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Yourba amaka

Yourba amaka

Am just advising the op from a male perspective, obviously men also have a lot of problem

iamdaquin01:
Why are you about ladies alone?
What about guys Or they're so perfect anddon't need to be worked on?

No vex auntie

Averyanna:
Now,you are making sense , though I'd still coman beat you for some of your words

Is not too late man you can still call off the whole shit, getting married to a disrespectful lady is like signing your death warrant

I agree with this older women are more respectful and wise,and don't usually have entitlement mentality,so guys if you are tired of billing get yourself an older woman

Lol ,I was high when I typed all that,now here's my real advice
The op should decide what she wants, cause from this story that guy is not yet ready for serious relationship,I assume he is still young and he wants to live he's live like a rockstar ,they can both have a deep conversation on the matter,but she did broke up with the so I don't think she has the right to get angry or anything,if you didn't want other people sleeping with him you shouldn't have let him go,the only thing that was hurt was her ego,

Averyanna:
Does he even deserve sex when he hasn't gotten married to her yet?, sometimes,you just need to rather shut your mouth than spilling out nonsense

Men hardly divorce for no reason the problem is women ones they no longer gaining anything they zoom off,it's quite sad actually

Maybe you don't give it to him good enough,abi aren't you the type that just lye down like log,no action no anything, , madam get better at your game shedi it's only sex not Asif he's dating the girl.

God when,will my problem be so little that I will have time to worry about nonsense like this

I depends bro,on the kind of person you marry,if you end up with a liability for a wife then success is far from you,and this are the majority,but if the person you marry actually contribute something to your life and you both work hard to achieve your dreams,then you chance of success have double,but this ki d of women are hard to find like mad,you kind find them in smart place like connventions,is either that or my brother just stay single,why you have money get a baby mama

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!


Lalasticlala

Rubbish

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Complete definition of immaturity..
If that really was the reason he broke up with her then he is not mentally capable to be in a relationship..

Now that he broke up with her is that gonna bring back the picture...
Why does this sound so awkward and weird to me..there must be other reason for that not the picture..he already had it in mind to call it off and only used the picture as an excuse..

GloriousGbola:
Are we living?

A car was snatched at gunpoint outside my close.
Every night I hear okadas at 2am to 3am
Once I am in any traffic jam, I am looking up and dan for robbers
Police are harassing the daylights out of young boys and girls
People are robbed and raped in public transport
People are kidnapped every day.
We all have friends or are ourselves survivors of unsolved crimes

Do not sugar coat it

This is not natural.

A friends MIL was murdered in festac some years back by armed robbers who came for the dollars

I know Nigeria is bad right now,in fact an okada man was killed yesterday morning in Front if my street by police

Am not sugar coating anything,am just trying to say there are still people that live rich or poor in Nigeria happily for all their lives without much problem,yes we need to state the fact. true but all this name calling and tarnishing the little name we have isn't doing any good either

I was surprised wether he actually type all that or he copied it from somewhere just to bad mouth his country

Ishilove:
As in, see as the guy dey cap nonsense with baffling confidence

Not that easy actually,maybe if they were citizens,and even though the fact that they are black is another problem, embassy go use their eye see shegge

Nwodosis:
That na old format, it won't work. The woman and the kids should visit the
nearest Spanish embassy and have their documents restored.

Then Happy married life ,and treat him well that's just the secret with Nigerian men,treat him well, respect him, support him and take care of him,and I assure you he will treat you like a queen

ChimasGirl:
I swear down he is legit.

ChimasGirl:
Haha. I'm not worried about voodoo or juju. I'll still go see my boo.

please,try and verify this guy before coming to avoid stories that touches,but if he is legit,then you have to come oo,pls don't break my guy heart,or I'll come for you

OhBritannia:
It is very very very dangerous.
Apart from maybe Abuja, trust me no other. Place in NIGERIA is safe.
I repeat no other place in Nigeria is safe even for Nigerians not to talk of foreigners.
This is one thing you should know, Most Nigerians are criminally minded.
The environment has turned them to animals. Even some of the friends of your boyfriend might Just have dangerous motives when they discover you are in Town.
Motives such as kidnap.
Rape without your consent ( when you are unconscious)
If you know the numbers of unconscious rape that goes on in Nigeria daily, you will never step your foot in NIGERIA.
Ladies are being raped unconsciously in hotels clubs, some of these ladies that knows never speak up because the country lack the right tools to catch a rapist.
How do you explain the fact that a sexually enhanced drug is secretly put in your drink as a lady without your knowledge, after sometimes you start feeling heavily horrnyy without self control and you end up having sex with the person or group of men that put the drug in your drink.
After the sex you end up realizing yourself but you can't complain or go to the police because your mind have been made to believe that you gave your consent but deep down you knew something went wrong.
Lots of women in NIGERIA are secretly going through this but they can't speak up because do the Nigeria police have the immediate toolz to determine the things that went into your stomach?
How you going to go to a police station In a rural area to complain of being drugged and made to have sex? Where will the police get the medical equipment to look into your system?
because of this, most ladies don't go to the police.

Actually unconscious rape has become the order of the day in NIGERIA, as i am writing to you now, about a thousand unconscious rape has taken place in NIGERIA and these men will go Scot free.
Not all guys though but majority of the guys are animals, they might end up using juju to lure you away from your boyfriend.

I know foreign women that came to NIGERIA to meet their Nigeria lovers but they end up following a friend of the Nigeria lover. It's not Love or natural, it's juju ( Black magic).
It happens all the time in NIGERIA but they never gets to the news.
There was a True life story that happened in Delta state, a married man brought his white wife to Nigeria for holiday after few weeks the wife was to go back first because of work and the man has an unfinished business in NIGERIA.
So the best friend of the man had to accompany the wife to the international airport in Abuja since the man was attending to an important business in delta.
This is a childhood friend we are talking about.
Lo and behold the white wife never got to USA at the stipulated time.
The best friend of the man made the white woman spent extra 2 weeks in a hotel in Abuja with him before she finally left for America and as we speak today she is pregnant for that best friend and they are both in America.
The husband up till today didn't go back to America because of heartbreak, the good thing is that all his investment is in NIGERIA ( he was a wise man)

My point is that It was clear the lady was under the influence of black magic.
This country Nigeria is 80% controlled by black magic, forget about the many churches you see, black magic is used in excess in NIGERIA, almost nothing is natural from politics to entertainment even to ordinary relationship which is supposed to be natural.
Most NIGERIANS both male and female who thought they are in a loving relationship do not know that they are Under the influence of black magic.

My dear Nigeria is my country but this my country is made up of Animals in human form.
For every bad news being reported on social media, about 1 thousand are being not reported ( bitter truth)
My advise for you is that even if you want to come to Nigeria as a complete foreigner, made sure your security is tight and please don't come alone, if possible come with two or three of your friends and if you can convince your brothers, come with one or two of your brothers.
Nigeria is a jingle, people will do anything to survive, most people are never comfortable.

A word Is enough for the wise.

WTF man,no be the same naija you dey live,haba you no try oo,you no won make the babe come see her boo

Leave the man and his hustle na , must you comment,abi you like this Nigeria like this

siofra:
So?

We should follow you to your marital home for omugwo