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FamilyRe: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Theophilu(m): 6:11am On Nov 15, 2016
thewife306:
Before anyone would ask if he wasn't like this before marriage. No he wasn't. He never cautioned me harshly in private not to talk of in public.
When we were newly married he shouts at me in his younger brother's presence. (Why will they give me respect)
He did it in the presence of our plumber cos I told him the prices of the items were expensive.
Then our househelp. He does it so often that I begin to wonder what point he was trying to prove. To the extent that the lady started losing respect for me and giving me attitude anytime I caution her. That he even told her not to do what I asked her to do.
Then the most recent was in church. He was struggling wit our toddler that he fell and I asked him to leave him. He just started shouting and everyone was looking.
I really am not happy. And unknown to him, this is reducing my love for him. Cos i cant love someone dat disrespects me. I use to love telling people how wonderful he is but these days I cant. It's affecting my relationship with him.
I'm considering embarrassing him back the next time he does it so he knows how it hurts cos he doesn't see anything wrong with it and never apologize. He says he doesn't like hiding his feelings. I ask "even when your words hurt your spouse".
I'm worried cos we might be travelling soon and if he embarrases me in front of family members i might lose my temper.
I need mature advises here pls. As i do not want to involve 3rd party.
U just need to pray for ur husband since you said he wasn't like that before. There is nothing prayer can not do. Beside don't try to shout at him pls it may lead to beating I bet with you. Just keep calm he will change. God will touch his heart. That is Marriage for you. By keeping quiet he will rethink one day and u should at least be telling him how you feel while doing that to you. God bless your home
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Solutions To The Problem Of All IKS Dongle Receivers QSAT, AONE ,TLINK ETC by Theophilu(m): 10:01pm On Mar 05, 2016
Please am using tling decoder on hotbird but recently the fox sport went off not opening again but others are working like canal + and other please any solution?
PhonesRe: Good News! Airtel Has Introduced #100 For 1gb Weekend Data Plan by Theophilu(m): 4:21pm On Nov 08, 2015
Whaaaaooooo thanks to this group. Really working well.
PhonesRe: 12 Reasons You Really Don’t Need That New Phone by Theophilu(m): 9:35pm On Sep 27, 2015
My own na battery wahala so I need to buy new phone since infinix phone can't use other battery except infinix battery
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: Free Sport Stations 2015 Updated by Theophilu(m): 4:48am On Sep 13, 2015
Pls can admin add me to WhatsApp group. O8062468907
PhonesRe: Airtel Has Launched Internet Plans For Android Users by Theophilu(m): 3:00pm On Jul 23, 2014
for glo blis, 1k for 3gb, all u need to do is to send Comonth to 777 remove your sim use it to brownse with any blackberry phone, one it brownse on it just remove it and start using it on your Android. This is how i did my own
PhonesRe: Airtel BIS To Stop Working On Non BB Devices by Theophilu(m): 2:58pm On Dec 31, 2013
let's wait till then
CelebritiesRe: Cossy Brings Out Her Sexy Water Melons At Her Birthday Party by Theophilu(m): 4:57am On Nov 03, 2013
expired breast
CelebritiesRe: Ice-prince 27th Birthday Party (Pictures) by Theophilu(m): 4:53am On Nov 03, 2013
Congrats
Satellite TV TechnologyRe: How Can I Get Al Jazeera Card To Watch JSC Sports Channels On My Strong Decoder? by Theophilu(m): 8:45am On Jul 29, 2013
can u pls help to get aljazera card and how caan i get jsc sport7 om nilsat

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