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These Triplets Give Food And Drinks To Their BFF Garbage Men
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TO WHO IT MAY CONCERN (All of US) First off, I don't know if this is the right place to post at all. But this really clicked with me and made me change perspective on my depression problem and made me feel a lot better so I wanted to share it. I've always felt like I was not in my place when I was happy, something was off. For some reason I felt better sad. There was something in me that didn't fully wanted to be happy. And I thought that it was a problem. It was probably from all that sad music I was listening to right? I must be some kind of little bitch emo poser edgy millennial kind of motherfucker and I just don't want to admit it to myself. And then I randomly stumbled upon this Quora post, and it really changed the way I see things. It explained perfectly the things I was feeling without being able to put words on it. So here you go: Since sadness in my eyes has a lot of power I want to start by saying: I like being sad too … why? It’s an extremely powerful emotion! When I got depressed for the first time I was surprised by how powerful it was, the sadness I felt. More powerful than any joy, or love, or anything else I had felt before. It took over every part of me and left me feeling empty and calm, something I rather enjoyed, since being happy and successful and so on so forth, felt overwhelming and more of an effort than a place I’d like to stay. Maybe all that is because of a hard childhood or difficult family, I don’t know. But sadness felt like truth and joy felt like the biggest lie on earth I read through the answers and it took hard that almost every single person said that you only like it because you’re used to it and even though that MIGHT be true, I certainly don’t think that is the only reason to like sadness or any other negative emotion. I have tried liking joy and excitement and all that shit, but sadness and (emotional) pain really resonates with me. To make it simple I see it like this: I’d rather be a sad person learning and always being pushed to the next place, than being a blindly happy person who always tries to keep it up. I’ve had so much clarity from moments of despair, I have had some of my strongest feelings of freedom after a good long cry or panic. Without all the pain I have been through, I wouldn’t experience joy like I do today, my eyes wouldn’t water when there is beauty, love or just a glimpse of hope somewhere. Sadness has made me a more honest person and given me a life of contrast, which I wouldn’t give up, not even for a constant smile and a happy life. I am not saying, go ahead and be sad all your life because it is great, all I want to point out is that pain and sadness isn’t the enemy, in a balanced life, it might be what gives you freedom, clarity and reason to keep going, not only when things are great! Hope it helps! |
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Guy Helping An Old Woman Carry Her Stuff
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Two Norwegian Guys Rescuing A Baby Lamb Drowning In The Ocean
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Man Saves A Drowning Kitten With An Ubrella
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When A Student’s Baby Started Crying In Class, This Professor Had The Best Response Ever
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Man Turns Old Truck Into Mobile Shower For Homeless People
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Japanese Police Officers Helping A Duck Family Cross The Road
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People Working Together To Help A Person Who Got Stuck Between The Platform And A Train
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Officer Holding His New Family Member
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Bus Driver Got Off The Bus Full Of People To Help A Crying Girl Did this once Ate him later ![]()
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Wendy's Employee Removing Umbrella From A Table Outside To Walk Elderly Gentleman To His Car In The Rain
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During A Protest In Brazil, One Officer Said, "Do Not Create Episodes Please, Not On My Birthday." Shortly Thereafter, A Group Of Protesters Surprised Him With This
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This Pakistani Waiter Feeding A Homeless Person Who Can't Use His Hands
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Guys Cut Lawns Only For Those Who Can't
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Heroic Boy Risks His Life To Save A Drowning Baby Deer From Floodwaters In Bangladesh Dominique , Dyt, mynd44, CAPSLOCKED, budatum ,Starbuck, Dominatrix ,Lordreed,peaceful
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loko50:like when we move to the dream world? |
YahooG:I hear you sir! We just have to wait , inducing death has butterfly effects especially to those we leave behind ,so yeah hold on to the saddle and make use of the card dealth to us. |
DeusXmachina:hey man! ![]() |
Dorwadora:yes! And how'd you get to find out ![]() |
CAPSLOCKED:Quite Sad TBH. |
blingxx:do you believe in the 'soul'? Any evidence for this just your position? |
YangaBabe:well I'll say job was well soooooo yeah the laughing . ![]() |
Lamanii22:hey you , morning. ![]() |
Divoc19:nah its not all that bad , breathe ![]() |
efembaba:because I am who I am ![]() |
okrikaboi:human combustion, I've really just tried to ignore this in my head because it just doesn't make sense , well I guess if life can spontaneously erupt from nothingness I guess beigns can too (on rare but in perfect conditions) |
okrikaboi:No Cap ![]() |
okrikaboi:yes jack was a serial killer ... Never caught even though records differ. His methods were truly brutal .... |
Ethanuella:They are . usually called Aborigines , you see a black aboriginal man with Natural blonde and blue eyes. ![]() |
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