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ubunja:
in other words, NO ANSWER. smh

I can see by the way that you're winding and going around in circles that you don't have anything to offer a woman who doesn't need you.
Which actually proves you game is a beta's provider game. This is exactly what I want to help you with.

The problem here is that you believe what women say on the net too much. Don't care about what females say, instead pay more attention to their actions. There is no woman in this world that doesn't want a man(partner) except she's gay or she's not attracting the kind of men she actually wants.
JESHAL made some valid points about the true nature of men and women, it hasn't gotten to the stage of beta or simp game.

DEMZEE:
Pseudo masculine hybrid beast women like Genevieve have to be content with feminine men like u who have reduced their masculinity to just DICK!

TF!!!

NATURE HAS A WAY OF BALANCING THINGS, IF A WOMAN DECIDES TO B A PSEUDO MASCULINE HYBRID BEAST THEN NATURE WILL ENSURE THAT SHE ATTRACTS FEMININE MEN

Women like Genevieve and the likes of Linda Ikeji are not getting married to any man because the men they want simply don't want them back, which still boils down to hypergamy. The billionaires these ladies feel they deserve don't want them back, instead of settling for the average Joe, they rather remain single. Their masculine traits don't stop them from obeying their biological nature, which is choosing stronger and better. It all still boils down to HYPERGAMY(seems over rated but it's freaking real).

JESHAL:
Women are not built or equipped to fvck like men or desire sex to the same degree as men, the quality of sex(good dick) is necessary but not sufficient to hold down a woman, men have stronger sexual urges than women due to testerones which we possess in us 13 times the amount of that in women, no matter how a woman fvcks in the long run she would want emotional stability as women are very neurotic in nature and they need a man for calmness and to stir their emotions in the right direction as they are less stress tolerant, they are socially calibrated being and they don't want to be isolated and alone hence they instinctively desire to have children so they can fit into the tribe , Ubunja your theory of dickmatizing a woman to submission is not the solution even the demographic of successful women is small compared to the multitudes of poverty ridden women, even in Western Societies these single mothers with bad boy babies are dependent on government welfare to take care of them via taxpayers money

Hmmn words of wisdom. This explains why they say women are sex objects and men are success objects. Men are judged by their success, women are judged by their sex virility.

Stupidquestions:
Redpill without money is disrespecting yourself
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Redpill without money is stress, there's only a level you can attain with redpill without money..
Infact, there are calibre of ladies you will have access to using redpill without money....For instance...there are ladies u won't find in certain poor area except maybe you are born and bred in that area.. without money to stay in those areas u can never meet them to use ur redpill knowledge...
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There are bars u won't find them..there are hotels they frequent..if u are too poor u may not have the opportunity to meet them in those places...
The other way to meet those babes is maybe internet...u have to use fraud like Yahoo...and if u don't use fraud ur soccess rate will be very low..unless u are very smart and handsome at thesame time..we all know handsomeness or money or fraud wins the dating game on the internet.

If I had my way, I think I would like to jackhammer into our head the fact that a man becomes sexually and socially attractive the more money he has and how he takes good care of himself....So let's go out and make money and face our life ambition. That's when redpill will look good on us....

Knowledge of edpill is fine...but more money is better, so it's safe we concentrate our mind to achieving our dreams, getting comfortable, looking good, having business, and having financial base...with all this achievements come natural confidence to score pvssy
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Redpill is not conflated about this point...we shouldn't lose sight of the ideal of redpill that encompass
1. Physical fitness and
2. Emotional maturity
3. Game awareness
4. Social savyness
5 Economic power
6 Sexual success....... ......In our generation filled with poverty where money means everything, with money everything becomes easy.. especially when we are game aware

This is why Redpill also encourages 'self improvement' but I guess some are ignoring that part, the 'self improvement' part is where most folks should mostly focus on like 'stephiscold' always says. Sometimes all you need is to be alone and work very hard to be a better version of yourself, focus, grind. With self improvement, money comes in, you live a more comfortable life while you still hit the gym comfortably as you grind, and coochies from different zones will be bonuses. You can not even be comfortable with yourself in poverty talk more of inviting someone else in it. Redpill doesn't encourage laziness or scoring chics with being financially handicapped, if that sounds bluepilled to anyone, so be it. Redpill has always encouraged folks about 'self improvement', if anything says otherwise, it's not redpill.

Junnior:
Oga, when was the last time you were in a university environment? Do you have many course mates who are g boys? They spend on the girls anyhow. This is a known fact. It's the only reason these girls are with them. Even if you're blind, you can see it.

Many of you have been rationalising a lot of nonsense lately. Just look at the nonsense you typed.

I'm not interested in joining these arguments. Thanks.

Pointless. That’s because you know all the yahoo boys in the country, mtchhww. Sorry i mentioned you. Please don’t mention me anymore on this baseless argument, count me out. Everyone should agree to disagree. Face front.

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Once again, on behalf of we 'silent readers'.
Redpill is not game, game is not redpill. You can not merge them together, this is the outcome you get when you try to. Please create a separate thread for 'game' if you want ppl to learn it else other people will keep airing their different opinions which would definitely counter yours, and the thread will be derailed and lost. You can't stop ppl from writing on here, and these are guys writing, not even girls. What have you been able to do about Rozcol? Nothing, she keeps writing on this thread, and some guys are even engaging her smh. You ignore her, does that stop her from writing? NO. That shows how powerless everyone is here. No one is the leader here, only the thread owner owes us the utmost respect here because he did a really great job creating this thread, God bless him wherever he is.
You should all reason with your fellows guys and stop labeling each other trolls and what not, agree to disagree, what if you calling ppl trolls are the biggest trolls? Have you thought about that?.. I hereby urge everyone to set this broke guy/ rich guy/pussy/ game matter aside and let's make the thread sane again and 'strictly redpill'. Kindly ignore anyone that does otherwise, if you don't, the thread would be derailed. I come in peace, thanks.

On behalf of we 'silent readers'.
Redpill is not game, game is not redpill. You can not merge them together, this is the outcome you get when you try to. Please create a separate thread for 'game' if you want ppl to learn it else other people will keep airing their different opinions which would definitely counter yours, and the thread will be derailed and lost. You can't stop ppl from writing on here, and these are guys writing, not even girls. What have you been able to do about Rozcol? Nothing, she keeps writing on this thread, and some guys are even engaging her smh. You ignore her, does that stop her from writing? NO. That shows how powerless everyone is here. No one is the leader here, only the thread owner owes us the utmost respect here because he did a really great job creating this thread, God bless him wherever he is.
You should all reason with your fellows guys and stop labeling each other trolls and what not, agree to disagree, what if you calling ppl trolls are the biggest trolls? Have you thought about that?.. I hereby urge everyone to set this broke guy/ rich guy/pussy/ game matter aside and let's make the thread sane again and 'strictly redpill'. Kindly ignore anyone that does otherwise, if you don't, the thread would be derailed. I come in peace, thanks.

Junnior:
I think the right word is "fvcking", not dating. They date rich simps (yahoo boys) but still fvck the broke bad boys.

What if those yahoo boys aren't simps too. Maybe they were just fvcking those girls too, maybe some of them don't even spend on the girls. Being rich doesn't automatically make one a simp. A girl will cheat on anyone, even been redpilled can not save you from getting cheated on.

Tonnyray:
You're wise bro.
Plenty delusional folks here can't relate that some of us have been on both sides of the divide.
There are babes for every kind of guy.. at every level. You shouldn't need a brain transplant to assimilate that. Even cripples and dwarfs date and marry. There's something called options.

A pretty village mgbeke called Chioma dates/fvcks Emeka (the vulcanizer/bicycle repairer) in the village. She moves to Lagos to stay with her aunt. She starts dating/fvcking Ambrose the Sienna interstate transporter. Her Direct entry admission into Unilag finally clicks and she begins dating/fvcking Nosa (the marketing officer, GTB on campus). Do you see a trend? It's all about fvcking options.. all ruled by innate hypergamy.

Why should broke Uniben guys not fvck Uniben girls? Weren't we all broke and fvcking fellow students while on campus?
But woe betides you if you don't get your sh!t together and establish yourself in society ASAP after school. Same gorgeous Yetunde you were steadily fvcking has moved on with some other dude who's got it going on in life.. while you are here bragging on big d1ck and fvcking prowess which in reality exists only in your puny mind to keep your entire mental framework from caving in and imploding completely.
Spitting theories detached from reality gets really irksome.

To be honest, this is the truth. You have been spitting facts. Eventho I wouldn’t spend 17k on any girl I'm fvcking like you did tho, but I can sure take care of her feeding anytime she's with me(like I would do to any gender who comes visiting me), that's the most I can do for any girl. I agree with every other thing you said.
We have agreed not to discuss about this topic anymore but it seems some ppl are still trying to prove a point that been broke will get you laid more than been rich. And I feel it's ideal they open a game thread for that.

Calibrator:
Don't know about you all but let me share a bit of street reality with you.
I am free this morning.

Presently around my workplace (self employed), there is one particular well structured early 20s girl who is in FWB agreement with someone I Iook up to as a big street broda, note that the agreement between them requires him to give her feeding allowance everyday regardless of what else he gives her if they go out for knacks, sometimes if the guy is not around, he will tell her to come and collect money from me, then reimburse me later.
Normal guys stuff, the guy has already cleared me on happenings between him and her but the girl doesn't know that I know.
After like the third time of the guy sending her to my side, I noticed she has started developing a soft spot for me, after collecting money, she will find a reason to hang around and try to strlke conversations with me. Knowing about happenings, I respected myself and try keeping my distance then resorted to telling the guy not to send the girl to my side again.
He stopped telling her to come and collect anything from me, after that she now started coming to my workplace for no reason other than to see me.

So one day, I teased her to explain the reason she is always coming to collect money from the guy, Sons of Adam, she said she is collecting it for her elder sister who is dating the guy. I didn't say anything. Just kept quiet.
This girl also have the same arrangement with one other guy who also happened to be my acquaintance but my street bro doesn't know.
She is collecting money from two guys I know (might be more)

Long story short, I can't touch her out of respect for the guy, though the guy said that since she is the one pushing herself on me, I shouldn't spare her on his account.
She is always offering me her body and the only hole I am yet to finger in her body is her eye socket and I have never given her one kobo.

She and the guy are presently not on speaking terms because he didn't give her money when she wanted to travel last month, same crime I should be guilty of but she can't hold me to account because my money was never on offer.




You are free to draw whatever conclusions you.
Money or Game.

As long as you are not selling yourself short.
Carry go!

Money still helped you in the sense that you have a place of work, and you sometimes give her money on behalf of your friend(eventho you lend him). She knows you're not broke, she knows you have money. That alone makes her attracted to you.

Where you played smart is by not giving her anything which those guys have been saying, they've been saying it's good you have the money, it's fine when they see that you have it, but don't spend it on them.
Which literally mean that a man must level up in both money(don't spend) and game to get laid especially in a country like Nigeria.

ubunja:
guy here is your answer. When you thought I was warring against the red pill, I was highlighting the above:




One of the comments I made that triggered you is this:

Good. I got it. Thanks

Martinez39s:
Lol. I don't think the guy has any ulterior motive or bad attitude.


Lol. He means you should say your mind and know hold nothing back.


He looks up to you as high authority in red-pill issues because he noticed a lot of guys speak highly of you. So he feels you are in the best position to answer his questions. That's what he meant.

Thank you bro. This is exactly what I meant, no bad energy from here at all. I've always asked even you personal questions as this in some of my alternate monikers and you always come up with reasonable answers but I understand if Ubunja choose not to answer my questions, life goes on, we moouve.

ubunja:
yep Elon is as red pilled af.

Problem is in this world to make it you need an element of simping or blue pillness. Red Pill men have a tough time making it out there because society is largely run by blue pill men on blue pill principles. Guys like Jeff Bezos who have a lot to lose and to whom being harsh on women publicly will reflect negatively on them have to simp to a certain level as a strategy.
Even now Dr Dre, after outwitting ex wife, has just agreed to give her what she wants. He has to simp to remain in the good graces of Society. That's just the way it is.

I want to ask you personal questions here, kindly give answers.
Do you think men should be redpilled at all?
Or men should be redpilled and pretend to be bluepilled when occasions calls for it?
Do you feel 'redpill' is somewhat toxic, too selfish and men should stay away from it? I've seen your subtle jabs on the 'redpill movement' over the past few days, I feel you're uncomfortable with some aspects of it or probably the way ppl are taking it. Just spill it bruh. What is your opinion about 'redpill' as a whole and would you encourage any man to tow the path?
I notice a lot of guys look up to you on here. The redpill is already becoming a lot of men's lifestyle, just share your opinion about it and let us know.

Pstarogood0100:
Talking about being extreme.
In my own opinion. Being extreme is when you think that the redpill should be accepted by all. Not being worried about what your girl may think about you. IN YOUR MIND YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING so, she must succumb to everything you do and she must accept it because you think that's what she needs and will accept. THIS HAS BEEN THE MIND SET OF LOTS THOSE THAT LEARNT ABOUT TRP.

On the contrary, as a redpiller that want to succeed with women. You must understand that we live in a world full of betas and feminist. To succeed with lady, you must learn to be a real alpha but fake beta. Not fake alpha but real beta. Or trying to show that you are a real alpha. It won't work for you in most cases, Infact in a lots of cases it won't work for you. Have been there.

Redpill is your power, so you must not let it show especially when starting new with her.

The OP of this thread is too accurate. He started this thread with the 48 laws of power , saying that the 49th law says that not revealing your power is a form of power it self.

Sometimes, your action speaks louder than voice. You may not say it but when a lady noticed you as a bad guy from the beginning she will avoid you like plague. Then you will begin to wonder why she avoided you. In your mind But, it is generally acknowledged that girls like bad guys so, why is she not liking me. If girls truly like bad guys, then why didn't she like me even when I portrait the image of a bad guy.

Don't be deceived, girls like bad guys but not the type of bad guy you might think. Not the one that could be heartless. Not the type of guys that could been seen as woman beater or would live them in agony. But, its a pity that when guys learn about the redpill or bad guy.
Immediately they get a girl online or off line they systematically portrait themselves as the bad guy mentioned above.

The bad guy we are talking about is the one that understand women. The one that knows how to control their behavior when they are misbehaving. That's why you hear some ladies saying they can't friend a guy who can't beat them. They are not referring to the ones that will beat them for no reason or will beat them after smoking Igbo or drinking but, the one that will beat them when they misbehave.

The kind of bad guy that knows how to handle their hypergamous nature. The one that won't succumb to their manipulative nature. They believe if they can manipulate you easily then other girls would. So, they want a real bad guy that can handle their manipulation. It will make them to trust you, if they are unable to manipulate you it means that other girls won't be able and that will make them to respect and trust you. But, if they manipulate you easily, the other girls would, it will reduce their trust and respect for you. Remember, if you they don't respect you for this they can't love you.

The bad guy who is able to detect when they are really in need of the money they asked for and give it to them not when they are manipulating you to get money from you. This is the type of bad guy they want not the bad guy that will be beating them simply because they ask him for money.

Mind you, some bad guy can fight on the street, confront anybody. But when it comes to woman issues their simping knows no bound.

For you to be that bad guy they want. You must understand them. Be in charge as a man, and rob their games on their faces. Know how to make them angry and know when to make them happy.

Know when to beat them and know when to pamper them. Know when to be jealous as a real man and not to be jealous as a weak man. Know how to act as a bad guy who has options not a bad guy who flaunt abundance mentality any how.

A bad guy who knows what it takes to give a woman the sexual pleasure she had not gotten in her life not the bad guy who thinks he has a big d**k so therefore, he can satisfy her or big dick is what she needs. A bad guy who knows how to switch are sexual mood from off to on and sex her brains out not the one that forces her into sex without switching on her sexual mood.

THE MOST IMPORTANT is when starting out a relationship with a new girl. Don't show her you are dominant or you have got some alpha redpill knowledge. BEHAVE LIKE A SIMP IN A CONFIDENT WAY but don't yield to her manipulation. You know how ladies do behave like they are a good girl and not a gold diggers but later they will systematically begin to come out. The same way, behave like a beta simp . they would want to manipulate you but your smart defence would want to let them dig you. In the process of digging you , they will be more attracted to you. It will turn out to loving you.

NOTE: knowing what to do and what to say at a particular time in a different situations matters a lot. The most important, learn gaming if you want to succeed more in a relationship because it enables you to manipulate any situation and gives you an hedge in your relationship.

I stand to be corrected.

Wow I duff my hat tbh. There is just a lot of things I learned from this writeup and I know where to adjust now. We don't stop learning no matter how much we think we know. I truly learned from this and I really appreciate your input. If we don't have questions about certain things like this, they can not be clearly understood and I'm glad I got my answers. I'm really glad we talked about this coz I'm sure this will be beneficial to a lot of guys and other redpillers too. Thanks for the great input!

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baiaon:
They want you to chase them because they're trying to game you.If you do,you will enter their frame like other beta simps.Do not chase women.If a woman likes a man,he doesn't even have to chase her.She'll make it easy for him to get with her

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ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] See.. Right there is where you're wrong...Nobody is too handsome or too rich not to make use of an Olosho.....The blue pill matrix has your brain wired that an Olosho is diff from that girl next door or a good girl is what you want or aspire to get when we know it isn't about a girl or that girl or any girl whatsoever but it is about you as a man and what you think you're worth from now till old age sets in and how you handle yourself in the interim....Are you f**king? Are you sexually active?? A redpillier man is a sexually active man or he becomes an INCEL and that's the worse form of simphood...This 'thirst' from being an INCEL leaves one vulnerable to female manipulations...you no go dey reason straight sef...You go dey carry them go dates as a maga, not knowing that 5-10 mins TLC from an Olosho will resett your mental frame especially for someone who's always 'thirsty'.....@thomasShelby[/color]

I'm not disputing anything u said here. I sure know most ladies are the same but despite the trp, we all have our preferences and individual choices. I don't really fancy sex workers, I don't even get erect in their presence, it's just a normal rule I have created for myself. I'll rather have my way with those girls that have crush on me. Sex goes far beyond penetration, I want to kiss, make-out, fore-play and all, penetration is just a part of my sexual desire and I can not do all this with d core olosho.

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Chizyberry:
Why should i be dating a lady that cannot cater for herself, asking me for money to do her hair, nonesense, u are not an independent lady yet, u are still on a low class, go look for ur low level village dudes of ur class

Funny enough such girls think they're the high class because they wear expensive hair and buy expensive creams that their sugar daddies pay for. Pride exhumes in their character and they feel the world belongs to them. Blame the men and society for making them feel like they are special. Since men shower them with attention online and offline all the time, what u expect bruh.

Ariza:
The truth

Work! Work! Work!. Hungry thing.

Abikeade11:
I don't support this opinion, ladies should learn to be independent, It gives respect to ur personality.

True tho but sadly hungry ppl like Ariza don't see it that way.

Ariza:
Wait ooooo


Why are guys suddenly looking for intelligent ladies on this thread?

You're the one that have problems with guys, so sad and depressed. We'll always be ally like bread and butter now.

Ariza:
The truth is I've learnt bitterly from two experiences that MEN love to spend to spend on their Women. To them it's like a form of fulfilment and relevancy reason why most assume the roles of father immediately they enter a relationship. Forget the redpill and all things guys type here, it's opposite offline and op is really projecting reality.

As one who hardly takes gifts because I feel it kind of subdue someone to some form of indebtedness.I go to relationships with the "He isnt responsible for me" mentality and I don't ask. I will rather call my parents or Sister if I'm pushed to the wall but I learnt the effect this has on guys I'm dating the hard way. One told me, I blocked every form of his existence,and made him feel useless and accuse me of "probably getting my help elsewhere" The other didn't even say anything, only found himself a Barbie doll he can decorate with gifts. While to me, I was only putting them first.

The truth is Men love to be leeched on. It gives them joy when they share their stories. I'd be foolish to think otherwise. I've learnt the hard way. I even came across Ubunja thread on How a man's heart is where his money is.

See ehn, I will ask ooooo. since that's how you all feel important.

Only a gold digger will say men love to be leeched on. Lazy girl.

Ariza:
Ahhhhhhhhh . You see why we are different, I won't even meet the guy I don't like. . Nne the guy go just dey smell to me like shiit that I won't even want to have contact with especially if he's persistent.

I'm kind of straight with feelings and sometimes I can be overly strict. If I like you, I like you . If I don't, nothing will make me like you. Nothing! If you try too hard I will hate you. I'm very weird. But heaven helps when I fall in love . It takes me years to overcome heartbreak oooo

Mind so filled with hate. Lord knows what Nigerian men have done to this one.

Ariza:
I no get shame, Na PRIDE I get .

The only piece I find interesting to correct in your post.

Which pride, that shame, you may have to get it by force. E warrior, ppl like u are the ugliest.

Ariza:
Ahhhhhhhhh . You see why we are different, I won't even meet the guy I don't like. . Nne the guy go just dey smell to me like shiit that I won't even want to have contact with especially if he's persistent.

I'm kind of straight with feelings and sometimes I can be overly strict. If I like you, I like you . If I don't, nothing will make me like you. Nothing! If you try too hard I will hate you. I'm very weird. But heaven helps when I fall in love . It takes me years to overcome heartbreak oooo

What is overly strict about a hoee like u. You think we don't know who you are? Mtchw

Many ppl do this. 'Camera' is the only difference. Don't make a sex video if you don't want it leaked.