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Very soon, you'll begin asking for more. We all know how stories like this ends. You know what you should do, but since your emotions are already engaged, then you'll find excuses.

Fear of God indeed. She explored your mouth but you didn't respond, LOL! Nice writing skills though.

Carry out the test once more, and you can also redo yours also just to be sure. If it turns out to be AS again, count your losses and move on.

She might have actually concealed the truth from you, maybe because she's afraid to lose you or what she stands to gain from it. Just tread carefully.

I was actually expecting them to make an impressive start yesterday, but too much expectations sometimes causes heartbreaks. They need to get things right.

I'm sorry if I'm keeping you guys waiting, my hands are full at the moment. Just stay tuned.

Lightheaded:
@TheUndercover Boss you've not dropped something on keeping female friends as a guy, the pros and cons and how to go about handling friendship with them. Associating with them is inevitable, while I have one or two experiences in such affairs, I'd like to know your take on it. Please make it explicit and by all means take your time. Thanks

You're welcome, it will be shared soon.

lawrencemikail:
Undercover please I need your WhatsApp number sir

I'm sorry I can't disclose this. Send me a PM Sir, and I will reply as soon as I can.

xfactordv:
Please explain

Women wants to hear statements like, "you're special, I will never do without you, you're my world, you're beautiful", this is just to bolster their ego in order to attract them. This is what they love to hear even though your actions says otherwise.

What she wants you to do to her is exactly the opposite. Don't treat her like she's the only one in your life, this will keep her on her feet and make her value you more. Women can only value you if they are afraid to lose you. Be a rare gem. Be powerful. You can tell her she's one in a million, but don't treat her as such. She will cease to impress you. Do not compliment her every time too, it won't seem genuine and don't always comment on her posts or status.

Do things in such a way that when it's done, people will always wonder when you'll do it again. Be unpredictable so that you can be respectable. Don't do things average people do, be different.

Motunomori:
There is this girl who is close my friend bt I recently started to call her babe mostly on whatsapp, bt she has always warned me to stop calling her babe. When I put my arms around her neck in other to take pics, she told me to remove it bt she will always allow other guys to do that.
Last conversation I had with her, I told her I don't want us to be friends anymore even though we're in our final in d university.
Any advice on how to go about this situation with her

It simply means that she's not feeling your vibes.. Just back off, reduce the attention you give her. I'm not saying you should ignore completely, this will make her feel she got you, just be indifferent to her, show zero emotions. Don't make it an issue, treat it as less importance. Flow with other girls and don't be desperate for attention.

Making bold moves isn't a crime, but making those moves continuously even after so many resistance from the other party indicates insecurity and lack of abundance mindset.

@Dpsychologist, you would do well to ignore the moniker that quoted you earlier.. We will treat it the same way we treat similar monikers.

Peaceyw:
@ TheUndercover, I applied your teachings of appearing to be honest today and it worked like mad. I went to a place to go and receive something but I was declined. I acted as if my life is on the line. later the woman there said to me " if I help you, how will you help me?" I gave her a bribe, although she still threatened me I acted as if she was still doing me a favour (which she was).
Appearing honest and deferential works if you want to collect something from someone. Kudos @ TheUndercover.

You're welcome.

Nice one @Dpsychologist.

This is wonderful.

Juliusmomoh:
Theundercover .. I know you are online. Please come and continue this thread abeg

I'm not keeping you guys waiting on purpose.. I'm taking my time in order to continue bringing quality content for you guys. Please bear with me, thanks.