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This is question only you can answer. What do you value? If this man capable of providing it ? If no, plan your exit.. If yes, discuss with him. Define your boundaries and stick to them. Marriage is a contract, and comes with terms and conditions. Define yours.

The guy was just a kid. These boys dont even understand that there is a lot more in life to experience . When I was in uni, i thought i knew everything too....Now i realise how naiive i was.

God I thank you for right choices made by my parents. Thank you for the right values instilled in me, I thank you that I had people to guide me through the maze of life. These kids are just lost, they probably dont have anyone to lead them through the confusion that life sometimes brings.

Such a shame.

hidhrhis:
I was crying when I saw this
They shot him at the heart
They even said they will shoot him round
I can't even eat again
The guy Na even poly Ibadan student
He knew he wouldn't escape it
He gave up before they shot him
They are eiye and the guy is aiye
I can never join cultist for this life
I was struck with fear seeing how he was shot
I can't kill a chicken talk less of human being
Why did I click this God
Why did I watch this

Facts Only

Naija246:
the biggest mistake in my opinion is to even consider marriage

Guys should know that you will enjoy your life far better when you are single than when married.
Being single affords you the luxury of:
-developing new skills
-saving a chunk of what you earn
-it affords you the opportunity to travel more.
-you will age slower(due to less stress)
Etc
The benefits of single life for a man far outweighs the pros of being married.
We men are doing Women a HUGE!! favor by marrying them.

guys, don't let any lady sell you the idea that marriage benefits you.. it's a scam!!
Marriage benefits Women not men!!
Hoard your ring!!

Smh...My fellow Naija sister . Why are you judging me? I must be looking for miracles, I must be looking for something. Sorry ma, I havent read my Bible today. You that you've read yours, kindly share what it says.

No matter what you think you know, there is always room for learning from others. It's not a bad thing to ask for guidance from more experienced people. Let's stop judging and start loving, afterall, isn't that what He wants us to do?

Nobody holy pass, and I pray you do not encounter a problem in life that takes you on the brink of forgetting what you thought you knew, just to get some relief from the situation.

The same Bible warns us about false prophets in the last days....I was only sharing my observation with others, is that not what Christianity is all about? Supporting each other? Instead of being judgemental, why not try to contribute something useful?

Yes, I just opened the account for anonymity on the internet. I would be careful about my internet footprint too , if I were you.

I recently encountered some pastors from CAC. They seemed to know a lot about me without giving them much information. They also seem to use symbolism for a lot of their prayer. For example, they may tell you to buy a door and decorate it because a door of success is about to be open or give some pastors money on the "ori oke" to pray for you. These things do not tally with biblical teachings, especially where money has to be given out in return for God's blessings, but when a person is in a tough situation/problem, and hears some things from a stranger that he has not told anyone, it does lend these pastors some "credibility".

Has anyone had experiences with these types and what conclusions can you draw from them. Can they be trusted or not?