tunjijones:
These women have money to take care of themselves without the husbands. Many more women are now educated and make money on their own.

I know some women that can't even survive without a man too wld leave her husband cos he cheated.

But do you know the funny thing? These women that left Thier husbands cos he cheated on them wld now start dating married men. They didn't leave the husband cos he cheated, they left thr man cos they want to be free....marriage dey tie them down, dem no fit explore.

oluwaseyi0:
Major problem now is that most divorced women will now start following other women husband

There is hardly any single guy that will marry them after 3 kids and years of marriage

wagzyl:
Sincerely, this warped mentality (my man cheats, I must cheat too. what a man can do, a woman can do better) is the reason why our society especially Southern Nigeria continues to deteriorate massively in the name of being 'educated', 'woke', 'not taking nonsense'. Whether you like it or not, both genders are wired differently. The success of any marriage depends a lot on the maturity of the man and the patience of the woman. I'm not excusing men but this mentality has one and only one outcome, DESTRUCTION of the marriage. The white folks who brought/facilitated this warped mentality have already run down their own societies. They raise feminine men, high rates of divorce, and many more men shying away from marrying altogether. Their women hoe around in their twenties and are left with regrets in their forties, with many taking solace in their cats, dogs and other pets. Their society cannot sustain its own population and their politicians are facilitating immigration at insane levels. Those who fail to learn from the mistakes of others would definitely taste the same cycle of failure. A divorced woman is a money spinning venture (you can research more into their spending habits and the effect of divorce on the black communities in Baltimore, Chicago, etc.) and the children suffer the most.

What more? You divorce your husband for 'cheating' and end up as a side piece to another man in a relationship, most times married. The joke remains on the woman! Those who praise a woman for leaving a loving man whose only downside is cheating (no diseases, no violence and takes great care of his wife and children) are the same people who would quickly fill up her space. These women wont tell you but the truth is that it is only after about four to five relationships after their marriage, that they realize the enormity of the bad decisions that they've made but it's too late. They would then keep posting pictures online, seeking validation from random people to make it seem as though they're happy. If you disagree, it's fine but Jeff Bezos's ex-wife divorced him, remarried one everyday guy (a music or french teacher or so) and guess what? She divorced him again after 2 years. Is she married again now? Oh, you don't need to be married to be happy? Lol.. keep deceiving yourselves. The joke is on you!

Fiscus105:
A married woman who is a graduate, working with her certificate, earnings a good income, knows her rights and supporting husband at home.

There is no way you can subject such wife to the way ,18 century's husbands subjected their wives into.


THIS IS HARD REALITY MODERN DAY's HUSBANDS MUST KNOW AND INCORPORATE INTO THEIR SYSTEMs, IF THEY WANT LASTING AND PEACEFUL MARRIAGES.

Nevertheless, wife must also know that, no civilisation can make husband to play second fiddle in Marriage.

With this, compromise becomes Integra tool that can make Marriage works in 21st century.

Meanwhile, every wife knows that husband likely to cheat, a wise husband would do it discreetly in such a way that, even if wife knows,Marriage would still be intact. But foolish would say do ur worse! Before you know, a once a beautiful family becomes object of ridicule in the society (Yul Edolche)

Saturnalia:
It goes both ways. Nigerians are the most insensitive & callous lots on the planet.

Borrow them money and try to recover your money at the stipulated time, they will fight you and conjure up meaningless & stupid things like “Na money I borrow, I no kill person”.

If I’m dealing with a Ghanaian, I stay attentive.

If I’m dealing with a South Afrikan, I stay vigilant.

But if I have any cause to deal with any Nigerian, I stay cautious, careful & circumspect.

There is a virus in every Nigerian that compels them to prey on ANYTHING OR ANYBODY they come in contact with.

Never use “God fearing and Nigerians” in the same sentence except you’re dealing with an Hausa from the North (I am talking from so many experiences).

If you’re dealing with any Nigerian and he/she mistakenly mentions “God”, run away from such a person.

Before the Naira depreciated badly against the Dollar, I go the market to buy groceries. The stupid & the greedy market women were selling foodstuffs at an exorbitant rates that were even higher than the price MOST SUPERMARKETS were selling.

Guess what? They blamed it on the Dollar.

They would conjure up stupid phrases like “Nigeria Lo’n Pebi” meaning “Nigeria is what they call this place”.

You see some greedy Car-Dealing nonentities selling “accidented” & “flooded” vehicles at mind boggling prices that can ALMOST buy you a “USED CLEAN TITLE” vehicles; and they blame it on the Dollar - EVEN NOW THAT THE DOLLAR IS RAPIDLY DEPRECIATING AGAINST THE NAIRA and IMPORT DUTIES have been reviewed downwards to stabilize the economy.

I could go on and on.

Ask yourself this question, if any of these Loan Shark Businesses were your own, what “debt recovery” method would you adopt in dealing with these callous Nigerians, who borrow money without the intention of ever paying back?

In conclusion, I don’t blame these Loan Shark Companies.

If you do not want to be humiliated by the Loan Sharks, THEN STAY AWAY FROM THEIR MONEY. Simple as ABC.

Slytiger:



Victim mentality as usual..You guys are the biggest benefactor of one Nigeria. Your people are literally everywhere all over the country doing business.

frozen70:


Nothing like that
He came to clear his name probably because he is not involved in that wicked act

But he is highly needed because he may have a clue to whatever led to such killing, which will aid the investigation

For now all of them are guilty untill proven otherwise

As a traditional ruler, you must account for your community, through the informations you gather

So he did well and more heads will roll

The real culprits will rather drink snipper than surrendering themselves to the authority because they know that they will pass through painful death even seconds

Massiveglory:
Bayo stop ranting. Go after the pepetrators of the act not innocent persons.
The pictures coming out of the place is not a good one.

The killing of our soldiers is babaric but the military which is presumed to be more experienced and tactical needs to do better than just burning houses and killing innocent people.

The pattern of retialation by the army could just raise up another set of deadly groups which will start oil pipeline wahala.

DevilsEqual:
BAT with a vision

I couldnt have voted wrongly

Obidents, lets cry in unison

aariwa:
why don’t you guys vilify Regina daniels like you doing to Judy austen? Are they both not second wives? The only offense Yul committed and Nigerian women kept attacking him is because he is not as rich as Ned Nwoko

Osashalom:

It is now very clear that your medication is not working at all, you are just too sick to reason not to talk of making reasonable comment.
Where have you see men give women children that were not theirs? A man suddenly discovered he had been played for 51years and you are here talking out of point

immortalcrown:
Every choice has a consequence (foregone alternative or opportunity cost). Too much of sex or too much of sexual abstention is bad.

Celibacy or prolonged period of sexual abstention has huge godly benefits but with some consequences. Whoever wants to follow Christ should carry his or her cross. There is a cross for sexual abstention. A man with excess testosterone is prone to prostrate cancer if he is a celibate or he rarely indulges in sexual intercourse, unless he uses certain foods or medicines to alleviate the bad effects of the sexual abstention. There is a reason the Bible does not stipulate an age range for marriage. It is even advisable for an eighteen-year-old man to marry, if he is mentally and financially able to cope with family issues. After all, some younger husbands are more responsible than some older husbands. So, age is not what guarantees a peaceful marriage.

Frequent sex has its own benefits and its own consequences. You already pointed out some of the consequences. I won't repeat them. And I won't list the benefits unless you ask for them.

Arobaga:
Because we dey tell una the truth




Regulated because the world is seeing y’all evil deeds

The used social media to promote their deadly propagand in 2015 & no one arrested them now they want to ban it lol. The obviously can stomach what the feed others. Bunch of shameless people




Same social media y’all used as a tool to rubbish Jonathan and crabbed power




Oga Gbaja Ebi pawa ooo

correctyourself:


Infact they would ask you to pay back in 7days, if you manage to pay and decide not to take again, they would send their agents to start calling/sending you messages encouraging you to take loan.

These people does not mean well for nigerians.

For example: If you tell them that you don't have money to pay on the due day (7day) they would ask you to borrow from another loan app to pay them.

superCleanworks:
looks like they left the husband alive to teach him a very personal lesson. That man needs to explain his connection with those killers.

This is so sad

pocohantas:
Your ex-wife is taking care of the kids while you are busy trying to disvirgin your new girlfriend, yet you are still pained?

Why are the kids with her 247?
Did she stop you from coparenting?

If women can cook, submit and stay with cheating husbands for the sake of their kids. I don't see why this lesser scenario is hard for men to do. For a gender that doesn't benefit from marriage, this is an ideal arrangement if you ask me.

Focus on the kids.

YorubaRonu01:
These days people divorce for the smallest reasons, wokeness and social media made matters worst.
I just pity the growing children because they will turn out to be men-haters and female-haters!
As far I am concerned, Infidelity and when someone's life is at stake are the only valid reasons for divorce
Comparison, insatiability, disrespect and ego won't let this generation concentrate on their marriage!