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RomanceRe: Why Women Are More Attracted To The Bad Guys Than The Good Guys by theEYe21(f): 2:59pm On Aug 15, 2016
Take it easy mister, it's not a quarrel grin
kepstone:
TOTAL NONSENSE... YOU ARE LESS THAN 30 YRS I GUESS GROW UP OP, PLS GROW UP. ANY LADIY THAT FOLLOWS THIS WRITE UP AND BELIEVE SHOUKD BE REMANDED IN A PSYCHIATRIST HOSPITAL. TOTAL NONSENSE. I AM A GOOD GUY AND A NICE ONE AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE NICE BECAUSE I AM RESPONSIBLE AND WILL BE TO MY WIFE AND CHILDREN.
RomanceRe: How To Start Up An Online Conversation With A Lady by theEYe21(f): 2:02pm On Aug 15, 2016
dukeprince50:
my mates deh find work, I go deh learn how to talk to a girl. I'm sorry man
RomanceRe: Social Experiment; Society Care More About The Ladies Than Men. by theEYe21(f): 1:58pm On Aug 15, 2016
And you are wondering why the society care more about women than men, 90% of topics on nairaland are about women this women that undecided if men could shut up and stop complaining women won't have this much attention
echodrum:
Check out this experimental video folks. People reacted quickly to save a woman from abuse by her male partner. But, no one cared when the reverse was the case??

What's your take?

https://www.facebook.com/SoFloVideo/videos/1202382783136307/
RomanceRe: When A Girl Doesn't Want You To Be Her Boo by theEYe21(f): 1:55pm On Aug 15, 2016
cruzita:
if she chop your money still friend zone u ,shebi na u go still complain?
RomanceRe: When A Girl Doesn't Want You To Be Her Boo by theEYe21(f): 1:55pm On Aug 15, 2016
sinaj:
Isn't it better if she pay for her drinks?
RomanceRe: When A Girl Doesn't Want You To Be Her Boo by theEYe21(f): 1:53pm On Aug 15, 2016
Guys don't make up their minds, if she pays she's friend zoning the niggaa, if she doesn't pay, she's a gold digger. Men are confused and don't know what they want undecided
sinaj:
Isn't it better if she pay for her drinks?
RomanceRe: Social Experiment; Society Care More About The Ladies Than Men. by theEYe21(f): 1:49pm On Aug 15, 2016
In nature, women or the female species are the most important grin
RomanceRe: Is Dis Luv Or Foolishness? by theEYe21(f): 1:46pm On Aug 15, 2016
FvckShiT:
Foolishness to the fücking core
RomanceRe: He Lied To Her, She Discovered The Truth On Their Wedding Day And Did This by theEYe21(f): 10:03am On Aug 15, 2016
It's her choice, it's her decision, she has every right to walk away undecided
RomanceRe: How True Is This? by theEYe21(f): 9:50am On Aug 15, 2016
Op which kind of marriage charger should we use, is it Apple marriage charger or Samsung grin
RomanceRe: What Is Our Naija Girls Turning Into??? (read This) by theEYe21(f): 9:46am On Aug 15, 2016
Men are the mugus while women are the smarties grin
RomanceRe: What Is Our Naija Girls Turning Into??? (read This) by theEYe21(f): 9:41am On Aug 15, 2016
Because money is POWER! With money, you can have anything you want. Why don't you do the same and stop complaining undecided
Passy089:
I Still don't Understand why our Naija girls are becoming soo obsessed with Money......

My Friend went to an ATM machine to withdraw some money, when he got there people were much so he joined the queue standing just behind a very pretty and attractive young girl, Meanwhile while my friend was waiting for his turn in the queue he happened to receive a Call from his Mum who was asking him about a transaction that involved huge sums of money and the pretty girl happened to hear All his discussion, so after the calls the girl started a conversation with him by asking him "hi Pls do you know if My UBA ATM card can work in First bank? " while he replied her "Yes why not" not knowing the girl has a plan, the girl now went ahead and introduced herself as Jane bla bla bla.... my friend equally introduced himself too and they struck a discussion, when it finally got to the girls turn she went Infront of the Atm and was busy opening her bag searching for something desperately so my friend asked her "what re u looking for"? she said "My ATM ooo, I thought it was inside my purse I must have forgotten IT at home, so she stepped aside for my friend to withdraw, after he withdrew the girl was already waiting for him and started telling him the story of her life, how she doesn't even have transport fare etc so my guy gave her 4k and left without even asking for her number. .....

My friend went inside a provision shop nearby and bought some stuff and while inside a keke on his way home, he saw the girl Infront of diamond bank ATM withdrawing money with the so called ATM she forgot at home..
Why do women like money so muchhuh?
RomanceRe: He Was Angry With His Brother Because Of This by theEYe21(f): 9:29am On Aug 15, 2016
I don't know why Nigerians like fighting or having conflict for the dumbest reasons. E.g getting angry because of plate. Rubbish! undecided
RomanceRe: What Is The Most Stupid Thing You Have Done For Love by theEYe21(f): 9:25am On Aug 15, 2016
Thank God I didn't do anything stupid for love because there's no guarantee undecided only people without logic will do stupid things for love, it's soo sad mostly men do stupid things for love undecided
RomanceRe: I Learnt This From A Lady Yesterday by theEYe21(f): 9:17pm On Aug 14, 2016
dollyjoy:
Why do people sin even when they know the consequences of sin is grave??
RomanceRe: Women Are Smarter by theEYe21(f): 9:15pm On Aug 14, 2016
firstking01:
See this one, na today you knowundecided
FamilyRe: Torn Between Love And Life by theEYe21(f): 2:44pm On Aug 14, 2016
you and your matter is a very sad one. Definitely you and and your mom have a very low self esteem, you don't know what you want, you let your mom control your life and your happiness. Why would you allow your mum to tell you who to marry? Is she the one that's going to spend the rest of her life with who you will marry? Your happiness should be your main priority, unless you don't want to be happy for the rest of your life
justnnecky:
Good morning fellow Nlnders,am writing this to solicit for your help and matured advice.
Am 27 years old,am d 1st dauta,though not married but I've not been lucky with relationships, my Mum is on my neck to settle,she blames me and my sisters for making her unhappy and not wanting her to be happy like her mates,each day she goes to the office, she gets mocked by her colleagues that her daughters are not getting married,and each time she gets mocked by them,she takes it out on me...Other guys that came with marriage proposition she turned them down bcuz they are not Igbo's.Now she tells me am way past having a relationship, what I should do is to go ahead and marry any guy that proposes to me.Now there are two guys in my life now,one is of the opinion that before we move to the next step,we must know eachoda in and out(esp as related to sexual matters),the other one though we've bn friends since our uni days but he's not financially prepared to start a family, plz what do I do cuz am seriously under pressure, thanks.
RomanceRe: Benefits Of Sleeping Unclad by theEYe21(f): 2:32pm On Aug 14, 2016
Op let me add
It reduces the risk of bad odour from the vagina, it let the vagina to breathe
RomanceRe: Benefits Of Sleeping Unclad by theEYe21(f): 2:29pm On Aug 14, 2016
supereagle:
It encourages greater intimacy

Apart from making sleeping next to a loved one exciting, our naked body releases oxytocin, often referred to as the “love hormone.”

A 2009 study published by the Swedish University of Agricultural Sciences, Uppsala, Sweden, says “Oxytocin reduces blood pressure, cortisol levels and helps to reduce stress.

This hormone does not only help relationship, but also your health!

It can keep you cool

One way to be cool during sleep is to abandon cloths.

It may help relieve insomnia

According to Dr. Cameron Van den Heuvel of University of South Australia’s Centre for Sleep Research, regulating sleep temperature may bring some relief to sufferers of insomnia.

“Studies of sleep onset insomniacs show that they consistently have a warmer core body temperature immediately before initiating sleep, when compared with normal healthy adults. This results in a state of heightened arousal that prevents them from falling asleep when they go to bed, probably because they have to wait for their bodies to lose the heat that’s keeping them awake. We’re only talking about a half to one degree but that small temperature change can result in significant differences in arousal between insomniacs and people without sleeping problems.”

The implication is that sleeping naked relieves insomia.

It can help relieve stress


Sleeping naked can relieve stress because it lowers cortisol levels. Cortisol is a hormone commonly referred to as the “stress hormone,” and when levels are chronically spiked, health problems can arise, such as a propensity towards high blood pressure, weight gain, and a compromised immune system.

It can make you look and feel young

During sleep a variety of growth hormones, as well as anti-aging hormones such as melatonin, are released. These hormones serve to keep us looking and feeling young. To encourage the optimal release of these growth hormones, we need to get those seven to eight hours of sleep.

http://punchng.com/five-reasons-sleep-naked/
RomanceRe: Facts About The Average Naija Gurl And My Advice. by theEYe21(f): 2:28pm On Aug 14, 2016
Op it's a free world. Let the average naija babes have whatever life they want, as long as it makes them happy. Op I think you should focus on yourself more undecided whatever you think about them is not going to affect them in anyway, they are going to do as they please so... All this story is just a waste of time undecided
RomanceRe: Am Ready For Marriage But Don't Av Money For Wedding. by theEYe21(f): 2:11pm On Aug 14, 2016
stunt89:
Bro you don't have to do elaborate wedding, just go for court wedding and safe yourself from debt. Invite few friends and family members you are done.
RomanceRe: Am Ready For Marriage But Don't Av Money For Wedding. by theEYe21(f): 2:10pm On Aug 14, 2016
Why can't you do court marriage? It's only 40k undecided btw court marriage is the only true marriage where It's verified and recognize for anything all over the world. You can do traditional and white wedding later, when you have the money
RomanceRe: Ladies Beware Of The Types Of Guys by theEYe21(f): 2:06pm On Aug 14, 2016
What about man city? Op sad
RomanceRe: Ladies Beware Of The Types Of Guys by theEYe21(f): 2:05pm On Aug 14, 2016
Flashh:
[color=#000033]#ProudlyBàrcaFan.[/color]
RomanceRe: Ladies Beware Of The Types Of Guys by theEYe21(f): 2:05pm On Aug 14, 2016
Op didn't lie. It's the true fact undecided
Firstlieutenant:
You lied about arsenal.
RomanceRe: Ladies Beware Of The Types Of Guys by theEYe21(f): 2:02pm On Aug 14, 2016
grin Nice one Op, like your post. Very creative and smart cheesy smiley
Zizaboni:
Types of Guys


.
1. Real Madrid Boys: They only go in for
expensive ladies (Galacticos). When they set their
eyes on you, you will fall for them. Their offers
are very tempting and sweet to go by. When you
are with them and you easily flop, they will fire
you quickly.
.


2. Barcelona: These kinds of guys will always
make you feel at home. As a lady, you count
yourself lucky. They will do whatever possible to
always make you smile and feel proud. Even if it
requires cheating to make you happy, they will
do that at all cost.
.


3. Athletico Madrid: These guys love ladies with
an aggressive heart. No loose marking and would
try whatever means to defend their relationship.
If you are a lady and you fall in love with them,
forget about break up, they will defend it till the
end.
.



4. Arsenal: They are kinda of lovely guys Always
play a lovely role, but when the relationship is
getting excited and you expect them to deliver
results, they will easily disappoint you. They are
specialists in breaking hearts.
.


5. A.C Milan: These guys brag to ladies based on
what they achieved in time past. But currently,
their pockets might be dry.
.


6. Chelsea: The prestige and swag are there.
They have patience for their girls when they fell
in love with you very well. They can keep you
forever and ever. They simply need a type of
Lady that can bring smiles and glory to their
faces. They are hungry for success.
.


7. Liverpool: They don't know what kind of lady
they actually want. Their youthful days were
bright, but they are seriously battling for the kind
of lady that can help make them successful one
more time. However, they are the fine guys'
ladies want and they never give up to break up
until the very end.
.


8. Manchester United: These guys can date like
ten times a year. They easily take a girl and
easily break up with them. They have no
nonsense heart for a relationship. They are quick
tempered in nature. Ladies that date them know very well
that their future is risky.
RomanceRe: I Don’t Understand This Woman by theEYe21(f): 1:59pm On Aug 14, 2016
Colydatom:
With Auntie Agatha

Dear Agatha,

There is a girl [woman] I have a crush on and wishing we would end up getting married. I am 30 years of age and an engineer by profession. I am currently doing my masters programme. She has finished her masters. She is also an engineer but unlike me, she is yet to secure an appointment. We met about two months ago but my problem with her is that she acts funny at times. One day we are the best of friends and another day she goes all cold on me to the extent of not picking my calls.

Although I have not made known to her what my real intentions are but she knows about my soft spot for her. She actually started her funny attitude after I declared my likeness for her. This behaviour of hers has made it difficult for me to make my intentions known to her because she might just start avoiding me completely.

Agatha, I do not really know how to approach her so as not to embarrass myself and as well scare her away from me completely. Sometimes I think part of her problem has to do with pride due to her level of education or just doing the normal things women do, play tough before agreeing to a man’s request.

Kindly assist me on how to approach her because I would really wish to marry her if she pays me attention.



Worried Guy.

Dear Worried Guy,

To desire to have her in your life permanently means you have seen some very rare qualities in her which are absent in the women that have graced your life so far.

Is not, there a saying that the more rare a qualities of gold, the more precious it is to those who want it? Therefore it follows that there is always a price of patience and perseverance that must accompany something very precious.

Success does not come easy in life. A determined mind must cross so many obstacles to get to that desired goal. If you really want this woman so desperately in your life, you must develop the thickness of skin to overlook her current disposition towards you.

The fact that she is behaving this way does not necessarily mean she is arrogant about her educational accomplishment; after all you are not without the same scale of education as she has. So why would she want to show off to you? To assume that is her reason for doing what she is doing is a restricted way of thinking and is completely unfair to her, since you don’t even know anything about her past as well as her experiences with men.

So many things could make a woman wary of going into a fresh relationship. For instance, she may just be recuperating from the after effect of a relationship that she has invested so much in. To jump therefore into another relationship may not be on her menu for now. She would certainly require from any man who wants her, certain measure of sympathy and tolerance to vacate whatever bitterness she has accumulated from her not too pleasant experiences in the hands of men.

She also may be the kind of woman who has persistently fallen into the wrong hands of men who only want a woman’s body.

You must also appreciate one fact; that she may currently be in a very profitable relationship. Other men are not blind to the qualities you see in her.

Just as you desire her for those qualities so would other men. Simply because you are single does not mean she is. To think that way would be very presumptuous of you.

In addition, when a relationship goes sour, the woman is the one who suffers the most because apart from missing the affection of the man, she is the one whose body suffers the wears and tears of intimacy. For every unplanned pregnancy and abortion that takes place in her life, the lifespan of her womb depreciates. Some women never recover from such experiences. If at the end of the day, the man for whom she procured the abortion ends up not marrying her, she becomes the sole victim of that entire experience and decision.

These are some of the reasons some women put stiff obstacles on the path of men wanting to get close to them.

Rather than begin your quest to win her with calling her names, first make the effort of getting to know her by becoming her friend.

On the days she is quite friendly, ask her why she goes completely cold on you at times. It might be her cue to open to you. Knowing you are willing to get to know her beyond the façade of the face she presents to the world might warm her heart enough to share her past with you. For women who know how to think, love is not the first thing a woman looks out for in a man. Rather, she looks out for friendship, a man who can make her talk about those things hidden deep in her heart, who can make her laugh, forget her challenges, cry her heart out over those things she has no solutions to, make her smile even when she is hurting so much and making her appreciate who she is.

What she may really be in need of is a friend who would make her feel all these things. Love is woven into friendship; by the time she is relaxed with you, looks forward to seeing you and brightens up at hearing your voice, then you know she is ready to feel love again.

Your concern now should be what is responsible for the way she is currently behaving. Once you know, it would be easy for her to see how much you want to make her happy. This way you would have allayed whatever fear of insincerity she may think you have towards her.

Good luck


More: http://newsherald.com.ng/2016/08/dont-understand-woman/
CelebritiesRe: Linda Ikeji Helps Emma Ugolee Who Has Kidney Failure by theEYe21(f): 1:01pm On Aug 14, 2016
You are disgracing yourself by displaying this slavery mentality. If you'd focus on yourself or your life more rather than other people's lifestyle, you wouldn't be were you are today undecided
dpete1:
see dumb ass mumu.its only an advice...in africa, marriage is important..if she is not an african,there wouldnt have been problem buh she is AFRICAN!!
RomanceRe: (gals Only) How Do U Feel When A Doctor Touch Ur Kitty Cat by theEYe21(f): 12:47pm On Aug 14, 2016
Must every woman get irritated? undecided everyone have different feelings for different things, it's called free will
FlawlesRebirth02:
Never experience it•••so I dnt know+ why would you get hornNy when a male doc touch ur kitty?Are you a foOOl(not u ooo @op)you are suppose to be irritated,Not getting HornNy

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