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Celebrities › Re: My Birthday by Theama(m): 6:43pm On Jul 14, 2024
Happy birthday.
Long life and prosperity in Jesus name. cool
TV/Movies › Re: House Of Ga'a: Netflix Releases Trailer Of Epic Movie (Video) by Theama(m): 7:38pm On Jul 11, 2024
seems everything is indigenous except the title

"House of..."
Family › Re: When Do Men Have Their Buttons On The Right And Women On The Left by Theama(m): 7:48pm On Jul 10, 2024
Never noticed.
Autos › Re: The Incredible Evolution Of The Mercedes Benz Car Series(photo) by Theama(m): 7:40pm On Jul 10, 2024
Never really been a fan of Benz (vehicle front) design.


I guess that's their signature look.
Phones › Re: See What Was Found in Noodles Using A Microscope by Theama(m): 6:58pm On Jul 10, 2024
Hmmn
Sports › Re: John Cena Announces Retirement From Wrestling by Theama(m): 9:53am On Jul 08, 2024
Nbote:
He'll soon run back to the ring. It's all part of their script
He does that part time @running back to the ring.

No doubt he's going to fully retire after WrestleMania(2025).
Romance › Re: Do Men Prefer Dating Bigger Girls? by Theama(m): 7:50am On Jul 07, 2024
Jamie248:
For women the assessment of a potential reproductive partner is instinctive, they don't even know it's happening...a man has to consciously initiate, execute and evaluate the process...that process has been bred into the
reflex system of women over thousands of years of experience

Women typically suffer much more than men in instances of failed or improperly matched reproductive couplings, so I don't blame them at all.
Your explanation unravels the biological standpoint. Although, I would argue that aside the conscious assessment, men also posses the instinctive assessment ability just as women.


Are you a psychologist by the way?
Romance › Re: Do Men Prefer Dating Bigger Girls? by Theama(m): 11:56pm On Jul 06, 2024
Proserpina:
Men tend to be cautious of who they settle down with. Unlike women who will say I do based on feelings, men are more logical and brutal, they think far and wide and foresee what their partners will look like in 5- 10 years. For occasional flirt, they may say they don't mind chubby ladies but when it comes to marrying a woman they pay more attention to women's body than women do themselves. It's the gospel truth. Op shouldn't let anyone lie to her. If she can do something about her size, she should.

Fat isn't even good for anyone. And if she's going to be thick, please be thick in the right places to avoid stories that touch.
Physical appearance is sometimes deceitful even a slim person can have dangerous amount of fat(a.k.a skinny fat). So it's possible the person looking and the person being looked at won't know.
It's not only chubby people.


Anyway me I like moderate size sha grin


In terms of settling down:

Let's not kid ourselves almost everyone tends to be cautious most especially women.

The "I do based on feelings" you wrote feels ironic. To me it majorly applies only for dating purpose/period.

When it comes to marriage, the average woman is even more brutal and cautious. She would have done present/future potential + stability + comfort + capability + ability and any other calculation intentionally or unknowingly before allowing feelings enter or grow even if she doesn't say so or admit it.
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend No Dey Knack Me Well I Need Help by Theama(m):
Stop engaging in pre-marital coitus a.k.a fornication
Crime › Re: Secondary School Student Rapes A Mad Woman In Adamawa by Theama(m): 8:31pm On Jul 04, 2024
hammer567:
THE MAD WOMAN ABI?



EVEN IF SHE THEY MAD AS SOON AS SHE SEE CHILDREN HER HEAD IS SUPPOSE TO CORRECT.



LET THEM LOCK HER AWAY AND THROW AWAY THE KEYS.
20 years no be underage
Business › Re: How Do I Stop This Bad Habit? by Theama(m): 3:33pm On Jul 04, 2024
lipsrsealed.
Business › Re: How Do I Stop This Bad Habit? by Theama(m): 3:24pm On Jul 04, 2024
lipsrsealed
Business › Re: How Do I Stop This Bad Habit? by Theama(m):
Hmmn


As someone stated try to give the percentage or amount you can let go of (especially if they are people who don't/can't pay back).


Also why are you going to loan app to borrow only to gift someone if you yourself don't have at that time?

You ought to have learned from past mistakes by now. Better don't wound yourself or wreck yourself because you want to help people. You're not Superman.
Christianity Etc › Re: What Does The Bible Say About Kissing And Hugging One's Fiance? by Theama(m): 9:41am On Jun 30, 2024
"In the mating game, a kiss is more than a kiss—It’s a taste test. Saliva contains molecules from all the glands and organs in the body, so a French kiss serves up our signature flavor. As soon as Ryan’s tongue touchedNicole’s, information about each other’s health and geneswas collected and secretly sent to their brains. If Nicoleh genes that were too similar to his and the kiss tastedsour, it could have been a sexual deal-breaker. But the
kiss was sweet; it led to another and then another.
Scientists have learned that there is plenty of bioactivetestosterone in men’s saliva, enough that it may activatethe sexual-arousal center in a woman’s brain.
So your mother was right—French kissing can lead to sex."

Source(Book): The female brain


Flee from appearances...
Romance › Re: Why Do I Still Love Her Even After Knowing She's A Cheat ? by Theama(m): 8:14am On Jun 29, 2024
[quote author=Update147 post=130709172][/quote]What you should do?


Basically just move on(e fit take time to get over it.)

Don't deny that you miss her just don't focus on the thought when it comes and don't encourage it.

Remind yourself why y'all split anytime the thought comes to your mind.
Romance › Re: Why Do I Still Love Her Even After Knowing She's A Cheat ? by Theama(m): 8:08am On Jun 29, 2024
[quote author=Update147 post=130709172][/quote]From a biological standpoint maybe...

Romance › Re: Why Do I Still Love Her Even After Knowing She's A Cheat ? by Theama(m):
Na your hormones dey worry you bro.

Maybe sha
Phones › Re: Facebook Monetisation: Nigerian Content Creators Eligible To Earn by Theama(m):
Nigerians probably rushing to be content creators, both the talented and untalented, as long as it's a money making venture.


Just like P.O.S
Health › Re: Does Hunger Affect Man's Erection? by Theama(m): 8:40pm On Jun 28, 2024
Might be due to prolonged stress, worry or anxiety
Might be due to issue with blood circulation stuff, e.t.c

Anyway
He should visit a Doctor like someone stated.
He should stop fornicating lipsrsealed
Fashion › Re: Why Are Some Watches Expensive? Do They Provide Other Benefits by Theama(m): 8:19pm On Jun 28, 2024
Adunn1ade:
A cheap watch tells you time, but an expensive watch tells people your time is valuable.
cheesy grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenya's President Withdraws Tax Plan After Deadly Protest by Theama(m): 6:10pm On Jun 26, 2024
Hhm
Christianity Etc › Re: Rachel: She Was Stunning Beauty With A Hot Body Yet She Didn’t Last In Marriage! by Theama(m): 12:04pm On Jun 23, 2024
Daejumong:
She was gorgeous and had a hot body, she was the favourite of her hubby yet she didn’t last in marriage! It appears beauty is not enough!

Rachel was beautiful in face and body( Gen 29:17). Her physical appearance swept Jacob off his feet and he worked 14yrs to have her as wife!

She was also a hardworking lady, a shepherdess(Gen 29:9). Jacob loved her work ethics.

Rachel however had some flaws which probably because of her looks were overlooked by Jacob!

1- Stealing and Idolatry
Gen 31: 19 When Laban had gone to shear his sheep, Rachel stole her father’s household gods.

2- Lying and deceit
Gen 31:34,35
34 Now Rachel had taken the household gods and put them inside her camel’s saddle and was sitting on them. Laban searched through everything in the tent but found nothing.
35 Rachel said to her father, “Don’t be angry, my lord, that I cannot stand up in your presence; I’m having my period.” So he searched but could not find the household gods.

3- Jealousy
Gen 30:1 When Rachel saw that she was not bearing Jacob any children, she became jealous of her sister.

4- Unhealthy Competition with her Sister
Gen 30:7 Rachel’s servant Bilhah conceived again and bore Jacob a second son.
8 Then Rachel said, “I have had a great struggle with my sister, and I have won.” So she named him Naphtali.

5- Mental health struggles/Desperation
Gen 30:1. So she said to Jacob, “Give me children, or I’ll die!”

Rachel was an uncommon beauty but had her flaws just like all of us. She sadly died after the birth of her second son Benjamin! She sadly did not live long enough to enjoy her marriage! It was devastating for Jacob as well!

Jacob unknowingly cursed Rachel to death when Laban pursued and asked about his stolen gods
Gen 31:31,32
31 Jacob answered Laban, “I was afraid, because I thought you would take your daughters away from me by force. 32 But if you find anyone who has your gods, that person shall not live. ……Now Jacob did not know that Rachel had stolen the gods.

Leah who was not favoured initially eventually became the number one and gave Jacob six sons and a daughter!

Prov 31:30
Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
Hmmnn
Romance › Re: Slim Girls Rocks! by Theama(m): 6:26pm On Jun 21, 2024
Nonexisting1:
Fat and thin. Not my thing.
So what'd you mean
to set things straight,
is that too fat or thin.
you can't tolerate?
Balanced and fit
is just your taste
You like them in between
You like them moderate
Romance › Re: Why Do Most Girls Look So Different Without Their Wig, Makeup Or Filter by Theama(m): 4:29pm On Jun 21, 2024
Gerrard59:
Thank you for this post. It is of deep interest to me.

The kind of made-up-clad faces I see on many ladies' faces are scary! shocked You see a lady's picture and realise that it is full of chemicals ear and dear. How then can we judge that she is beautiful? The less the make-up, the better. Let's see your real face. Let's know how you look without make-up. It is better that way as that face is real. There was one I saw and pages of her kept having this over made-up face. I had one conclusion: this lady go ugly true true. Abort mission. The worst is their birthday photos. Jesus!

I dare say make-up does more harm than good to women's faces.
Some of these ladies with filtered and edited photos with a touch of bad manners bragging about hundreds of guys rushing them can only brag about D.M's/online side and not real life/offline because in real life not up to 4 or 5 people would approach them


Concerning that ugly stuff
Person wey ugly to Mr A go fine for Mr B's eye, beauty is in on the eye of the beholder abi na key holder.
Politics › Re: Drop One Unpopular Opinion That You Think People Hate You For. by Theama(m):
In terms of politics? Note these are from observations.

1) Some use their view of football in voting e.g my team vs your team(Chelsea vs Arsenal). Whether the person is qualified or not. With the intention of "peppering "the losing opposition but forgetting that the pepper they are throwing wind fit blow am back enter their eyes

Football is 90 mins and dem fit sack coach anytime(even the night after the game) unlike election wey be once in four years(impeachment is not even common again)
Some of these same people are quick to criticize their football team's coach for messing up but are slow to criticize their party or their elected representative when they perform terribly e.g some people shouting on "Ten Hang/Pochettino out!" would also be saying "give him time " on the poor performance of their elected party representative.

2) Some people's definition of Opposition party is "hate and vilify all works, never applaud good works"


Once again these are just observations.
Culture › Re: Court Reinstates Bayero As Kano Emir by Theama(m): 6:19pm On Jun 20, 2024
Awesomejake:
Politics don scatter traditions Kpata kpats
Game of thrones
Culture › Re: Farooq Oreagba, Who Beat Cancer, Wins Hearts At Ojude Oba Day by Theama(m): 9:33pm On Jun 19, 2024
3ice9ce:
God wants him to pepper 5th class slaves like you. That's why God saved him.
Haba!
Sports › Re: Celtics Coach Joe Mazzulla Says Pep Guardiola Helped Him Win The NBA Title by Theama(m): 9:22pm On Jun 18, 2024
Yemaya:
Without looking I knew who started the thread
You’re as predictable as the fall of a candy from a kid’s hand
Kai! cheesy

una start to dey use and abuse that El Rufai quote
grin
Romance › Re: A Nairalander Is A Year Older Today � by Theama(m): 8:29pm On Jun 17, 2024
Long life and prosperity in Jesus name.
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Arome Osayi Reconciles With His 'Son' Apostle Orokpo Michael by Theama(m): 10:42am On Jun 16, 2024
Temptee101:
Is the guy on blue cooking something, why squeeze face like that after a supposed reconciliatory meeting

The other guy should watch his back sha
That's how his face is.
Romance › Re: Funny Conversation Between A Man And His Girlfriend. by Theama(m): 7:55pm On Jun 15, 2024
lipsrsealed
Celebrities › Re: Saida Boj Claps Back At Portable And Her Reply Is Massive by Theama(m): 7:32pm On Jun 13, 2024
Truthbites:
R. I. P portable
No be like this the matter be.

undecided

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