who cares

johnmartus:
Stop deceiving yourselves. We are all in this trouble southwest problem is Nigerian problem start using your brain.

You're absolutely on your own. We have ESN and not in trouble, only afonjaa is in trouble just like it happened in ilorin

Telecom users don't equate population. Some villagers don't use phone. Illiterate

IamWonderful:
Ok

The sad-waste state is in trouble and in chains of their fulani masters

This one don the turn to Ebonyi/Cross River clash

majamajic:
Just like my dad

FIXED

majamajic:
Just like my dad

Fixed

majamajic:
Am granddad , am done . U can discuss that with my last kid , your age mate I noticed from way u reason

Do have a good night rest , wan join my team as they play Southampton

Eiya sorry, you must have suffered some much abuse from your feminist wife that u developed Stockholm syndrome. Ndo

Lanretoye:
its getting messier now,yorubas wey dey up north should be returning as a matter of urgency.

Hausa people too are at the mercy of the fulani bandits and fighting them too

majamajic:
U don't have respect

Do u know how many of my sisters and aunties that went for send-off sex ?

How many them send back come meet u ?

Divorce to easy for una mouth , what's is there to confront the girl and hear her out , then carry on from there

At emboldened, fixed

All simps must be saved by fire by force

majamajic:
My daddy , simp

Fixed

Nitah1:
The father rejected me cos of tribal differences.



Imagine telling me if we are left alone we will have sex..

She must be very stupid. What a hoe

Nitah1:
My brother, my ex is married with a kid and am also married, if you see our chat ehn you go faint.... She even told me she dnt love the husband and the guy no d satisfy her in bed that she's just managing him.

Abeg make i stop there.

Hope u never fvck am. U sef de cheat on your wife, be careful and behave yourself

Bigfish121:
This is the main reason why it is better to marry a virgin because of all this ex mata.the thing dey tire me well well.i nor know which kind life we come dey leave now.Girls go just dey leave rubbish life.

I'm telling u, with a virgin gal most of this rubbish is gone

angelfallz:
if you can get the dowry back do so, if not leave it. Dump her ASAP.

Look for virgin girls to marry you guys would not hear.

Honestly virgin gals save one from lots of headaches, no attachments to any stupid ex, trust, lots more

Some people generalise virgin gals are stubborn but non virgins are more stubborn sef,

justosee:
people like you need to save money for future DNA test on all your kids.

Walai.. That dude got some inferiority complex

majamajic:
Your friend went to east and brought the wife closer to Austin in Lagos

It might just be a send-off sex which didn't happen as planned

My advice is , he should discuss with the girl about the chat , from what she said he should know what to do

Seriously she might still be a good wife after knowing u don catch her with this , this might not happen again all through their marriage . Let him discuss the chat with her , if she confess and beg for forgiveness , he should leave her , but if she start trying to be smart about it , he should simply show the msg to her family and terminate the marriage ,

Meanwhile he should screenshot this msg and save it well on his own phone to avoid , " oya this is my phone come show me the msg ! "

Pls do come back and tell us how the matter take finish

Stupid boy. That's how u all go on to marry rotten gals and still come here to right epistle
A hoe never changes, simp

Kids everywhere

walkingshadow911:
Its okafors law my brother. the only problem we facing in our relationship is that our partners cant get over their exes. they love their exes so tey dey carry belle for am and give it to the main husband. virgin all they way jare. virgin self too scarce nowadays. if u a virgin in the house please click like. i want to check something

Virgin is the best guy.

ZorGBUooeh:
God punish that biaaatch Aisha yesufu

Tunder strike her rumpled puuwwsy wherever she is

So this is what the hijab wearing slut wants to befall the southeast?
God pass her.

Leave the stupid woman

adadike:
Peter Obi is one ex gov I can't stop loving especially when it comes to health issues. The mosquito repellent spray you freely sprayed in our homes in Anambra state is still effective till date. God bless you mightily sir

Are you in Anambra? If you won't mind we can meet in a public place

MedicH:
This right here at the bolded made a lot of sense truly and particularly on the aspect of idealism. A lot of these ideologies are spread on social media by frustrated women deceiving and misleading single ladies. This is one reason I can't marry a woman that lives on Facebook or Twitter.

I'm not particularly against enlightenment or quest for information but I can tell that the information spread on social media regarding feminism and relationships through indoctrination are not in anyway making women to be successful or more productive but to waste their time chasing shadows.

Unfortunately men fail to notice this. I've met a good number of women and even before I call them on phone, I run a social media profiling on them and then correlate the results on our actual real life interaction. Through social media profiling, I can know when a woman will tell me that cooking my meal is a wife role and is against her ideals. The essence of this exercise is to teach my sons about women.

In today's marriage, a lot of men get thrown into a lot of mess they never prepared for because they were blind from the onset. If you open your eyes and actually evaluate in order to correlate, you will have answers that will help u chose wisely.

You're 100% right bro. Just like the lady I would have married lived her life on Facebook and Instagram and it had very bad influence on her. She only goes to read negative family news that one day she read about a man that used the money from the family joint account to build house for his parents without the wife's notice. When I came back from work that's how she flooded me with the fact that she can't keep joint account oo, for something that happened on Facebook oo, I told her life is not like that she promised to change but couldn't, I dumped her, till now I still see her on different bitter Facebook groups. Lol

People don't change, and not even in marriage which provides them with more enclosures will they change. No this and know peace

bizme:
Fast forward 40 to fifty years from now, you would probably start complaining of being lonely, neglected and forsaken. No matter how much money you have, it would never buy you a healthy company. We have seen people leading this kind of life, they usually end up sad in life.

That said, your failed marriage(s) should not be a basis to generalize... Your marriages failed. You failed in your relationships. Marriage/relationship is not the problem. The problem is your disability, and that of your partners, to maintain a healthy relationship. Those with happy homes will testify.

Well said, I got married to an angel that I respect, love and her character is just almost perfect and she worships me too, and I even married her as a virgin, she knew no man before me

justosee:
nothing like good marriage in this modern age, unless you that kind of man who endure all type of shit.

You're exaggerating, are you saying the family you come from is dysfunctional?
Well cheats always think everyone else cheats

thebosstrevor1:
Truth be said, the op is right.

I see lot of bad marriages everyday, the couples just trying to look happy all because of the kids.

One of the killer of marriage is getting married to a bad and selfish woman, as i always write down, the type of woman you marry will determine the quality of life you will get as a man, if a man marries a woman with a bad personality, his quality of life will totally reduce and regrets, depression will be the order of the day.

Another killers of marriage is having lot of kids, not only does it drain your pocket but can also give you hypertension if time is not taken, over thing on how to provide for your family.

Most men should try to avoid women who are so deep on idealogy and IDEALISM. These constant conflict between modernism and traditions can eventually reduce the quality of life of a man.


I believe so much in the natural way of things in marriage.


God over man, man over wife, wife over children.

Just like the girl I wanted to marry always told me that she will value the family she's coming from more than the one we will form, that she hates men that if not society she won't marry, she went further to say that I as the man will Carter for the family and she's going to resign her job to make babies, hahahaha, I had to find an excuse and dumped her, she was always quarrelsome too, so nothing to gain from her

DryMouth:
I suspended my marriage that was meant to be next month..
I wish i can explain to you all but my reasons are genuine and may lead to a devastating quarel years to come.

Be extremely careful who you marry.
Don't ignore the red lights during courtship thinking you can endure in marriage.

In marriage the whole love may go away.

You're right bro. Please share the story with us so we can learn, Atleast no one will know is u