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Save yourself the headache and let her go. Love is not blind.

Do you mean 271 people can represent over 70 million eligible voters without being members of the NASS?

Saying it the way it is. Only hardwork brings true wealth

andysnoopy:
All these people advising you to change your phone number reareally need to shove it! Men are naturally made to be strong emotionally and if you happen not to be strong, changing your number as a quick fix to your emotional problem will be nothing but a short term solution.

The girl in question is cheating and is a serial cheater.. The advice for you on situation like this is to move on to the next girl... No matter what you have invested in the relationship, it still doesn't change the fact that she is not your wife! So stop acting like you have no choice!

You are lucky that you discovered this before marrying her.. A cheat is a cheat, killing yourself won't change her!! She even brag to her children that a man once died for her in the future so quit being a mugu and man up!!

The joy of her calling you while you are in a relationship is enough punishment for her.. so quit acting like you have no choice man... You do!! And the fact that there are more beautiful girls with values should be the encouragement you will need to put your life in order man!!

Man up!!

God bless you bro. This is how to advice a man.

modath:
Why you think we still dey keep on keeping on?

If na oyinbo, dem go don commit mass suicide or dey mental home on top depression.

You're right.

I love this . Only if they will comply

Nigerians making jokes outa every situation no matter how serious.

I'm indifferent about op putting her pix up there, he feels cheated because he didn't get the service he paid for.

Hilarious! From bombing pipelines to advicing the government

Fayose throwing darts here and there because they won't let him access "his" money. Wicked EFCC

Ladies with financial intelligence will have a bit of every other trait, they are hard to find though, if you think I'm lying check nairaland business and investment section

Lnxxxxx:
Op, I think this is actually the best thing that happened to you. Because if you guys were married this would have been a bigger problem.

Now the only person that can convince her to stay with you and choose you over the pastor on this forum is you. You have spent alot of time with her, so just relax and think about how she reasons and you will come up with something. And know that it may take some time, it hard to debunk a strong believe. If you also get through this you will know that you have reduced an external influence on your relationship (it's hard enough managing it without them sometimes).

But if you think it's a general women problem and there is someone in nairaland with a manual on how women work, abeg send me a copy or borrow me after you are done.

But seriously, Goodluck

Follow this advice. She will soon come back to you for a chat, prepare yourself for a superior argument when she comes, it's hard to find a good girl

BoboYekini:
Yes I see now.
It's lower lying land and what you see is a lake of sorts. After the dam was shut (or redirected?) the residual water pooled on this side.

Are you in lagos? If yes, please visit Kara tomorrow and see if this your explanation still holds

BoboYekini:
I'd like to see the other side. Really.

Scroll up, the fourth picture is the other side.

BoboYekini:
We can science this schit.

The water was from a dam that has now been shut - maybe temporarily.

The green vegetation is from the water lilies that have now settled on the ground - must have been pretty dense cover in the first place. They will not be green for long.

The ground is firm, and not particularly silty or muddy because it was always hard compressed clay, overburdened over a long long time and most likely artificially leveled to allow thoroughfare. Juxtapose with the adjoining highland right to the left of it (those shanties- any regular commuter on the route knows where I refer) and the picture becomes evident.

Bros haha... all this scientific deduction without prior history or visting the site to see things for yourself, how do you explain the water that keeps flowing on the other side, i guess there is another dam supplying that one going by your logic

I created a thread on this in the morning. It is so true. I don't think it will stay dry for long because there is water on the other side.

[color=#000099][/color] Below are pictures I took this morning of people walking on it. I couldn't get a closer shot but people looking from top of the bridge said it suddenly dried up. This use to be a flowing river that can only be crossed using a canoe.

jenigurl:
This post reads incoherently, it feels like a hastily put together ad.
It's not very informative more like a rant.
If I May ask what's the criteria for posts getting o front page on this website? More and more lately the quality of front page posts has really tanked.
Really finding it harder to finds reason to visit this website lately

If you are quite familiar with machines and how they work, it shouldn't be difficult for you to decipher what's written up there.
I guess this is the wrong post for you to show your dissatisfaction on the quality of post that makes the front page.

Never make a mistake of convincing a girl that want to leave you to stay.

Humans are just slightly different. How do you explain this " Agbero " behaviour in the so called organised society.

I visited this office in 2008. I was like... WOW! sleep on Ma.

The script has tompolo written all over it from day one. Thesame people telling us that tompolo is now in Libya and they will get him, all of a sudden made a U turn asking FG to defreeze his account . I knew no group can pull a stunt of that magnitude without consulting the king of the creeks. The biggest blow to him wasn't termination of his pipeline contract, it was denying him access to his loot.

ladyF:
Wait, so you mean he just paid the balance yesterday? After telling you he had paid for the goods and the teller was with the driver?

So he was really out to scam you. Chai!! Nairaland should not take down that thread, they have a history of burying fraud here. Let everyone know the scammers for who they truly are. We may even need a scam alert section sef with story behind the scam and the details of the thief attached.

If they keep deleting threads and destroying evidence, then my apologies, but they are part of the scam we are fighting against.

I totally agree with you. If our police can't have a database of criminals, we can have one here. No legal hustler deserves to suffer .

It's seriously annoying that one can't get good investment info here. So many desperate bastard on the prowl.

Way to go. We need more giants in the power generation sector just the way we have it in telecommunications.

I think this guy needs to spend 4 hours with the soldiers. if those words are directly from him, he sounds so unremorseful.
I can't imagine a thief telling the owner to let go and live to buy another car.

Impressed!

World best.

There are lots of mental illness that are yet to be named. Psychiatrist needs to up their job.

I troway salute o. 2baba, now i know your mentor.

You should have told her your observations , fears and possible escape route before it happens. It's your responsibility to keep her safe.