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incogni2o:
If you mean a blog or forum, yes.

If you mean exactly like nairaland, No

So how can I get to have a site like that?

I want a site nairaland. How can I come about it?
Any developer here?

Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

God bless you dear,
You are delivered, go and sin no more.

Sexytincoll:
no woman prefers a trashy man treating her like a trash, it's just your assumptions and conclusions

Shut that piggy idiotic mouth. Between the guys you've friend zoned all your life and the ones you've chased after, who treated you well the most?

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

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Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

Foolish woman. Since you're sure your brother in law attitude is bad, why do you have to wait till after marriage before correcting it. Why are you afraid of his family talking bad of you.

All you guys cherish is to be in charge of a man's house and send his families packing that's why you claimed he's flexing muscle with you. Go and get your house, he is in his brother's house and he has been living that way with him before you arrived. I still ask, why do you have to wait till after before you start complaining? If you don't have evil mind, and you're sure he's attitude is bad, why didn't you correct him earlier. If y0u had reported him then and you're right, your husband would have joined hand to chastise him, so why did you hide it till after marriage? Wicked people.

He is in his brother's house, allow him to live as he wants. If you don't like it, go back to you parents house.

ojechi50:
Partners in finance or what

Yes, Finance

I am in Anambra State. I have a business idea that would earn up to N200000 in a month. Just need partners or investors who can invest up to N40000. Email or quote me if interested thanks.

KingSatan:
Birds of same feathers!


Modern Day Con Men.

What planet are you from?

Embattled Activist, Adeyanji Deji has expressed profound regrets over his harsh and unfounded criticisms over Nnamdi Kanu the leader of the people of BIAFRA and IPOB world wide.

In a Facebook post, Deji apologized and called Kanu a brother while also praising Femi Fani Kayode and calling Nigeria a zoo.

The leader of the Indigenous People Of BIAFRA(IPOB) is said to have arrived Geneva, Switzerland for another meeting with Officials of the United Nations.

Recall that Nnamdi Kanu, the Supreme leader of IPOB visited the world body(United Nations) and EU (European Union) in September this year. Therefore, it's a puzzle for journalists and IPOB members as to the sudden visit to UN.
Recall also, a popular, Israeli prophet, Emperor Yeshua, predicted in October this year, another visit of Nnamdi Kanu to UN before the end of this year, after which BIAFRA will be restored.

His Prophesies reads:

1. The Nigerian government lead by President Buhari will invite Mazi Nnamdi Kanu for a dialogue bu he will turn them down.

2. The prophet warned that Nnamdi Kanu should not travel to Turkey, till 12th December else he willl be attacked.

3. He also prophesied that United Nations, UN and European Union, EU will invite Nnamdi Kanu for a meeting again, and that will be their final meeting with UN and Biafra will be restored.

According to Isreali journalist, Prophet Yeshua’s Predictions has never failed.

“Prophet Yeshua’s prophesies has never failed”. Quoted from Isreal.

IPOB worldwide, is an umbrella body for Biafrans scattered all over the world and has championed for the total emancipation of it's people from the shackles of Nigerian Government and Britain. With their supreme leaders' wit and superior arguments, he has captured the whole of Eastern Nigerian and peacefully gained grounds internationally while the UN and Amnesty International had reported numerous deaths and human rights abuse of it's members by the Nigerian Government.

According to a UN rapporteur, "IPOB has never killed a fly" and there leader has sometime hinted that BIAFRA might be restored without firing a bullet. The anxiety of BIAFRA restoration is overwhelming and one would be left with the constant question, how will Nigeria, BIAFRA, fare or co- exist after an eventual breakup.

When are they going to kill him in custody? It will be fascinating to watch.

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esxty:
I have used opay about twice and I think they are okay for now

okay thanks

Dear Nairalanders,

Am about to invest hugely on OPAY mobile services. It encompasses services like payment of bills, money transfer etc. I know a lot of you must have known about them. I need advice and answers to questions like: are they legal? Are they real or scams? etc.
Thanks