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Men marry for different reasons and more reasons why you should find out why your current fiance wants to marry you, Here are some of the reasons:

1. FOR CHILD BIRTH: This is the most common reason men especially those that are well to do want to marry. They simply want to marry a beautiful woman so she could give birth to cute children and after that, their business with the woman ends. This is when the woman will begin to complain of the husband having several side chicks outside. It is true that men are hunters in nature, they want to have a taste of every woman they come across but certainly a man can discipline himself not to be that way.

2. BECAUSE THEY ARE THE ONLY SON OR AGE IS NO NO MORE ON THEIR SIDE: When a man is the only son, he is pressured by the parent(s) and this kind of marriage happens due to desperation which leaves so many questions about the man unanswered. This is where the woman discovers the man he married is a monster who physically and verbally abuse her always. Marriage is about compatibility and as woman, you should endeavour to find out his good and bad sides before deciding if he is the kind of man you will want to spend the rest of your life with.

3. FOR COMPANIONSHIP: This should be the best reason for a man to marry. A man should marry his best friend, someone he can't live without. In this kind of marriage, you have known so much about your husband, knowing what he likes he like and what he hates. A man who marries his best friend will hardly have a reason to cheat.

So as a woman, what kind of man will you want to marry?

I have come to discover that most young girls develop the feeling that genuine love is scam as hence, tag every guy that approaches them for relationship as scammers. If you are a young girl or lady, please teach them these to avoid falling into the wrong hands:

1. BEWARE OF MEN WHO BELIEVE THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE YOU HAPPY IS TO SPEND YOU: This may seems true but every man knows he can spend hugely on a guy without loving her. Men and women are psychologically wired differently and that's why most men don't know the importance of giving a woman time and attention. A man can stay for 1 weeks for and not communicate with his male friends but that's nearly impossible for women because women value communication in friendship. Money can never replace time. The same they will spend on you and claim is love is same way they will spend on other ladies. Most men's ego is in their deep pocket.

2. BEWARE OF MEN WHO COMMUNICATE FRIENDLY WITH YOU ONLY WHEN THEY ARE Hot: If the only time a man tells you he misses you is when he is Hot, please run my dear. His mission is very clear. He is only hiding under the pretext of relationship to satisfy his sexual urge. If you both both are friends with benefit, that would have been different.

3. BEWARE OF MEN WHO DON'T DISCUSS FUTURE PLANS WITH YOU: As a lady you are treasure. A man that is in relationship with you should future plans with you. If all what he knows best is to take you to the latest joint or fancy restaurants, better know he is keeping you for pleasure only. He should be able to discuss short term, mid term and long term goals with you.