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Romance / How To Improve My Relationship With People by Thisisa: 10:56pm On Apr 02
I most say this is the umpteenth time I am posting something of this nature.

I lack self confidence,
I have low self esteem,
I have never dated a woman and I am 29!
I am extremely lonely I have no friend.

I am really not happy with the way I lead my life. People say I might be introverted or shy but I have seen people more introverted than I am speak boldly and assertively.

When it comes to speaking in public or in meeting I really fumble. They had reduced my self confidence drastically
Tho I am a supervisor in my job. But I find it had to tell my team to perform a task or an action. They make complaint and they are very difficult to tell to do something. Till I shout/raise my voice. Which I most times regret.


I have done everything I can. When I was in school I joined the library and debating society just to improve myself.



I am really tired of this.
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 2:48am On Oct 11, 2023
Purvan:
Move on



Spin more plates



Stop being a Simpson


Improve your life


Socialise


Lose weight if you're fat


Get a hobby or a job

Thank you... But you know I have done all these...
Thanks to God I have greatly improved my live!
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 2:47am On Oct 11, 2023
danzaki63:
Even if Gorilla has money girls will flock to him, make plenty money and you will drive them crazy. my friend make money .

You must be a billionaire
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 11:59pm On Oct 09, 2023
I NEED HELP!!!!!!
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 11:58pm On Oct 09, 2023
Gee64:
Everything is wrong with you, boy!
You are jobless!

I ain't jobless bro.

But don't just know what's wrong!
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 11:51pm On Oct 09, 2023
I really appreciate all these inputs

Not like I am not chasing money oo.

But I don't just understand what is wrong!

Like this obsession is too freaking long.

And the person in question and move the h. On.
Like someone said here she's probably receiving the d on a daily basis.

Don't know why I think about her always.

Tho I had good intentions for her. But it's didn't work out.

Tho I don't have a girl (why would I?)

but I am just tired of this mehn. 3good years? undecided
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 8:19pm On Oct 09, 2023
FreeIgboho:
Very easy.
Make lots of money.
Offer her the lots of money. Problem solved.
Poverty is your problem not girl!


This is not about money my bro.


I don't just understand this I swear what is wrong.. she is not doing I know this. But my mind is always fixated to her thought. I don tire I swear
Romance / Re: I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 8:18pm On Oct 09, 2023
The girl obviously will have someone else... Why in the name of the... Am always thinking about her consistently everytime.

Hope nothing is wrong!

I am just tired of this sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad angry
Romance / I Am So Sick And Tired Of This! by Thisisa: 8:12pm On Oct 09, 2023
I have been thinking about this girl that doesn't like me for more than 3years now. And she has told me several times that she's is not interested in dating me.(tho I already admit this fact

But I always find myself always thinking about her EVERYDAY! I am really tired of this.

The said girl isn't making it easy for me to move on from her!
I have done a lot of things for her to never talk to me again but she always find a way( even a text from her makes think about her alot. I told her point blank block and unblocked.



I should never even think about her again I know this but. My mind always move to her.


I have always delved into doing thing that's eventually are detrimental to me. In other to stop this obsession however I still find myself thinkkng about her...
Romance / Re: As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Thisisa: 8:03pm On Aug 07, 2023
WeirdAlien:


I don't know your age bracket. But I assume you're late teenage or young adult.
The ones you're attracted to are probably attractive because some guy(s) dated her in her crude form and refined her (physically and/or emotionally), or that relationship experience just refined her. This is usually the case at your age bracket. Seriously consider this.

The day a fox touches the red comb on a rooster's head, and realises it's not fire, and his fear of it was unwarranted, that day it will have the rooster for dinner.
Don't be afraid of rejection. It's part of the stuff. Just like the rooster's comb. Any guy that has never been rejected has never asked a "normal" girl out.
Ask a girl out anyhow you can say your feelings. There's no best way to express it, and there's no best words to say.
Thanks.

Tho I am edging towards my 30
Romance / As An Introverted Guy How Can I Get A Good Lady by Thisisa: 7:18pm On Aug 06, 2023
I am so bored and lonely.

I have tried dating a lady in the past but it didn't last up to 3months. That's the closest I have been to a relationship.

I approached another lady... Tho i wasn't bold enough to ask her out when at the initial stage of meeting her(because of fear of reject)... She got tired and she friendzoned. Later asked her out the but she rejected me.

The problem is I haven't found any lady I can date. Most decent ladies are already in a relationship. Those not in a relationship I am not attracted to them.
Romance / How Do I Overcome Being Bored by Thisisa: 8:11pm On May 18, 2023
Thank God for everything.

However, I have been extremely lonely and I am always bored. I really don't have close friends. I am single. I am just bored.

But can I do to make my life better
Romance / Re: Is by Thisisa: 6:39am On Feb 06, 2022
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Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:37pm On Dec 18, 2021
Well so time's up I am perfectly moving on. I need to develop myself. And work on myself a whole lot
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 2:54pm On Dec 17, 2021
Nancyeke:
My humble assessment she wanted you guys to friends. Shed given you the I'd pray about it sentence to be nice enough.
I will advise you to stop thinking about her has more but rather just a good friend
Okay
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 5:41am On Dec 17, 2021
HedwigesMaduro:


Some girls like relationship to start with a direct flow from friendship to commitment. Asking her puts a bump in that flow. Let it flow naturally. Don't ask her again. Act like you're her man and see how she'll be all yours.
Lol. I have done that and she almost slipped away
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 5:40am On Dec 17, 2021
FriendsAndFans:
You are a rebound bro angry just tell her you want sex with her... Make it straight to the point, that you want a lot of sex and much more of it angry
Never gonna tell her that
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:20pm On Dec 16, 2021
Jeremani:
U still post this story again?
Yes I need to. So I won't make a rash, decision I could regret later
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:19pm On Dec 16, 2021
helinues:
Work on yourself, your financial, your emotions before thinking of working on any relationship
Well I have been working on myself. Even when I am not yet financially buoyant a good woman is already admiring me. I needed to shoot my shot to know if she truely want me or it's just a friendship stuff.
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 7:07pm On Dec 16, 2021
TMTR:
You lack abundance mentally and I am not even talking financially
In what aspect then
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 4:59pm On Dec 16, 2021
I need more advise
Romance / Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:45am On Dec 16, 2021
SmellySperm:
You're her backup. Incase her ticket cut, she'll fall back to u. Her prayer is still processing...
Hmm
Romance / Advise Me by Thisisa: 9:35am On Dec 16, 2021
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP.

Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early.

We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all.

So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no.

And later on started moving even more closer to me.

I lost my job August last year.

I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc.

Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking.

She tells me misses me and all sort.

I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship.



So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her.

Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say?
Romance / Re: What Does She Mean By This by Thisisa: 3:50pm On Nov 29, 2021
arthurwillia
Romance / Re: What Can I Do by Thisisa: 6:56am On Nov 29, 2021
arthurwillia:


All that one na scam
T
Romance / Re: What Does She Mean By This by Thisisa: 6:45am On Nov 29, 2021
arthurwillia:


My brother it’s scam, hear yourself, the second time and it’s still let me pray about it, I assure you in the two to three months you’ll hear no!! If she e wants you her prayer will be different

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Romance / Re: What Does She Mean By This by Thisisa: 8:44pm On Nov 28, 2021
arthurwillia:
Pray about it na scam, it’s emotionally draining, I use 3 months do I will pray about it with Bisola, with all my attention oo weyrey later say it’s not Godswill
Chai I wan swear for am
I really don't think it's a scam. This is the second time I am asking her out.
Romance / What Does She Mean By This by Thisisa: 3:50pm On Nov 28, 2021
I summoned the courage to talk to a lady
She said she will 'pray about it'
It's 5 days after now I haven't gotten any reply from her.

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