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ubunja:
now you're out here bugging phones??whats next? Putting a tracker on her car? Flying a drone above her?

Let's not promote these blue pill antics on a red pill thread. These are the convos betas are having. You never quite had this girl's heart to begin with and you knew it, that's why you felt the need to do all that extra work. Such breakups are even a relief for the girl cause she didn't like it here. Let's do better.

Can anyone fully have a girl’s heart? Lol.. She’ll do what she wants to do, like it or not.. you should know better as a redpilled man, even if a girl likes it there, she can still cheat, maintain frame or not.. you can’t fully rely on them..

WOMEN CHEAT FOR DIFFERENT REASONS. It’s fair when ppl try to know what their girl have been up to by any means they see fit.. don’t you ever sleep and think you got any girl’s heart so they don’t give you hiv or a bastard child bruh.. We live in crazy times.. These ladies are wilding and capable of doing crazy things, you just can’t fully trust anyone(both gender) no matter how much you think you know them, you’ll be shocked to hear different stories about what women have done to even smart men. I can understand when they’re steady on the look for that woman they decide to take home to mama.. Try to resonate with others.

You can’t be fully redpilled when you decide to have a long term relationship with a woman, you’ll compromise with certain acts that appear bluepill to keep the relationship working, you like it or not. A typical redpiller will perhaps go his own way and completely shun relationship/marriage.

Lightway:
This is what you wrote


Exactly just like in the days of old, a man will provide shelter, food, and protection for his wife and children but that was not love. Our forefathers did not describe this as love. This was our natural order.

However, times have changed. We are not animals and we have evolved. Women are now becoming providers just like men. Women are even becoming smarter and they're using the fact that we, men are natural providers to collect money from us.

You see women saying " a real man will take care of his girlfriend or another man will"
A real man will make his girflriend happy.

In fact, no one is talking about marrying a virgin in media these days, because men have been fooled to believing that they love ideally. Men don't demand anything from women like our forefathers did. (Our forefathers demanded virginity and cursed single mothers).

Women are using the fact that in the days of old, they were seen as insignificant babies with fish brains, they are using this to outsmart men today. That's why you see them feign ignorance in some situations and hope that men come to their aid. Because men see women as soft creatures that don't think straight.

But women today are using this to their advantage. They are using the fact that men want to be providers to take their money. The problem is that men think that by giving a woman money is how you show love. What about forefathers that married 4 to 5 wives and took care of all of them. What about Ned Nwoko? Do you want to tell me Ned Nwoko loves Regina Daniels or he just wants a fresh, fair body and he became a provider to secure it. Regina Daniels on the other hand saw that he is a provider who will keep her rich till the end of her life and she accepted it. Both parties win.

The problem with today's men is that they are becoming providers for women all in the name of love without getting anything in return. if men stop providing for women, these ladies will either try to use SIGN langugage (Shame, Insults, Guilt and Need to be right) to bend the man to do their well. If all men stop being providers until they get something from women. Then you will see women returning back to their traditional status.

I mean, why should I be your provider if you're not giving me your virginity.

The problem with men today, is that men think they fall in love. There is no such thing as love. Nigerian men are so fooled by movies and their sex starvation that they think that providing for a woman is a way to show love.

When a man provides for a woman, he will hope that she falls in love with him too. That's what the man wants. If you provide and she doesn't fall in love with you, you will try harder to win her love and do more. This is what men thinks will keep a woman loyal . That's why you see them crying after they spent on a girl and she broke up with them. You will hear him crying that after all he has spent. This is the sunk cost fallacy that Ubunja talks about. When the man spends so much it is harder for him to pull out. Not because he is in love but because of how much he has given. He can't believe that he will lose everything. It is the same thing with businesses. When you invest so much in a business idea. Even though the ship starts sinking, you will want to hold on for as long as possible. Is it because you love the business? No. It is because you've invested so much and you don't want to accept reality just yet.

Many Nigerian men will have sleepless nights if a woman spends on them and they don't have enough money to spend on her. If she tells him that she is going to pay for the marriage. He will get scared that people will hear that she is the one paying for the relationship and he is not man enough to hustle. Does this sound like love?

There is a story on nairaland of a man that was worried that his girlfriend earned more than him. He even posted it on nairaland asking if he should double his hustle or end the relationship. Men see themselves as providers and when they're not providing for a girl, they feel worthless.

That's why you see men sacrificing for a girl. That's why you see them writing exam for their girlfriend. If he doesn't do it, it will look as if he can't help his girl in her time of need. He takes his problem solver position and helps her out. This is not love, but because he sees himself as the provider and if he doesn't do it, she might break up with him or go somewhere else. He is not doing it for love.

There is no love anywhere.

There is also the issue of low self esteem. A lot of blue-pilled men have low-self esteem.

When they look at a girl, they see pussy, breast and a soft voice of an angel. They calculate this as a woman's worth. That's why when they see a beautiful woman that doesn't ABC, they are ready to get on their knees and beg her. He is ready to be her provider to ensure that this beautiful woman he saw belongs to him. Is that love?

Most of all you described as ‘love’ is simping, which the redpill is totally against. Love is another entity which the redpill brothers have been telling you.

Lightheaded:
Lol sure ain't for you, it's for our brothers who haven't come to terms with how life works. I'm just saying majorly posting about some things isn't complaining, I'd say awareness. Cheers boss

Exactly. When people are posting about stuffs here, that does not mean they are complaining, this is a redpill thread for heaven’s sake and people will post stuffs related to female nature and what the redpill entails. This is a redpill thread, not bluepill, not purple pill, not black pill. I feel some guys are feeling the posts are too harsh on women, it’s not by force to be on a redpill thread o. If discussing about the things happening in the society is now termed ‘complaining’, then I don’t see any reason why anyone has to be here. If redpill is too harsh for some people, they can simply leave the thread.

Tonnyray:
One group: “Men are the problem”
The other: “Women are the problem”
Indistinguishable miserable lot.

Two major characteristics of losers:
1. Always whining/complaining
2. Always externalizing the problem

Moral: Quit yourselves like men; rise above petty tantrums. There’s a world out there waiting to be conquered. It won’t wait forever. You don’t have forever.

Wait o. What’s going on here? Are you against the redpill or what?
Of course female nature is brutal, and part of the reasons men are here is to learn to protect themselves from manipulations and to learn about female nature.
On the other hand, weak men aka simps and blue pilled men also help in making things worse by pedestalizing the females or worse, the world needs more masculine men.
Pointing out both men and women’s flaws don’t make anyone a complainant, since we are all here to learn in the first place. No group anywhere. You spending your time and writing epistles here on the redpill page can be confused for ‘complaining’ too. Please let’s be guided by what we write here. If you don’t subscribe to the redpill, you may just ignore the thread.

Ovo200:
No wonder why have many urgent 2k girls around

Money is the only motivating factor to many hungry girls in a 3rd world country as this.

Ovo200:
Stay REDPILLED

Ohh my..
This should answer a lot of questions some people are curious about.

White Money’s prediction in his diary session about top 5 is right. That dude has really studied the show, smart guy.

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Ronnnie:
The knowledge of redpill has been a blessing and a curse to me
THE BLESSING
Since i found out about redpill,I have limited my chats with girls and now focus more on ME time and work....I have seen my savings go up by a mile..am not longer really interested in social media bkos I see it as people looking for cheap attention and Validation..I have seen my happiness levels go up Kos I ain't trying to impress anyone but myself,I have been putting more effort into exercising that I have lost alot of wieght and gained some noticeable muscle(still work in progress)...I no longer judge girls based on her look only but what she has to offer other than her looks..I have developed an abundant mindset not only concerning women but in every other aspect(I always believe I will get something better)...I can easily notice when am being manipulated by a woman..and I can also sense the simping behaviour of other men around me(even in my family)
THE CURSE
Since I took my dose of redpill,I just see myself being more selfish with my MEAT(you all should know what this means),I found myself ignoring women more Kos am looking for how they can impress me and not the other way around....I see most beautiful ladies and I imagine a particular guy who is actually tired of her shit so I just move on rather than approaching...I see girls constantly uploading online and my mind imagine hers as just an attention LovePeddler looking for cheap validation...I see girls revealing thier body online also and I start believing she has over 50 bodycounts and still rising...I find myself giving Girls the silent treatment wenever they piss me off Kos I see it as a waste of time arguing with them...I don't even care anymore any girls who stays or leaves,Kos the door is always open.

Truth is I know how much of a simp I was before I found Redpill...so am just amazed on how my mindset has really changed.

This is is the absolute truth. I can relate with each and everything you said here, wow.

neyoohhh:
Our simpanzee naija bros are there to the rescue. You'll hear things like even a thousand doesn't matter as long as you're a good person.

Only heaven knows what these mofos are smoking.

Exactly, they’re always there. Always giving excuses for b1tches that won’t forgive them if they’re broke.

neyoohhh:
They keep living in delusions.

Too much.. See wetin person daughter dey yarn..

neyoohhh:
As seen on Instagram.

I really tackled that Praise in the comment session, oh lord. I’m that ‘ifixyou1’ handle

CAPSLOCKED:
ONE MØRON WILL CONTACT HER AND LEAD HER HERE. COULD BE EMBARRASSING UNLESS YOU DELETE ALL SCREENSHOTS IF NOT LATE ALREADY.

Alright boss. Done

RedpillAnalyst:
Serial manipulators and liars hate being lied to. These women

Please try to protect her personal identifiable information from the public you might put her in danger not stripping personal her personal info before posting. Some guys are not finding what these broads are doing funny, they might set her up and treat her delusion.

Thanks bro. I made a mistake and I’ve corrected that.

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luminouz:
I can be brutally Frank but I also think your style is ok.

Yeah G. No simping.

Drixlee:
My honest opinion
Be brutal and dont waste your time
Tell her to her face that you wont give her and dont waste your time and data

My mission wasn’t to get anything from her after discovering that she was a leach. I just needed to teach a lesson, this is how i treat leeches now. If you’re honest with them and cut them off, you just made it easy for them and they go to the next guy who could probably simp hard for them. This is a good way to punish them, trust me.. Waste their energies and resources and let them shiver at any sight of you. We can all be petty

@luminouz
This was after I still promised to give her at 5pm, she vouched not to bother me again and insisted I don’t bother her again ( when it’s obvious she was the one bothering me!) but she still called up to 10 times but I didn’t pick any, I had to just let her be coz she wouldn’t stop. Total calls from this leech was over 80, even tho she looks very clean, curvy and all you’d think she’s a butty girl from a very good home.

luminouz:
Nawa o....a broke medical student who can't take herself out...

I dey tell u .. Continuation
Playing along sweet o. I could chop the flashy girl if i kept selling her this dream if I wanted but I chose not to tho.. all it takes was just fake promises .. I was just catching cruise

Catfishing:
Exactly.

Asking her her reason for cutting the call is what I don't understand.

If I call you and during our conversation, the call cuts off and I know it is not from my end and you didn't make call me back to make any reasonable explanation as to why my call was cut off, girl I ain't wasting my airtime on your sorry ass....

At least I didn’t call her again. Just needed to verify

luminouz:
Nice

After the promise of money and playing along.. See this

Catfishing:
Raqeebah Solanke is a bahd bitch

How did you get that bro? Omg

luminouz:
Why won't she enjoy the cruise and hangout when you paid for everything bro? Have you ever seen anyone who will squeeze their faces when enjoying all these things?

Let her chat you up by herself or show more interest. If she hits u up with some BS request without chatting you for a while, please block her ass

Alright bro. I get that 100. Though I like to always eat this babes up before it gets cold but I don’t have an option than to wait till she shows more interest then.

luminouz:
Nice way of treating a leech. You made me smile

When I get correct girls that I’m seeing that gives me all the high interest that I want, this one thinks her attention comes at a price. The matter funny that time bro, I really messed with her, she can’t forget me in this lifetime.

I was playing along here

luminouz:
Vet her more...


To be sure...


My humble opinion

Alright bro. I’ll be doing that. Tho she seemed like she felt my vibe that day we went out, she enjoyed the cruise and hangout but I’ll be ignoring her for a while then. These girls need us more.

luminouz:
If na me...na absolute silence of "K" she go collect after that text....

Funny enough, another dude is tired of banging her black ass

The fuulish babe Na even fair girl, medical student. Infact this one later billed me 15k and I kept playing along that she should come collect money, shishi she no see, after she wasted transport, airtime and energy. She called me up to 80 times if I could recollect, seriously. Yet I didn’t give her a naira. No be me she go finesse. Sad part is that she’s a very rude and entitled one one at that.

luminouz:
I don't get you. Asking her that question is not boldness, it's just a normal thing and besides most girls won't say they cut the call outright. She might wanna quickly do something or in a tight spot or whatever.

You need more than an abruptly cut call to "vet" a woman

Okay then. She was actually tired coz she just came back from school and she felt I wanted to meet up.

Catfishing:
As for me, I would never call her back. If she doesn't call me then it's Adios.

I don't think I can drop 2 miss calls on any lady that is not my mum or is not with my kidney/liver/kid(s) or money.

Hmmn we watch bro

This is a fool I was playing along with some time ago. See the fuulish entitlement, only her wants all of that, girl I only met once, oh lawd.

This is a girl I took out on a date, I don’t usually do dates but just did it this time around coz she seems to be feeling my vibe.. Called her and noticed the phone went off while we were talking, didn’t hesitate to ask her which is it, so I can know what’s up on time.. If she’s in or out. We should always be bold enough to ask them stuffs like this. I haven’t called her since then tho.

How can you say ‘fvck you’ to a man old enough to be your father and expect him to just be mute, u sef reason am. Being in big brother house shouldn’t make you disrespectful to ppl.

fitzmayowa:
He is the one making a fool of himself he does a good job ignoring her immediately the stupid boy drinks he goes back to his stupid ways....


The signs are there that the babe doesn't want him yet he keeps throwing himself at something that will cause him pain, the gal has literally kissed everybody today in front of him and the mumu goes back there to have a stupid convo with her.....

He’s just so stupid