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lilyqueen:
I don't like bad guys

larion:
Baba! Did you have problems with your English comprehension teacher in primary skool?

Likely serious?

Did you read when I said the key to marriage is understanding. Can you point out where I said a woman to accept everything and a man should unleash all the terror.

Which principle of marriage is universal when there is still something called culture. Did you read when I said Tiwa should have know that Teebillz is a useless man and not lock the marriage in the first place.

Exactly where did I paint I am African man and my wife must obey or where did I picture taking another wife?

Did you read when I said the man provides 100% of every every and the wife just drop 30% max despite the fact that she balance well, how is this enslaving the woman.

I never painted a marriage of cast in iron and duty of the woman to make it work, what I painted was UNDERSTANDING.

You are talking like I am supporting the men, but did you read where I wrote that a Nigerian man will be a dunce for expecting 50% from his wife, with this statement I was telling the men to make there marriages work.

With the statement of Tuface and Peter and Teebillz, I was talking to the women to be understanding once they are in, cos it the women who go about running there mouth in most cases.

Did you read when I said Ade should not use Jack's template else his marriage will crash, is this not holding the men responsible or shey Ade na woman.

In the post, I held both men and women responsible, but you are not smart enough to read and comprehend, good luck since you have chosen to use a universal principle to guide your marriage when culture is still existing .

Its because of people like you who had issues with there English comprehension teacher in primary school I included this phrase " mark my words every body in the house understands...this should be the key to marriage survival....Understanding!"

But despite that, you couldn't mark my word and understand.....

Since your failed English summary in SS3 (that's if you are not even a jss2 kid at the moment) I will help you with the summary of my writeup:

1) Every marriage is unique and peculiar

2) Understanding is key

3) Watch your partner before marriage, of you can't take wat he/she does, don't lock the marriage.

These are the correct answers to the summary, your answer of marriages should be cast in iron and it is the duty of the woman to make it work and I am an African man, my wife must obey will score you zero in a summary test.

I know your type, you just wanna be a critic and u don't settle down to analyse and use your brain. I won't be surprise if you didn't read my post complete. You just jumped to answer and now you have scored 0/100

Now go do your corrections and be a good boy. FYI don't expect further reply from my....I have schooled you enough.

See you later...

Joavid:
in Africa, women must always make the sacrifices and compromises in marriage for it to work abi, while the man does as he pleases.

clap for ya sef. you don gather likes from male chauvinists like your self.

anetuno:
What a story! You know we are such hypocrites that people are applauding you. The principles involved in marriage are becoming more and more universal and I wonder why you think these observations made in this article are out of place in Nigeria because you think our own women should be ready to take all the abuse and mistreatment that nineteenth century wives endured from characters like you so that their marriage will succeed while the men will excuse themselves and continue to pull in a different direction.
You have to realize that Nigerian women are now getting the kind of education that their western counterparts get and are now more gainfully employed like their western counterparts so the issues of marital challenges are similar and make this piece relevant.
People like you have to shed the toga of 'I am an African man and my wife must obey whatever I say and has no right to make any input and if the marriage fails it is her fault and I can go ahead and take another wife'. This is twenty-first century and we must learn and share ideas that will make things work out for us. Your idea that Nigerian marriages should be cast in iron and it is the duty of the woman to make it work is fantastically outdated.
I will advise those that are liking your post to read through the entire piece and take whatever they may find useful and apply it in their marriage and relationship, this piece doesn't claim to be a manual of how to make marriages work.

Ebiz12:
Desperate girls fall for desperate lies like these!

UndisputedBosom:
In summary ladies use ur "Power Of A Woman" to checkmate ur partner


As simple as that....

Lovelynature:
Yeah, that's a big error among the youths nowadays. The error is mostly in the areas of searching for 'perfect look' and 'extreme riches' thereby ignoring the things that really matter. Our parents were content with moderate looks, moderate riches, character and hardworking while choosing spouses, thus solid love is built leading to lasting marriage, even when most of our fathers married many wives. But today, divorce seems to be on its peak, mostly among the so called celebrities thereby misleading the people as some couples would like to follow their steps over minor problems that can be simply solved. Today couples breakup on minor issues that could just be solved and laughed over within few minutes.


Truth is that compatibility is what matters most in marriage but no two people are totally compatible, hence some level of compatibility and understanding are good to go. Riches and good look may create comfort but not compatibility. Compatibility is a product of character - understanding.

queenDD:
Every woman wants her home to be better and more comfy than that of her mum, op I bet your sister and cousin sisters want the same thing too..

Psoul:
Real men do not marry the most beautiful girl in the world, they go for the girl that will make their world the most beautiful

Ekii:
That's funny. If that's all she's got to offer, then it was her fault he left. First of all, it is God who stands by anyone. All a woman can offer is support. When you have that one girl who loves you and doesn't mind the fact you are broke. She prays for you, encourages you, doesn't put you in a position that makes you feel less confident around her because you are momentarily incapable of giving her those fine things, she jumps buses with you when you manage to go on dates, still smiles through it and appreciates your effort. She never fails to remind you that you are destined for great things when you are downcast and much more.

SnowJay92:
So apparently nobody checks for compatibility, family background, genomics, and issues of real substance. No wonder there's so much marital problems in our society of recent.

Lovelynature:
Chai, see as person dey laugh here. This your capture na something else. Nobody is just perfect. But some ladies won't hear, as they are busy searching for the ''perfect guy'' that doesn't exist.

ForeverYoung197:
OK. What more you can do to satisfy let say a nympho?

misspicy2:
My thought exactly


seriously,are men so dump they don't have a mind of their own,are they babies that they can be controlled and manipulated just anyhow?

To me the topic should have been

"What sissy men allow Women do to them"

a real man knows what's right and wrong and have a mind of his own

vizkiz:
The saying goes "what a man can do, a woman can do better" I hope most people don't think this only results to the positive aspect alone.

Checking out the other thread on frontpage about how guys treat ladies, I will say that is nothing compared to what we(guys) face in the hands of these women on a daily something (in falz's voice).

So the next time people want to point fingers at men, just put it at the back of your mind that these ladies are not Saints either, Infact they are worse when it comes to maltreatment because they hurt us emotionally and believe me, that does more damage than fighting with godzilla... But Men don't complain because our ego sometimes wouldn't allow us to.

Here are very few cruel things we face from these crocodile tears developers


1.Use men as placeholders If she is a decent person, she’ll just get it over with and dump the boy, but if she’s cruel, she’ll hold on to him for a while until somebody new comes along. These girls don't like to be alone and without a relationship, so instead of putting you out of your misery and ending it, she’ll string you along until she meets someone to replace you.

2. Emotionally manipulate men Men don’t like to see women cry and some cruel women take advantage of the fact and use it to get what they want. A few tears would make men do anything to get it to stop but she wouldn't stop until she gets all you have.

3.Use physical violence While men hitting girls are often termed nasty, some cruel women feel it’s perfectly acceptable to hit their boyfriends, as he would never hit her back. This type of woman feels like she can inflict any kind physical pain on him without fear of repercussion. Some even go to the extent of damaging his gadgets(TV, phones etc...)

4.They withhold sex This is a time-tested, and frequently used, cruel thing for women to do to men. For most men, sex is as important as breathing, so withholding it in order to get something she wants or simply to punish her man for his transgressions is a pretty awful thing to do, even if it is effective. But that is the weapon most 9ja girls use.

5.They test their men You’re all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your girlfriend calls and asks you to change your plans to be with her instead. She doesn’t have any particular reason she just wants to see you. She knows that you had plans to meet up with the guys, but if you really loved her, you'd come over to her place instead. If her request comes with an “if you really loved me,” then it’s a test. If you choose anything other than immediately rushing to her side, you're going to fail. This kind of testing in a relationship is indeed cruel and petty

sade1994:
What I mostly check for is if you are hardworking.. .

Theoritical:
Yea' as men settles for ladies with good character so does ladies have their choices. If I was a lady, I swear' I won't settle for less. Abeg, who wan suffer

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dairykidd:
Lol,d ones u mentioned are lost chaps real guys have bearing & dont waste time pretending to be who they aren't for u to like them..Being real is the lifestyle wether he is struggling or already established..that realness & focus plus boldness attracts every female.. So my dear a bad is a Real guy & not those pant sagging,2k chain wearing lowlifes...keeping it real 100% is d game

rejoicebae:
are.yu.sure.uou.know.what.the.op.meant.by.bad.guys?..did.she.say.touts.or.unresponsible.guys?#hmmm