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eventainment:
I meant women are complex. Understand the little you can work with and the remaining ones you don't understand leave it like that

Thanks for the clarification. I think i understand NOW.

kwaso2:
I think she really likes you. From my experience, this is the strongest indicator of interest from women- a woman that likes you will not want to liquidate you but add to you.
I feel her source is from her family. Just keep appreciating her, she is a good blessing to you. You may consider to divert the cash you give her to taking her out to places of her interest like a library, Art threater, museum, etc

Thanks for this advice. I'll find out where she would like to visit; then, i'll use the money for that purpose.

akinade28:
You think every lady will be moved by your money and material gift. I love the way this lady respects herself.
It is when some men think your livelihood depends on them, that's when they shove a lot of nonsense down your throat and expect you to accept it. These kind of men want to use the money and gifts as a means of control.
Op, you have gotten a treasure, you better learn to treat her with respect or else she give you your size.
Every guy should note that not all women are materialistic or greedy. Some will rather give than be given.

Hahahaha...or else she will give me my size? That's funny to me. I'm not sure she is troublesome.

Rexymania:
What's her name?

Her name is not necessary here, but i can tell you her tribe. She is Igala. Anything?

Oblivionz5:
Don’t looseguard They always want sth in return

Ok. Thanks

Slynation:
Hehehehe...I remember one of my ex girlfriend started like this, At first I was marvelled like "So we still have such ladies like this in Nigeria" I thought I hit jackpot until things remix...

It was later she transformed back to default settings after she lost the chairman that has been financing her lifestyle and she started chopping my money like biscuits This was the same chairman I only know as her boss and I simpingly believed...

Umunwanyi shaaaah....!! But don't get it wrong, it depends on some personality

But I met a girl like this late last year that doesn't like me to spend on her because she's independent and advises me to save my money for raining days, well brought up and also a virgin according to her narrative (will find out soon tho) if true, Be like I go use her calm down cos local man is tired of exploring for now...But Oga wait oO, hope we ain't talking about same girl here, hope you no dey "Light of the nation"??

No.

ashawopikin:
Zobo

Kunu

eventainment:
The variables in a woman's class or functions are too much that sometimes you can't account for every data you send into the function or class(women) so you just use the spread operator to play with the variables you can't account for. You can push them into an array that will have an infinite length I guess but the variables you can understand always work with just those.

Differentiate and integrate your comment into something comprehensible. No be only variable...na churchable

petrusevents:
The fact that she stay with her might be one of the reason as they may want to ask her where she gets the money from or she s just the type that naturally doesn't like collecting money from guy.

Please keep giving and don't abuse the privilege.

Na wet in most guys here dey look for b dis ooo.

Ok. Thanks.

oilmane:
Have you told her about making her your wife cause she might be acting up so you would see her as a very good wife material, some girls collect from other guys to spend on the one they see as their life partner though it might not be so in this instance.

No, i've not told her i want to marry her. Is it not too early to declare my intention? The relationship is just a month's old. Though i'll like to settle down this year if she agrees to marry me.

Es350:
Please share her number, let's help you advice her.

Where is nairaland police? There's a suspect here.

Karleb:
Some of you are so poor, the only thing you have is money.

That's why we are asking quertions to add knowledge to the money

Bluezy13:
I do not wish to discourage you, but from experience, I think you should prepare for more billing in the nearest future...such that would cover up the unbilled, rejected and refunded.

I hope I am wrong.

Thanks. I also hope you are wrong too.

Elmojiid:
I know the babe we are family

Lol. My future inlaw. Send your account number lets start from there

Medianna:
Someone up there said its because she stays with her parents. A woman can never please you even if she sheds the last drop of her blood for you.

She doesn't need the money. She is contented.
Next time try giving her other simple things apart from money.

Maybe i'll try the option of taking her out like a nairalander suggested. She rejects gifts too. That is what pisses me off the most. Thanks for your suggestion

Ogamysamo:
there's no general formula in anything that is not mathematics...
the reason behind what is happening in your relationship can be different from the reason behind what happened in some other person's relationship thou they may be thesame thing that happened in both

the best thing to do is try to understand her, if only you understand her personality you'll not have difficulties with what she accept from you and the amount she approve.

thou i don't know why she may be doing so but if you ask me__i'll say she don't want you to think she love you because of money.
what i mean is that she's trying to let you know that before she met you she was comfortable with whatever she had and even without you she will still be comfortable.

Thanks

AsomArchitectNG:
Comrade check well am not sure you're in Nigeria

I dey Nigeria o. Infact, i dey Lugbe in Abuja.

NoPlaceLike:
Such a nice person

Hmmm...

Bgcentz:
Na lie

When you finally have similar experience, ensure you come back to apologize to me and other Nairalanders. Hopefully, we'll still ae here

blazingblender:
Abeg hold her tight ohh
They no reach 3 for Naija
But I will advice you that you should keep trying to give her maybe she will come around

Ok. Thanks

Lvgirl:
She is living with her parents so they will question her. The fear of her parents is making her do so. Wait until the rope tying her down is loosen
The olosho in her will come out like full moon.

Are you saying she will change once she leaves her parents' house? Sir, please don't give me hypertension. Has it happened to you before?

Thanks Seun Mynd44 Lalasticlala Dominique Oamj4 Mukina

gasparpisciotta:
She loves you.

Note: Remember that a shepherd keeps the wolf away from the flock but kills the sheep for food

Your second statement is really deep. Please, what are you trying to imply?

KingOfTheDamned:
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.A grown man will sit down and right fake story just to see it trend ... Do you get paid ? No

So why waste your time making up stories? Even if it's for clicks it will only work for a short while

From your comment, i guess you've not had similar experience. Lets wait for those who understand. Not everything on Nairaland is fake

I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

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This story is incomplete.
Some people are not aware of his arrest. Why was he arrested?

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Who is he lamenting to?
Is he not aware of all the security challenges in that state before deciding to be the governor of that state?
Please, we don't need lamentation. What we need is solution.

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This our gender is always giving the opposite gender opportunity to drag us. Some men need serious deliverance.

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This one does not have any plan for the country.

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Every state has its own problem; but, Osun state is unique. Very unique.

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Can i be "hubby 3"?
Can't wait to convert her to ATM machine.

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Aimless visit.