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Family / The Feminists Have A Point: “patriarchy Is Problematic” by ThePawn(m): 8:58am On Feb 06
The internet broke over the Vogue Cover photo of Rihanna, with a serious and confident expression, leading A$AP Rocky by the hand, their baby cradled in his arms as he affectionately kissed the child's forehead. The composition of the image bears a notable resemblance to the African Renaissance Monument, albeit with reversed traditional gender roles.

Numerous individuals argued that the mere portrayal emasculates A$AP Rocky (the Men), offering diverse arguments to support their claims. Some even invoked the Green Line theory to justify their perspective, despite the theory lacking scientific credibility and having been debunked by experts as “simply not true”.

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Romance / Why Do We Still Have LGBTQ+ In Nigeria? by ThePawn(m): 8:48am On Feb 06
Did you choose what turns you on or did you simply find yourself attracted to it?

When I was a kid, I ran around the neighbourhood naked. The adults and older kids sometimes chuckled and asked me to put on some clothes. With time, as I matured, I understood and felt self-motivated to put on clothes. Cloths not only protected my body from stains and injuries but also did away with the awkward feeling of all eyes looking at my penis. However, I didn’t understand what it meant to be sexually attracted to someone, yet.

As teenagers, one of the core ideas that gets drummed into you (and that you get to repeat to others) is “Fornication is a sin!”. This, of course, made almost every kid super-uneasy about such matters.

However, as puberty kicked in, fear gave way to lust.

I still remember having erections so strong and long that I felt embarrassed to stand up in class when [...]

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Family / Re: My Biggest Fear Is Dying Young, What's Yours? by ThePawn(m): 9:47am On Oct 29, 2022
Experiencing the fear of deathwhen you're young is normal (and quickly peaks and declines during your 20s; most likely due to other mental health challenges). It only becomes a problem when it gets excessive - like a sort of disorder - and affects your life negatively

Are you experiencing death anxiety? Here is how to overcome it �

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Educational Services / Writing Daemon: 33 Tips For Better And Consistent Writing [+ A Few SEO, Editing, by ThePawn(m): 9:29am On Aug 22, 2022
If you are a new or aspiring writer wishing to improve your content writing skill, you must know these “33 tips for better and consistent writing”.

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Literature / 33 Tips For Better And Consistent WRITING: by ThePawn(m): 9:18am On Aug 22, 2022
#1 Take baby steps, not giant leaps
#2 Be happy contributing your part
#3 Take a step back and work on your tools and vehicles
#4 It’s all about the reader, and the content
#5 Who? What? Why? When, Where? & How? Answer us
#6 Defend an opinion:
#7 Write to a representative (of many):
#8 Make Time For Writing, make it sacred.
#9 Why should they read on? Write that first. #10 Iterate with feedback till you’re baked.

[...]

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Business / *Important Information For Business Owners!!!* by ThePawn(m): 10:48am On Mar 22, 2021
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Education / Re: 3 BIG Mistakes - Don't Go Back To School Without Doing These 3 Things First by ThePawn(m): 6:48am On Feb 20, 2021
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Education / Re: 5 YEARS IN School-how To Get High GP, Great Friends, Lover, And Make Money In S by ThePawn(m): 6:46am On Feb 20, 2021
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Romance / How To Find The Love Of Your Life [without Chasing, Using Pickup Lines, Or ... by ThePawn(m): 6:41am On Feb 20, 2021
1. Prepare to meet the one by reaching your highest potentials.
2. Make yourself attractive.
3. Find out what you really want in a partner.
4. Enlarge your circle of friends and acquittances (go out more to your places of interest, or check out dating platforms).
5. Stick with the right company.
6. Stop basing your standards on fairytales.
7. Do not focus on physical appearances (alone).
8. Find a person whose personality complements yours (but whose values are the same).
9. Look for a person whose values align with yours (i.e. whose priorities are the same as yours).
10. Find someone who respects you.
11. Consider the judgment of your family or friends (love – emotions – can literally blind you).
12. Meet their family and friends (people are usually the product of their environment).
13. Let time test the love.
14. Allow yourself to be loved.

Remember, to get love you must first give love. So, do not hesitate to show love – there is no downside to this.

This is a short summary. To check out the full article, see images used, find links and references, and even listen to the audio version (about 14 mins), then visit HOW TO FIND THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE (without Chasing, Using Pickup Lines, Or Implementing Any Complicated Tactics Or Gimmicks)

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Education / Re: 3 BIG Mistakes - Don't Go Back To School Without Doing These 3 Things First by ThePawn(m): 1:04am On Jan 26, 2021
Class is open
You're invited

Join using this LINK

Romance / Re: Thinking Of VALENTINE - What Makes You Happy, And How To Make Your Lover HAPPY by ThePawn(m): 8:09am On Jan 24, 2021
Valentine is almost here o...
Religion / Re: The Christian Chatbox ( sticky) by ThePawn(m): 7:59am On Jan 24, 2021
I do not trust my kind enough to believe our gods

We are brutish. We kill, rape, and destroy just for pleasure.

We justify everything that soothes us

We let our survival and pleasure fool us into thinking our actions are right.

We rationalize that we are the chosen, and special, and deserving

We are entitled self-centered creatures with an incessant desire to mate and fight

We are quick to think the gods are ours

We are quick to justify our abominable acts as the wills of the gods



how to improve humanity

We pray for our fellows to die

We go into battle and slay them, and their children, and their livestock’s, and their pets, and we burn their lands and we spit on their graves

Then We thank the gods for victory

We rape their wives and take their daughters as wives. We chain their able men and make them our slaves

again, we thank the gods

The earth rumbles and tumbles upside down and we are thankful to the gods that only our enemies are buried under the dirt

we thank the gods for the flood and the locust, the hail, the famine, the diseases, and the plagues that ravage our fellows

we pray for our kind to burn in eternal flames and be eaten by undying warms.

We hate. We fight. We abandon, we reject, we castrate, insult, disrespect, dehumanize, torture, and imprison our fellows

And we thank the gods

We dance and make sacrifices to the gods that send death to ravage families and nations

We create knives, guns, and bombs, we cover the earth and make it black with Sulphur and blood

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Religion / For GOD'S Sake - How You Can Better Humanity Today (dear God) by ThePawn(m): 7:57am On Jan 24, 2021
I do not trust my kind enough to believe our gods

We are brutish. We kill, rape, and destroy just for pleasure.

We justify everything that soothes us

We let our survival and pleasure fool us into thinking our actions are right.

We rationalize that we are the chosen, and special, and deserving

We are entitled self-centered creatures with an incessant desire to mate and fight

We are quick to think the gods are ours

We are quick to justify our abominable acts as the wills of the gods



how to improve humanity

We pray for our fellows to die

We go into battle and slay them, and their children, and their livestock’s, and their pets, and we burn their lands and we spit on their graves

Then We thank the gods for victory

We rape their wives and take their daughters as wives. We chain their able men and make them our slaves

again, we thank the gods

The earth rumbles and tumbles upside down and we are thankful to the gods that only our enemies are buried under the dirt

we thank the gods for the flood and the locust, the hail, the famine, the diseases, and the plagues that ravage our fellows

we pray for our kind to burn in eternal flames and be eaten by undying warms.

We hate. We fight. We abandon, we reject, we castrate, insult, disrespect, dehumanize, torture, and imprison our fellows

And we thank the gods

We dance and make sacrifices to the gods that send death to ravage families and nations

We create knives, guns, and bombs, we cover the earth and make it black with Sulphur and blood

(Continue Reading - Click Here)

Education / Re: Schools To Be Closed Permanently By Febuary by ThePawn(m): 1:01am On Jan 22, 2021
Zhel:
SCHOOLS TO BE CLOSED BY FEBUARY 2021

Schools are likely to be closed on or before FEBUARY 2021 due to the increasing rate of coro a virus
To stop the spread the country will have to go on total lockdown anyone seen will be likely to face the consequences that follow


We urge you all to adhere to the rules of preventing the spread of the virus

#zhel @ naijazhel..com

*I have a little surprise (gift) for you at the end of this post* wink
Many students make the mistake of thinking that gaining admission is the most important part of it, without realizing that going to school comes with extra challenges - big ones.
As a student, you need to ensure that you're in control of your
* Academics
* Relationships
* Money

It doesn't matter who you are, if you don't get good at these three things school is not going to be fun.
In fact, you would be wasting your time and money, and would even regret going to school. You need to understand how to
* get high GP - without paying lecturers money
* Talk to strangers, make friends, and even find love - because you have emotions, and need support. And
* Make extra money for yourself (unless you have very rich parents)

Many students think the approach that got them through Secondary school can get them through university, but they are wrong.
I have seen people who performed poorly in Secondary school excel in the University, and those who excel in secondary school fail in the UniversityThis is because in secondary school
* You are mostly competing against your classmates: They say, "if you have one eye, you are the leader of the blind people". But in school, you are competing against your own self.
* You probably live with your parents, or a boarding school with cleaners and seniors to organize you. In the University, you are all alone and would have to take care of yourself. Can you live with a roommate, or all by yourself for 4 years or more? I see many people changing countless roommates and it makes me laugh.
* You have to manage your money: you must choose how much you spend on food, clothes, textbooks, and fun. If you screw this up, well, you would suffer it. Unless you have very rich parents or know how to make money for yourself in school

Good news for you, after spending 5 years in school, I have decided to teach students the exact working steps that I used to
* Raise my GP to stratospheric heights
* Built strong and Healthy relationship - that lasted beyond school
* Made, and keep making money in school and beyond

And it's all FREE
All you have to is connect with me on WhatsApp, and I'll give the full course for free, all for you. I'm doing this because I struggled in school and think it would be really nice if I can help others out - I wish someone had done the same for me.
There is also a gift waiting for you as you join the group - and the group is getting filled
Join now
Mr. David+234 8134162353
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Education / Re: 3 BIG Mistakes - Don't Go Back To School Without Doing These 3 Things First by ThePawn(m): 12:54am On Jan 22, 2021
ThePawn:
*I have a little surprise (gift) for you at the end of this post* wink
Many students make the mistake of thinking that gaining admission is the most important part of it, without realizing that going to school comes with extra challenges - big ones.
As a student, you need to ensure that you're in control of your
* Academics
* Relationships
* Money

It doesn't matter who you are, if you don't get good at these three things school is not going to be fun.
In fact, you would be wasting your time and money, and would even regret going to school. You need to understand how to
* get high GP - without paying lecturers money
* Talk to strangers, make friends, and even find love - because you have emotions, and need support. And
* Make extra money for yourself (unless you have very rich parents)

Many students think the approach that got them through Secondary school can get them through university, but they are wrong.
I have seen people who performed poorly in Secondary school excel in the University, and those who excel in secondary school fail in the UniversityThis is because in secondary school
* You are mostly competing against your classmates: They say, "if you have one eye, you are the leader of the blind people". But in school, you are competing against your own self.
* You probably live with your parents, or a boarding school with cleaners and seniors to organize you. In the University, you are all alone and would have to take care of yourself. Can you live with a roommate, or all by yourself for 4 years or more? I see many people changing countless roommates and it makes me laugh.
* You have to manage your money: you must choose how much you spend on food, clothes, textbooks, and fun. If you screw this up, well, you would suffer it. Unless you have very rich parents or know how to make money for yourself in school

Good news for you, after spending 5 years in school, I have decided to teach students the exact working steps that I used to
* Raise my GP to stratospheric heights
* Built strong and Healthy relationship - that lasted beyond school
* Made, and keep making money in school and beyond

And it's all FREE
All you have to is connect with me on WhatsApp, and I'll give the full course for free, all for you. I'm doing this because I struggled in school and think it would be really nice if I can help others out - I wish someone had done the same for me.
There is also a gift waiting for you as you join the group - and the group is getting filled
Join now
Mr. David+234 8134162353
smiley

Still open
Education / Re: 3 BIG Mistakes - Don't Go Back To School Without Doing These 3 Things First by ThePawn(m): 4:23am On Jan 20, 2021
Posted what?
The book?
Loris576:
you have posted it
Romance / Re: He Raped His Sister And Got Killed. But That's Not All by ThePawn(m): 2:02am On Jan 19, 2021
Nice one

Keep it up wink
Romance / Re: How To Make Girls Beg To Be With You Forever by ThePawn(m): 6:57am On Jan 17, 2021
Valentine is by the corner

and you want to get something special for your lover

Why not get them an art portrait of themselves.

It is personal, beautiful, cannot be eaten and forgotten, does not need an upgrade, cannot get spoilt or run out of memory

They would love and cherish it, and would always have you in mind.

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This is the single most special gift you can gift your special one, and they would remember you for life

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Romance / Re: How To Make Girls Beg To Be With You Forever by ThePawn(m): 6:40am On Jan 17, 2021
lefulefu:
I was reading a story where a guy was lamenting he set up a business for his gf with 1 million and d girl still dumped him

That's sad
Family / Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by ThePawn(m): 6:36am On Jan 17, 2021
Get something special for your loved one this coming Valentine

Something they would never forget

A beautiful art portrait of themselves.

And they would love you forever ❤️

***
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Romance / Re: He Raped His Sister And Got Killed. But That's Not All by ThePawn(m): 5:48am On Jan 17, 2021
MeekySmudger:
..Your artworks are amazing, wink wink..why don't you go digital,I went digital.

Why aren't you adding colors to yours?

Romance / Re: How To Make Girls Beg To Be With You Forever by ThePawn(m): 12:42am On Jan 17, 2021
Thinkherbell:
undecided
grin
You seem confused
Romance / Re: He Raped His Sister And Got Killed. But That's Not All by ThePawn(m): 10:39pm On Jan 16, 2021
What do you think?
Romance / He Raped His Sister And Got Killed. But That's Not All by ThePawn(m): 9:00pm On Jan 16, 2021
...a young man named Amnon fell in love with his own sister - Tamar.

The feeling was so strong that he fell sick thinking about her.

When he told his best friend, his best friend gave him an idea -A twisted idea.

They arranged to get her alone.

Amnon pretended to be ill and invited his sister to bring him a cake.

Then, in the room, he overpowered and raped her. His dreams had finally come through

Then, something strange happened

After having his way with her, he immediately hated her and asked her to leave his room.

SPOILER: He later got killed for that by his other brother - Tamar's brother (Absalom)

Full story @ 2 Samuel 13 (the Bible)

***

Most times we don't know what we want.

Is it money, sex, or power? What is it that we really want?

I used to think I wanted sex, but what I really wanted was someone I could feel safe with. Someone I could be vulnerable to.

I didn't want money, I wanted freedom. I wanted to be independent and get anything I want.

I didn't want power. I wanted to be in control of my life.

...

If the sex makes you feel more like a Love Machine than a person, then you've got it all f*cked up.

If the money chains you to a job you hate, then you've screwed yourself.

If the power makes you feel unsafe in your own apartment, then you've missed the whole point of having it.

Take a step back.

Think.

What do you want?

***

After deciding what it is that you really want, only then can you make the right decision.

[center]"direction is more important than speed"[/center]

So, congratulations to everyone who is happy with their choices.

Who still stick with what they chose, unlike Amnon.

Congrats!

Everyone doesn't have to value what you value.

Maybe they just want sex, money, or power, but you don't have to want those same things.

Those things are cheap and easy to come by. And you will get them surely.

pursue what is meaningful and right.

Cling to your happiness and peace. Stick to your values.

Be happy with your partner, and work, and respect.

Be proud of yourself.

***
.
.
.
.
***

You have someone you love, yes?

I'm sure you want to gift them something special this coming Valentine, right?

Why not get them something personal, and memorable.

A gift that would always remind them of your love and care

This Valentine, I'm not only going to help you draw them, but I'll also write the most romantic and heartfelt notes to accompany them.

We would give them a surprise they would never forget.

A gift they would stare at in the office, at home, on their phones, everywhere.. and think about you always.

I have drawn for several people and the reactions are priceless.

Speechless, amazed, heartwarming, gratitude, more love, and kisses, not to mention sex

You would love that, yes?

I'm sure you do.

All you have to do is send me a message now and we would get them a gift that would last till old age, and beyond.

It would be...

...A gift to remember

❤️

NOTE: There is FREE shipping if you're within Rivers State.
For those further away, I'll pay part of the waybill.
I'll also canvas and frame it for you.
+ plus, I will also gift wrap it for you.
#valentinesdaygift #valentine #love #lovechallenge #bible

Reach me on WhatsApp +234 8134162353
visit the Gallery of my website to see more artworks www.pawns.com.ng/gallery

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Romance / Thinking Of VALENTINE - What Makes You Happy, And How To Make Your Lover HAPPY by ThePawn(m): 8:41pm On Jan 16, 2021
Once upon a time, a young man named Amnon fell in love with his own sister - Tamar.

The feeling was so strong that he fell sick thinking about her.

When he told his best friend, his best friend gave him an idea -A twisted idea.

They arranged to get her alone.

Amnon pretended to be ill and invited his sister to bring him a cake.

Then, in the room, he overpowered and raped her. His dreams had finally come through

Then, something strange happened

After having his way with her, he immediately hated her and asked her to leave his room.

SPOILER: He later got killed for that by his other brother - Tamar's brother (Absalom)

Full story @ 2 Samuel 13 (the Bible)

***

Most times we don't know what we want.

Is it money, sex, or power? What is it that we really want?

I used to think I wanted sex, but what I really wanted was someone I could feel safe with. Someone I could be vulnerable to.

I didn't want money, I wanted freedom. I wanted to be independent and get anything I want.

I didn't want power. I wanted to be in control of my life.

...

If the sex makes you feel more like a Love Machine than a person, then you've got it all f*cked up.

If the money chains you to a job you hate, then you've screwed yourself.

If the power makes you feel unsafe in your own apartment, then you've missed the whole point of having it.

Take a step back.

Think.

What do you want?
undecided[color=#990000][/color]

***

After deciding what it is that you really want, only then can you make the right decision.

[center]"direction is more important than speed"[/center]

So, congratulations to everyone who is happy with their choices.

Who still stick with what they chose, unlike Amnon.

Congrats!

Everyone doesn't have to value what you value.

Maybe they just want sex, money, or power, but you don't have to want those same things.

Those things are cheap and easy to come by. And you will get them surely.

pursue what is meaningful and right.

Cling to your happiness and peace. Stick to your values.

Be happy with your partner, and work, and respect.

Be proud of yourself. �

***
.
.
.
.
***

You have someone you love, yes?

I'm sure you want to gift them something special this coming Valentine, right?

Why not get them something personal, and memorable.

A gift that would always remind them of your love and care

This Valentine, I'm not only going to help you draw them, but I'll also write the most romantic and heartfelt notes to accompany.

We would give them a surprise they would never forget.

A gift they would stare at in the office, at home, on their phones, everywhere.. and think about you always.

I have drawn for several people and the reactions are priceless.

Speechless, amazed, heartwarming, gratitude, more love, and kisses,�� not to mention sex�

You would love that, yes?

I'm sure you do.

All you have to do is send me a message now and we would get them a gift that would last till old age, and beyond.

It would be...

...A gift to remember

❤️

NOTE: There is FREE shipping if you're within Rivers State.
For those further away, I'll pay part of the waybill.
I'll also canvas and frame it for you.
+ plus, I will also gift wrap it for you.


#valentinesdaygift #valentine #love #lovechallenge #bible

Reach me on WhatsApp +234 8134162353
Follow me On Instagram @iamdickdavid_art
visit the Gallery of my website to see more artworks www.pawns.com.ng/gallery

Education / 5 YEARS IN School-how To Get High GP, Great Friends, Lover, And Make Money In S by ThePawn(m): 7:21am On Jan 07, 2021
School can be fun if you know how to roll.

Back then, every first semester I and my friends usually sit outside once in a while to try identifying year one students.

It's not usually difficult.

You can notice know from how they walk, talk, dress, and even interact with other people

Most times it's funny, other times it's just annoying

But that's not what I want to talk about today

I want to tell you how to

*
Skyrocket your results when you get into the university
*
How to make friends that would support and stick with you in school and beyond
*
How to find the perfect boyfriend/girlfriend, and
*
How to make money in school.



But the problem is that these are very long topics that need to be exhausted, and can't be covered in a short Post

That is why I've organized a FREE WhatsApp class just to take a stab at the topics.

If you don't want to join the WhatsApp class, it's still fine, I've also written a book on it
that explains in details, and also gives solutions to

*
why you never came first in class - revealing the SECRET of every A+ student
*
how to read more, remember more, and write better
*
how to make lecturers mark your scripts with joy - and give you more marks
*
how to boost your brain and make it perform 10 times better


then it also teaches you

*
how to talk to strangers - and make them even give you free lifts
*
how to make friends - that would support and stick with you even after school
*
Why you don't have a lover, and how to get one that would make you happy
*
How to live at peace with a roommate, or anybody really - this is very important
*
how to become the most loved person wherever you enter - this is a huge asset


and finally, it teaches you

*
How you can make money in school and beyond - even if you don't have a job, a skill, or any goods to sell
*
It shows you how to go about your personal branding
*
how to make people trust you instantly
*
and many more


In fact, it has a bonus section on top of it.
Plus, I'll also give you a FREE gift if you buy it before Feb

To get the book simply visit www.pawns.com.ng/books - it's just 1,500 Naira Only - for now

To join the FREE WhatsApp class Visit www.pawns.com.ng/contact and click on the WhatsApp link you would see there - the class is filling up fast

Thanks


Anyway, let's proceed

5 YEARS IN SCHOOL - how you can get high CGPA, make great friends, find love, and make money in school easily

Let me just talk about making friends

When you gain admission into the university, most times you won't be lucky to get into thesame institution as your friends.

I, for example, didn't know a single soul when I gained admission.

This meant, everyone was a stranger, and spoke a funny language.

To survive, I had to master the art of making friends - but I didn't know back then, so I struggled, and often times slept in the common room in hostels (with giant rats attacking me in the night angry )

Anyway, after some years in school, I began to master this art of making friends, and it's actually quite easy.

The answer is not to try and be more social and talk to more people, the answer is in working on yourself

For instance, when you practice the habit of smiling, you would be surprised just how many people that can attract.

The thing is, people respond to the kind of energy you put out - if you're always grumpy, then everyone would instinctively frawn at you, but if you are cheerful, then everyone would reflect that happiness back at you.

So, my secret formula is:

Rather than being anxious to make friends, try to be more authentic
- go out to the places you love and do the things you like
- and you would begin to notice a particular set of people share thesame interest with you
- Now, all you need to do is wear that smile and be warm to them.

In school, this is not very difficult.

For a start, you share thesame classroom with most of your departmental mates: this means you would constantly be in contact with people.

The best friends are those who meet us where we are, because those are the ones that share the same interest with us.

Your only task is to be warm to the people who come around you.

All you have to do is to show your genuine interest in the person, that is if they interest you.

This means, you have to look out for positive traits in the people around you, and when you find it, point it out to them. Maybe it’s your course mate who has a nice writing, all you have to do is compliment their writing.

Compliment their intelligence, their shirt, shoe, etc. If you personally love wearing a good perfume, then compliment someone who wears a nice perfume. Friendships start when they return the compliment. When they say, “aww!! thanks, you smell nice too. What perfume is that?”

"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you -Dale Carnegie

Strong bonds develop with time. It’s all about being pleasant. It’s about being nice. It’s about being friendly. Don’t expect it to happen instantly nor try to force things.

Just be cool, be yourself, and keep doing the things you enjoy doing. when you come across people with similar interests or have a common problem or task, do well to be nice to them. When sharing ideas try respecting the opinion of others, no matter how absurd. Friends are never won by arguments. State your point, if they think it’s worth it, then they will agree, else let them be Focus on becoming a better person. Focus on building good habits, and chasing your dreams.

Embrace self-development, and everything would soon fall in place. “Self-development” is the process of trying to be a better person, by learning and practicing good values and habits, respectively. With constant self-development, you’ll find the right people flocking to be friends with you. You would find people who would pull you up, and support you when need be. Your friends are always a reflection of who you are: If you stay indoors all day, then the people who match your character are also indoors. If you work out in the gym, or play football in the field, then that’s where they are. If you love going to the bar… you get the idea.

So, focus on becoming a better person, and doing cool things (like learning a skill) and you would find like minded people. All that is left is you being kind to them.

Kindness is a superpower – Garry Vee

In conclusion, the choice of who, how many and how close you want any friendship to be lies solely in your hand. Be nice, be awesome and enjoy your life

[to be continued in the Class and Book]
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Education / 3 BIG Mistakes - Don't Go Back To School Without Doing These 3 Things First by ThePawn(m): 6:50am On Jan 06, 2021
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Many students make the mistake of thinking that gaining admission is the most important part of it, without realizing that going to school comes with extra challenges - big ones.
As a student, you need to ensure that you're in control of your
* Academics
* Relationships
* Money

It doesn't matter who you are, if you don't get good at these three things school is not going to be fun.
In fact, you would be wasting your time and money, and would even regret going to school. You need to understand how to
* get high GP - without paying lecturers money
* Talk to strangers, make friends, and even find love - because you have emotions, and need support. And
* Make extra money for yourself (unless you have very rich parents)

Many students think the approach that got them through Secondary school can get them through university, but they are wrong.
I have seen people who performed poorly in Secondary school excel in the University, and those who excel in secondary school fail in the UniversityThis is because in secondary school
* You are mostly competing against your classmates: They say, "if you have one eye, you are the leader of the blind people". But in school, you are competing against your own self.
* You probably live with your parents, or a boarding school with cleaners and seniors to organize you. In the University, you are all alone and would have to take care of yourself. Can you live with a roommate, or all by yourself for 4 years or more? I see many people changing countless roommates and it makes me laugh.
* You have to manage your money: you must choose how much you spend on food, clothes, textbooks, and fun. If you screw this up, well, you would suffer it. Unless you have very rich parents or know how to make money for yourself in school

Good news for you, after spending 5 years in school, I have decided to teach students the exact working steps that I used to
* Raise my GP to stratospheric heights
* Built strong and Healthy relationship - that lasted beyond school
* Made, and keep making money in school and beyond


All you have to is connect with me on WhatsApp, and I'll tell you all you need to know, all for you. I'm doing this because I struggled in school and think it would be really nice if I can help others out - I wish someone had done the same for me.
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Romance / How To Make Girls Beg To Be With You Forever by ThePawn(m): 1:47pm On Jan 05, 2021
One day whilst walking along the streets with my cousin sister, a hyper-excited boy called out to her, but she turned around, gave him a one-word reply, rolled her eyes, and continued on our convo...

Every guy fears that - we all fear rejection, and that is why we incessantly keep looking for the secret technique to make girls fall helplessly for us.

Contrary to popular opinions, there is no secret technique to getting girls.

In fact, trying to chase girls would "chase" them away from your life.

Unless you want a) to pay a prostitute or b) date a girl who has low self-esteem, you are better off avoiding the chase

If you really want to be happy in relationships, why not attract the exact type of girls you love - the high class, hot and intelligent ones?

I know it seems difficult, but I want to reveal to you that it is easier than you thought.

In fact, you can become so good at it that even your crush would be jealous if you don’t pick her

I've written here the one and only secret you ever need to know before talking to the next lady about

Many guys go about hammering girls with endless platitudes of how much they love her, without realizing that that qualifies them for two-position
1. To become her fool (the one she drains)
2. To become her friend (friend zone)

I don’t know which is worse. But what I know is that they are both painful places to be

Maybe I should give you some time to think about it?

Maybe you should check out this article to understand better
the one and only secret you ever need to know before talking to the next lady

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