Sports › Re: Jurgen Klopp Says Pep Guardiola ‘the Best Manager In The World’ by Theama(m): 8:19pm On Mar 08, 2024 |
Make City no lose guard on top this statement.  If I were Pep, I'd be like:
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Crime › Re: Navy Intercepts Ghanaian Vessel With Stolen Oil, Arrests 13 (Pictures) by Theama(m): 1:41pm On Mar 03, 2024 |
NoSmoking: 12 Nigerians assisting 1 Ghanaian to our oil
🤕 Surprisingly |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs Ivory Coast AFCON 2023 Finals (1 - 2) On 11th February 2024 by Theama(m): 11:22pm On Feb 11, 2024 |
chatinent: Abeg, how can I get back my N12,700 from DSTv I did for sub two days ago. I don't want it again. Na only two days I use. It's a mistake please.
Omg, my heart is doing me somehow. My money can't waste please Izzgone Just like fuel subsidy... |
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs South Africa AFCON 2023 Semi-Finals (4 - 2)pens On 7 Feb 2024 by Theama(m): 10:16pm On Feb 07, 2024*. Modified: 10:35pm On Feb 07, 2024 |
EniHolar: Heart attack ooo We should be careful with our utterances. It's just a football match. |
Politics › Re: Office Of Immediate Past Governor Created In Kogi - Austin Okai by Theama(m): 11:49am On Jan 30, 2024 |
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Politics › Re: President Tinubu Congratulates Reno Omokri On 50th Birthday by Theama(m): 12:04pm On Jan 22, 2024 |
flyingdutchman: Reno is the handler of the Presidency account on twitter How can you tell? |
Politics › Re: Kano: Supreme Court Affirms Gov Kabir Yusuf (NNPP), dismisses APC's suit by Theama(m): 12:25pm On Jan 12, 2024 |
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Forum Games › Re: Who Is The Real Mother Of The Child: Can You Guess Under 5 Seconds ? A Thread by Theama(m): 12:20pm On Jan 10, 2024 |
ATEAMS: The answer is in the hair color. Same thought. |
Forum Games › Re: Who Is The Real Mother Of The Child: Can You Guess Under 5 Seconds ? A Thread by Theama(m): 12:19pm On Jan 10, 2024 |
TheWinterBird: The kid is facing the woman in the green, therefore her. Secondly, she's wearing flats and that makes sense because she's in her home, unlike the woman in the green with heels on. Lastly, her tense body language speaks volume because she's probably tending to the kid as she chats, unlike the other woman who is just sitting there chillin'. Hmmn |
Romance › Re: Romance Section Moderators Wanted by Theama(m): 10:12pm On Jan 09, 2024 |
Moshybear: Nobody considers me  Maybe i should be more active   |
Romance › Re: 40 Life "Cheat Codes" Everyone Should Know. by Theama(m): 5:52pm On Jan 02, 2024 |
Hmmn |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: School Feeding To Gulp N100bn In 2024 by Theama(m): 10:18am On Jan 02, 2024 |
Hmmm |
Family › Re: What Are You Starting To Like LESS The Older You Get? by Theama(m): 7:04pm On Dec 28, 2023 |
Movies, Social media. |
Career › Re: Is It Right To Tell Your Boss "Send Your Account Let Me Credit You For Xmas? by Theama(m): 8:24pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
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Education › Re: I Am Not Taking This! My Baby Girl Deserves The 1st Position. 15as! by Theama(m): 2:08pm On Dec 16, 2023*. Modified: 8:21pm On Dec 16, 2023 |
This reminds me of secondary school when I beat someone by about 0.33 mark difference to collect a prize  |
Romance › Re: What Advice Do You Have For Him. by Theama(m): 1:13pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Say whaaarrrr |
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 4:32pm On Dec 10, 2023*. Modified: 4:52pm On Dec 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: You're the one who should read to understand and not to argue... Even after I told you that I'm not against the man not financially supporting his in-laws, you're still trying to force your ideology on me.
You're entitled to your own opinion, so stop trying to project it on me. I just went through and re-read from the initial post. "When they visit, they should cook for themselves..." This was what I was trying to address aif you go through my responses. I didn't pay attention to the ''whenever the wife is busy," part. Re-reading it, I assume busy means when at work. Apparently, admittedly, I read out of context including your initial(also actual) view on the financial support stuff. |
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 11:49am On Dec 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: You're the one who should read to understand and not to argue... Even after I told you that I'm not against the man not financially supporting his in-laws, you're still trying to force your ideology on me.
You're entitled to your own opinion, so stop trying to project it on me. Toh! |
Nairaland General › Re: Dey Play, Idan, No Evidence, Other Popular Nigerian Slangs In 2023 by Theama(m): 11:16am On Dec 10, 2023 |
Slang of the year award.  |
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 11:10am On Dec 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: Clearly you didn't read my first comment.
And since when is helping your in-laws financially a burden and slavery? it's not like they'll be asking for financial assistance forever too. My point exactly Helping them isn't slavery the same thing as being hospitable isn't slavery . Give if you're able to and not be forced to is the point. They requesting financial assistance and demanding for it constantly and by force is slavery. That is abuse and is different from if he decides to be constantly sending it by his own will. This is the point. You get? The same way cooking/being hospitable when people come to your house isn't slavery. You can't chase them back to where they're coming from. You being forced to go to their house to cook and nurse them is slavery and abuse. This is different from if you decided willingly/agree to go there. Now, assuming the couple's distance from their relatives is long. Yes, the relatives can ask for financial assistance forever over the phone ( e.g every week, month); it is possible. No, they cannot visit your house (every week, month) Read to understand and not always to argue Now, do you understand? |
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 10:47am On Dec 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: Like I said, I'm against it the same way I'm against a woman being made a slave for her in-laws. Didn't sound like you were against it.  Besides since when did being hospitable e.g cooking for family, friends and guests when they visit become slavery? It's not like they're staying forever.  |
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 8:22am On Dec 10, 2023 |
Samantha124: So what you're telling me is that Nigerian men don't love and respect their in-laws, yet they expect their wives to love and respect their in-laws just because a bride price was paid for them That's not what I'm saying  So what you're telling me is that a man being overburdened, slaving or made compulsorily to provide for his in-laws and not out of his personal will is your definition of him being loving and respectful?  |
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Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 8:23pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: I'll also cook for his family when I can.
Why prepare to be the first wife when I can just give him the money he paid for the bride price and go my separate way?
And remember that getting him a girl from the village wouldn't mean he'll love her because his family would've gotten her just to spite me, but he'd have married me because he'd have chosen me for himself and because he loved me.
He'll probably just see the girl as his maid and sex object while I'll find myself the man I love and move on in peace. You don't know how the average man works  . If he's a no nonsense man As long as the new wife gives him Peace of mind Respects him and his family Cooks Good character Doesn't over burden him or nag at him That's what it basically takes for the average man to fall in love. You can ask your Fianceé why he chose you and you might see most of this being told to you. He'll eventually fall in love with her because that's what he saw in the first wife before she started misbehaving and wanting him to become a beast of burden forget family. If the first wife goes her Separate ways he has seen an alternative who gives him and his family the peace of mind they want and he's least concerned about the first wife. If she eventually finds a manage loves if she still refuses to cook for his family she'll be booted out again because there's a higher tendency she exhibits the signs of somebody who overburdens others. Unless the man she end up with has no respect for his family, he might tolerate such acts. If you were Nigerian you'd probably understand sha. |
Family › Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Theama(m): 7:47pm On Dec 08, 2023*. Modified: 8:10pm On Dec 08, 2023 |
Samantha124: I don't disagree with what everyone is saying, in fact I agree that the groom shouldn't be burdened with the responsibility of financially supporting his in-laws, but the wife should also not be expected to perform certain responsibilities towards her in-laws.
When they visit, they should cook for themselves whenever the wife is busy, for she's not their chef... And if one of the groom's parents gets sick and needs 24/7 care, the groom should care for his parent to good health, for his wife wouldn't have signed up to be a nurse when she agreed to get married to him.
What do you think guys?  In the traditional African setting then the wife should prepare to become first wife. When the husband's people see the wife of their"brother" has misbehaving because he has refused to become a beast of burden for her family. E no hard the husband's family go bring one small girl from their village who doesn't mind to take over. Soon she becomes that second wife that can be cooking for them and taking care of them whenever they visit. Some men from the man's village might be having at least 2 wives so all your nuclear family blah blah doesn't freak them. Soon the first wife becomes redundant and marginalised as attention moves to the second wife. The husband's family and friends and everybody moves on with their life till nobody even cares about her. Everybody is Happy at the end of the day. On a serious note so because the Man has decided not to overburden himself but helps the in-laws as he can does it mean the wife should rebel and start displaying a rebellious attitude? As if she can't take care of her own family too. I know a man, his wife's family gave an amount to be contributed by every son-in-law for an event. Imagine such  |
Romance › Re: As A Man What Do You Bring To The Table Aside Money- Naija Man Questions by Theama(m): 7:09pm On Dec 06, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Decided To Start Going To Church. by Theama(m): 9:50am On Dec 05, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: Stopped going to church in 2006 and it had been a terrible moment for the past 17 years I stopped church. Please suggest to me a good church to attend where I can grow spiritually and also church that help their members too in terms of job connection and career development Ask the Lord to lead you to one. |
Food › Re: Drinking Garri: Who Else Will Never Stop Enjoying This Food? by Theama(m): 4:39pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
EDUECO: Garri plus peanut,milk, chocolate and honey is best taken after passing through the hot Nigerian sun!
Garri snack is best taken when soaked in cold water medium.
Soaking garri has always been a staple snack in ₦igeria.
Garri flakes( aka soak and travel) can never be as useless as Nigerian political class. Add Cold water there + Fried Chicken/Turkey  |
Romance › Re: The Type Of Men I Don't Want (personal Opinion) by Theama(m): 2:46pm On Dec 03, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: Funny thread. Thought I was the only one who hates a bald head. I don't think baldness can be genetic, rather, I believe it is caused by lack of care, or lack of good nutrition. Madam what you "believe" doesn't change fact; baldness is majorly based on genetics. |
Politics › Re: Imagine You're A Policy Maker In Your State, What Policies Would You Formulate? by Theama(m): 11:31pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
Maybe on resources:
If you own land, ensure its active use—either lease it out or engage in agricultural activities. Unless under bush fallow, inactive land faces revocation.
For dormant business properties or buildings closed for an extended period, you either rent the facilities out or demolish them if no further use is envisaged. Repurposing the land for something beneficial e.g the issue of long-closed fuel stations wasting valuable space. |
Romance › Re: What Does A Nigerian Girl Offer In A Relationship by Theama(m): 7:59pm On Dec 01, 2023 |
muyico: She made u to be responsible man,a father,married man,then complete man, God said isn't good for a man to live alone, so been single and living alone isn't good in God sight You say?  |
Romance › Re: Someone's Wife Material �� by Theama(m): 1:54am On Nov 30, 2023*. Modified: 3:15am On Nov 30, 2023 |
1) Seems some women are to relationships as some men are to football clubs  "We did this...", "We won that..." "We own this..." "Go and check our properties/trophy cabinet." Some support na by talk Some dey give support in many ways nor just talk (actually by buying Tickets, Jerseys, showing solidarity e.t.c) Some hide only to show when there is success 2) Some view it as Kingdom stuff: In some conquest, although the efforts were by the generals, soldiers, People and King , the Kingdom is ruled by he and his Queen and she still remains Queen whether they win the battle or not. Nothing concerns her with the planning and tough work on getting new territories but she somehow gets involved in the celebrations and visiting of the conquered territories. She can as well claim she was with the King when he had not expanded his empire. Some guys aren't cool with this and thus dey avoid official relationships. So that no one in particular has a single claim to them Dem no wan hear that "we were this..." "We were that.". Their style na "I belong to everybody and I belong to nobody." But really, whatever form you can offer (commitment, contribution of ideas, financial e.t.c), to the best of your ability and capability isn't bad. Not the one that you barely did anything, sat there looking like a rock and you want to claim "We..." Summary: Human Beings are funny creatures; higher animals who sometimes act like clowns of the animal kingdom.  |