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ireneony:
This one na sickness

orisa37:
Pay to wherever you feel God will use it to develop you. Understanding is God.

Julietcutie:
one of the greatest benefits of being in a deep, meaningful relationship with someone is gaining that level of comfort that only time and experience can provide. But with that comes some behaviors that should be off-limits, no matter how tried and true the relationship is. This isn’t about things like passing gas or waxing your upper lip. Love and respect runs much deeper than that and as wives, God calls us to a high standard, “A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” Proverbs 31:10. We are emotionally wired creatures and revealing certain behaviors can often have a more damaging effect on our man’s view of us than we could have ever imagined. Here are some things we women should never do in front of men.
Self-deprecating :Let’s face it, we all love to
be at the receiving end of a compliment. But
sometimes, when we aren’t getting the
affirmation we need, we tend to fish for them.
One way of doing that is by being self-
deprecating. When we consistently say terrible
and negative things about ourselves, sooner or
later, it brings these notions into fruition and our
man will inevitably begin to believe them…and
even worse, so might you. A confident woman is
far more attractive than one who doesn’t respect
herself—so keep your commentary about yourself
positive and optimistic.
“For the Lord will be your confidence and will
keep your foot from being caught.” Proverbs 3:26
2) Drive Poorly :
How many times have you heard a man joke
about a “female driver”? As harsh as it is for
women to be at the bud of that jab, even despite
the fact that we are statistically less prone to
accidents and risky driving behaviors, it’s a
stereotype that we can perpetuate by exhibiting
poor driving behaviors in front of our men. So put
aside anything that distracts you: your phone,
makeup, the radio, food, etc. Keep your eyes on
the road and be acutely aware of your
surroundings.
3)Doubt Yourself
Women are often (unfairly) criticized for being
indecisive. While it’s totally okay to be unsure of
things, it becomes less okay when we drastically
change our minds (or conversely can’t make up
our minds) on life’s more pressing issues. Avoid
making rash decisions and take the time you need
to sort through the decision, but make sure you
are thorough and thoughtful in your logic so you
aren’t tempted to change your mind. And don’t
be afraid to stand behind your decision, even
when the odds are stacked up against you. A
decisive, self-assured woman is always
appreciated by our men.
4)Lose Your Temper
There is absolutely a time and place to get angry.
It’s not an emotion that should be stifled or
hidden, but it should be reserved for only the
most warranted of situations. Recognize the
difference between being angry and losing your
temper. Anger is reached after thoughtful
consideration and examination of all
circumstances. Losing your temper happens
spontaneously, prematurely and often before
understanding all aspects of the issue. Next time
you find yourself on the brink of losing it, refrain
from taking action on it and give yourself a few
moments to collect your thoughts (or even sleep
on it) before making any rash conclusions.
5)Get Overly Jealous
It’s okay to get a little jealous of your man from
time to time—after all, God is jealous for us, too
(Deuteronomy 4:23-24). But we need to be
careful and not let our jealousy over asinine
things spiral out of control, as over time, it can
be a cancer in a relationship. The more you
express your jealousy, the more your husband is
going to take measures to avoid unwarranted
confrontation from you and that’s not the kind of
marriage you want to be in. Trust is the
cornerstone of a healthy marriage and by trusting
our husbands we are showing them our love and
support in the best possible way.
6)Criticize His Manhood
So your man may not be the handiest around the
house or perhaps he’s not quite athletically
inclined. That doesn’t mean you need to remind
him of these facts. In fact, seemingly harmless
jokes or comments of that nature can severely
emasculate a man. Our words carry so much
power and kind ones can have a wonderfully
lasting effect on a marriage.
7)Draw Comparisons
Drawing comparisons to other people and other
relationships is unhealthy, unproductive and can
lead to unrealistic expectations. When we point
out our differences, in particular in regards to our
husbands, it can ruin their confidence and confuse
them. God brought the two of you together in the
most unique way, no two stories are alike.
Cc : lalasticlala
Cc : RoyalRoy

Julietcutie:
read the post well am a lady can't call my fellow women robots this are just some things a woman shouldn't do to her man and also in his presence...

naijadeyhia:
And what is so hard to believe about that? Some animals eat once a week and while some animal waste serves as food for others.

How many children did Noah have?

naijadeyhia:
Did it ever occur to you that when the bible says 2 of every animal it never said if the animals should be fully grown?

Only fully grown animals are territorial. Baby animals know no better.

Lilbrown007:
GOOD Now Lets Put Two Of Ever Animal On Earth In It And See How It Fits And Keep Them In There For 40days Lets See If They Could Live In Harmony

DJHANDSOME:
I think he should have had himself thoroughly beaten and nailed on a cross to prove Jesus story was TRUE. mitchwwww

0955eb027:
Nigerians matter don tire me sef.

Ighoga898:
So she can't pray for another national just bcoz her own is way beyond worst..

ify2016:
Nigerians can paranoid sha.

Though there are some elements of truth from the fans observations but I don't expect them to go do deep with the celebrities.

We have our freedom to wish anyone our condolence because our interest differs from one another.

Please, we should always control our angers while in the public domain.

We are not beast please

T3Amo:
All couples will go through marital problems. Its inevitable and also the honeymoon phase will pass. So what happens when the honey moon phase is over? When finances becomes to much to bear then the fight starts and unhappiness creeps in. If the husband is dangote then great but looking at the current economic situation especially in Nigeria and what the average man earns, one needs to be realistic. When you have kids its not just about you and "happiness". There are people who hate their jobs and would love to quit but they can't because they have responsibilities. The reason we work hard is ultimely for our kids and family to have a better life. If I have to work from 7am to 9pm in order for me to give my kids the best future possible then I will do it.

T3Amo:
Maybe in the past I would have chosen good marriage but now I would choose a career.

The truth is love comes and goes. Ask anyone and being financially secure and having comfort and less worries is what will keep the marriage going when the love is gone.


As long as I am able to provide for family and kids and will be able to provide them with security in life than that's the main thing. If you Also work hard early in life than you can retire early and then spend the rest of your time travelling and enjoying retirement with your spouse.

Where will the happiness be when there is no money to pay your debts, kids education etc etc and if that so called spouse leaves you then you are left with nothing. all the rich people in the world today are where they are because of their career and that's why their kids, grandchildren etc are benefiting from it.

You can still be happy with a good career and still be there for ur kids

sinaj:
Your grammar chased her away

Um... are u relatedness to Jenifa

toprealman:
what if her head gets chopped off like we heard in the news last month or maybe a heart attack resulting from emotional torture or maybe something even worse done to her by the accused which leads to her death....."before her kids are fully grown"....what happens

neocortex:
If she can endure till the kids are matured, then she will have no
need to divorce him in the first place.

MsGlobalwonder:
seriously Ahh! She should wait till her kids are grown before she has a life? because her life and destiny is tied around her children? Oh dear...

sinaj:
They should settle d differences for their kid's sake.