Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

dayowunmi:
Is she hungry or in love? Ur write-up is lopsided. I hate this mindset cos it sort of make it seems like women are some less privileged beings that needs to be donated to. A man can give to his girlfriend the same way the girlfriend can give to her man. Relationship is the coming together of two givers. Giving HAS to be TWO way in a relationship, when it's only one party doing the giving and the other doing the receiving then you need to ask yourself if you are the boyfriend or you are just a sugar daddy. By the way, Money or material possession should not be the basis for love. The role of a man as a provider is only in marriage. Even if i have the means, i would be cautious of paying the school fees or house rent of a girl am dating cos you don't know whether the money you giving her is even being sent to her real lover.
Who can find a virtuous woman ? for her price is far above rubies .

Millenniumlady:
Please i don't tolerate unnecessary mention from strangers. Let's be guided.

dayowunmi:
Is she hungry or in love? Ur write-up is lopsided. I hate this mindset cos it sort of make it seems like women are some less privileged beings that needs to be donated to. A man can give to his girlfriend the same way the girlfriend can give to her man. Relationship is the coming together of two givers. Giving HAS to be TWO way in a relationship, when it's only one party doing the giving and the other doing the receiving then you need to ask yourself if you are the boyfriend or you are just a sugar daddy. By the way, Money or material possession should not be the basis for love. The role of a man as a provider is only in marriage. Even if i have the means, i would be cautious of paying the school fees or house rent of a girl am dating cos you don't know whether the money you giving her is even being sent to her real lover.
Who can find a virtuous woman ? for her price is far above rubies .

vincenteger:
I don't get it.
So because I am in a relationship with a girl she should now see me as her bank.
Men please think before you write

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

vincenteger:
I don't get it.
So because I am in a relationship with a girl she should now see me as her bank.
Men please think before you write

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

LINTUNE:
lol..local woman is in severe pain...u are defending ut with ur sagged boobs not chest biko, let us hear word..better change this ur parasitic lifestyel...young men are now wise, no man wants a liability, unless u want men old enough to be ur father, or widowers, dont worry those ones cam spend their fortune on u, thats if ur pussy is tight enough...before i go, ill suggest u take 2 bottles of sniper, its a popular pain reliefer u know ..

OLDESTWARRIBOY:
Who carry 2017 post come front page?

OP, dem dey do you? You talk one thing for headline, talk another thing for details, bros be careful o, if I dey vex I dey o know o.

Any mumu boy wey dey spend he money for galz na himself e dey do o. Money wey you go use to buy beer and nkwobi take stepdown, you carry am give one okpo wey dey share toto give all the guys for street.

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT

Ariza:
I no get shame, Na PRIDE I get .

The only piece I find interesting to correct in your post.

Ariza:
And you had to post her number here?


She made the right decision I think.

Ariza:
Ahhhhhhhhh . You see why we are different, I won't even meet the guy I don't like. . Nne the guy go just dey smell to me like shiit that I won't even want to have contact with especially if he's persistent.

I'm kind of straight with feelings and sometimes I can be overly strict. If I like you, I like you . If I don't, nothing will make me like you. Nothing! If you try too hard I will hate you. I'm very weird. But heaven helps when I fall in love . It takes me years to overcome heartbreak oooo

Zoie:
Honestly you have a point. Traditionally, men have been seen as the providers since the dawn of mankind.
Nevertheless women are coming up, but that does not absolve the man of his role in being the main provider.
Problem is some guys date ladies that are out of their reach. You're earning 50000 and dating a girl who spends 10k on a dress, 15 on a shoe, and half these monies are coming from you.
Go for your size, you don't want. That girl with mammy water skin spents 20k for a spa session. Go for a girl who you give 5k and she spends judiciously but no, because she's not flashy.
Carry your cross biko.

Millenniumlady:
For me oooo I'll definitely find something to eat from your hand before I'll give you reasons why i can't date you...no be men the gender MALE means eat so I'll eat my potion and pass the leftovers to the next available girl biko i can't fit shout

Ariza:
Ahhhhhhhhh . You see why we are different, I won't even meet the guy I don't like. . Nne the guy go just dey smell to me like shiit that I won't even want to have contact with especially if he's persistent.

I'm kind of straight with feelings and sometimes I can be overly strict. If I like you, I like you . If I don't, nothing will make me like you. Nothing! If you try too hard I will hate you. I'm very weird. But heaven helps when I fall in love . It takes me years to overcome heartbreak oooo

Ariza:
I no get shame, Na PRIDE I get .

The only piece I find interesting to correct in your post.

Ariza:
Ahhhhhhhhh . You see why we are different, I won't even meet the guy I don't like. . Nne the guy go just dey smell to me like shiit that I won't even want to have contact with especially if he's persistent.

I'm kind of straight with feelings and sometimes I can be overly strict. If I like you, I like you . If I don't, nothing will make me like you. Nothing! If you try too hard I will hate you. I'm very weird. But heaven helps when I fall in love . It takes me years to overcome heartbreak oooo

Ariza:
The truth is I've learnt bitterly from two experiences that MEN love to spend to spend on their Women. To them it's like a form of fulfilment and relevancy reason why most assume the roles of father immediately they enter a relationship. Forget the redpill and all things guys type here, it's opposite offline and op is really projecting reality.

As one who hardly takes gifts because I feel it kind of subdue someone to some form of indebtedness.I go to relationships with the "He isnt responsible for me" mentality and I don't ask. I will rather call my parents or Sister if I'm pushed to the wall but I learnt the effect this has on guys I'm dating the hard way. One told me, I blocked every form of his existence,and made him feel useless and accuse me of "probably getting my help elsewhere" The other didn't even say anything, only found himself a Barbie doll he can decorate with gifts. While to me, I was only putting them first.

The truth is Men love to be leeched on. It gives them joy when they share their stories. I'd be foolish to think otherwise. I've learnt the hard way. I even came across Ubunja thread on How a man's heart is where his money is.

See ehn, I will ask ooooo. since that's how you all feel important.

Norphiee:
Una get wahala ooo...if Dem ask they are gold diggers, if dey don't, you will say dey don't love you guys...how can you guys get satisfied?...smh

Greenbullet:
I hear guys saying all girls are gold diggers at any small request, but why refer to a girl as a gold digger if you can not care for her needs.

Many people venture into relationship these days and most male partners do not understand their role, one basic role is your ability to provide for your household, if you can not do this then you are not a man but a weakling, if your female partner request for money most times it is not to "gold dig" rather is it to test your financial capacity and reasoning.

I wonder how some guys think "if she loves me she won't ask for anything". Excuse me are you all right? She loves you and intends to spend her life with you so she is trying to assess what your financial limits are so she can add to it or know how to request.

Imagine a boyfriend not being able to pay for his girlfriend's hair or even buy her a new shoe or even just give her money to buy foodstuff, and saying " am I her parents?" Well you are more than that because the moment you asked her into your life, you also asked her needs and accepted her as your responsibility.

PLEASE STOP DATING IF YOU CAN'T LEARN THE MAIN responsibility ATTACHED TO IT