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When you ask to exchange contacts and she tells you she doesn't know her mobile number offhand, move on with your life. Do not approach or try to persuade! |
Given a choice between choosing to learn a high income skill, or having sex with an attractive woman, most men would choose the latter. |
The Family Home: Patriarchs - Children are more likely to bond more with their mothers than their fathers. This is because the woman is mostly the one present during the course of their life. They see them as angelic looking being, their saviour, their mentor and sometimes their last hope. As such, it is very important you spend time with your kids as well. Take them out, bond with them, eat with them, ask about their welfare. Do not spend all your time at work or working. Remember, your family is the most crucial business you'll ever run. - As a man, when you pay your child's dues e.g. school fees, pocket dues, etcetera, sometimes do so in their presence or give it to them directly, not through their mother. The reason for this is not farfetched. If she's a bad woman, and you give her money, she might make your kids perceive she's the one funding them whilst tagging you a deadbeat or uncaring in their minds. Make them understand what you're going through at work, do not remain silent on certain things they have to know about. - Let them understand the difference when you have a lot and when you don't. If they can't spot the difference, this will make them feel you're not caring enough. - Men, learn basic skills. This is of utmost importance. Learn how to cook, service the car, practice good hygiene, repair basic appliances at home and other soft skills so you can impact your children with it. - Men, never marry a lazy woman. She will most likely infect the kids with laziness since she will be the one spending most of her time with them. If she tells you she doesn't like cooking or suggesting a maid to do the cooking, she doesn't like cleaning, dump her! - If you marry a bad woman, she can easily make your kids hate you by manipulating them against you. - Be strong. If you're a weak or lazy man, you won't have a stable home. Your frame needs to be strong enough for your kids and wife. - Since women are naturally redpilled, they need a man who is also redpill conscious. - If a woman knows you can't be easily manipulated, she will find it difficult going against the rules you set because she knows she will get punished for it; overtly or covertly. TBC. |
Never initiate conflict with someone you know nothing about. "Know your enemy." - Sun Tzu |
LIVINGICON:No Sir, my hands are just quite full at the moment. How are you doing Sir? |
To save time, it's better to ignore some posts to avoid back and forth arguments and also unnecessary explanations. |
Qasak:Thank you Sir. Links have been provided already on this thread Sir. |
Yxxx:Happy Birthday! Hope I'm not too late? Don't be annoyed with me. Life happens. |
Wow... |
The world will ask you who you are; and if you do not know, the world will tell you. - Carl Jung |
Always remember that, in most cases when someone gives or does something for you for free, it is always with strings attached. This is exemplified in gift giving. Very often they will expect something back in return - an item, loyalty, a favour. There is no such thing as a free lunch. |
"Never trust a man who tells you all his troubles but keeps you away from all his joys" - Jewish proverb |
Azurevermillion:The latter option would be more preferable. |
Azurevermillion:You need to socialize more. Relate with people, communicate more. You can't do that from your comfort zone. If the work you do requires you to stay indoor most of the time, you need to maximize the time you spend outside. Challenge yourself. Be bold. |
"Never break eye contact by looking down. It signifies submissiveness or fear. Break eye contact sideways - neutral, or upwards - dismissive." |
"If you are cruel to those who surrender to you, it deters others from surrendering to you. By treating those who surrender to you well, you encourage others to surrender." |
