What do you do in this scenario to prevent further damage? Can skill fix it? or Man power would be needed to lift and move it from the wall Explain below
One thing that can destroy a person is marrying the wrong partner.
I still believe that if you are genuinely unhappy in your marriage, whether as a man or a woman, divorce should be an option.
I don’t subscribe to the “till death do us part” mentality when the relationship is unhealthy, draining, or damaging, and I don’t think people should be pressured to stay in such situations.
Over the past few hours, social media has been buzzing over reports that a Delta State High Court sitting in Effurun ordered social media commentator VeryDarkMan (VDM) to pay over ₦30 million in damages following comments he allegedly made about comedian Mr Jollof’s wife.
But many people online are only reacting to the judgment without understanding how the whole beef actually started.
The feud between VDM and Mr Jollof reportedly started back in 2024 after VDM called out Blord’s BillPoint app over alleged customer complaints and withheld funds. Which led to a serious beef between him and BLord
VDM then criticized Mr Jollof for allegedly promoting the platform despite the complaints from some users.
Mr Jollof strongly denied the allegations, and things quickly became personal between both sides.
At some point, Mr Jollof reportedly threatened to slap VDM if they ever met physically, while VDM also responded aggressively online.
But the real turning point reportedly came when allegations involving Mr Jollof’s wife, Mrs. Atsepoyi, entered the picture.
According to reports, VDM allegedly made claims linking her to politicians and Yahoo boys.
The allegations quickly spread online and became a major topic across blogs and social media.
Eventually, Mrs. Atsepoyi reportedly took legal action, arguing that the statements damaged her reputation and caused emotional distress.
Now fast forward to today, and reports claim the court ruled in her favor.
According to multiple reports:
* ₦20 million was awarded as general damages * ₦10 million as aggravated damages * ₦500,000 as legal costs Reports also claim VDM was ordered to retract the statements and publish a public apology.
For years now, the beef between Iyabo Ojo and Lizzy Anjorin has been one of the most talked-about dramas in Nollywood.
From social media clashes to court filings and viral interviews, the feud has grown far beyond entertainment gossip into one of the most polarizing celebrity rivalries in Nigeria.
Many people don’t know that both actresses were once on relatively friendly terms within the Nollywood industry, moving in similar circles and attending the same events.
However, things reportedly changed around the time of a controversy involving actress Toyin Abraham.
According to Iyabo Ojo in past interviews and social media explanations:
She allegedly reached out to Lizzy Anjorin during a misunderstanding involving her and Toyin Abraham of which Lizzy reportedly claimed Toyin set her up and insisted she had proof.
Iyabo Ojo was skeptical of the claim, especially given Toyin’s personal situation at the time (she had just welcomed a baby) Iyabo later decided to speak directly with Toyin Abraham to verify the situation, and eventually realized the narrative she was told by Lizzy did not align with what she eventually confirmed. From there, trust issues reportedly developed between both parties, with Lizzy of the feeling that Iyabo Ojo had decided to take sides with Toyin Abraham who she already had a sour relationship with
HOW IT ESCALATED
Over time, what began as an indirect disagreement reportedly grew into:
Public call-outs on social media Strong accusations from both sides Fanbases taking sides and fueling the rivalry Multiple online live sessions and interviews where both women addressed each other indirectly or directly
At different points, the situation shifted from entertainment gossip to legal threats.
LEGAL & COURT ANGLE
There were reports of a defamation-related lawsuit involving large monetary claims (widely circulated as ₦1 billion) connected to the feud.
However, the case was later reportedly struck out or dismissed on procedural/technical grounds, depending on the reporting source.
(Note: Court details have been widely discussed online but not always consistently reported across media outlets.)
THE LATEST TWIST: BOXING MATCH TALK Recently, the feud took a surprising turn when discussions emerged online about a celebrity boxing match proposal meant to settle the long-standing rivalry.
A ₦10 million offer was reportedly mentioned in circulation Lizzy Anjorin has shown interest publicly but with conditions Iyabo Ojo’s side has not fully confirmed participation as of latest updates
This development has sparked fresh debate online, with fans divided between seeing it as entertainment or unnecessary escalation.
FINAL THOUGHT
What started as industry tension and personal disagreements has now evolved into one of Nollywood’s most enduring celebrity rivalries, shaped heavily by social media, fan reactions, and legal undertones.
Whether it ends in reconciliation or a boxing ring, the story continues to evolve.
aywhy93: Lol, you sound very funny... Most of those people you listed are very close to me and they are not dumb to pick without logically analyzing it, I won't be proud of anyone that picks nonsense. You can control your actions, but you can't control that of others. Even if you press blue, it doesn't guarantee saving your family. Now, you pressed blue but your family has more wisdom and they pressed red, now you're the one no more, while your family wonders how they never knew their son is so dull (literally, not insulting you). Additionally, LOGIC is far greater than EMOTION in ANY Survival Situation, just so you know.
TEYA: The sensible thing to do even without communication is for everyone to press the blue button but some mumu people will still press the red button.
😂 😂 😂 😂 bro pressing the red button is the right thing to do
billionman: I get it now. If they know the outcome of the buttons and there's no negative consequence if the red button exceeds 50%, people will go for the red button.
read the comments and poll.. People are actually letting conscience get in the way by voting blue.
billionman: Remember that no one knows if the red or blue button will save you or not. Psychology will be at play here. Which colour represents good or bad?
read again.. They know what the button does.. But they do not know what others will pick
mamawin: On many occassions, red signifies danger, caution, warning. So, at the first thought, your mind tells you press BLUE. But of course, if yours is an inquisitive mind, or you are adventorous, you may want to click red.
on this occasion.. Red isn't danger. It's basically logic (red) vs conscience (blue)
Hypnotise: Since basic human behaviour leans toward competition, self-centeredness and seeking to bring others down, over fifty percent will press red, just to save their ass.
So basically you will press red? That means those negative traits you mentioned are applicable to you also.
There’s a question trending online right now, and at first glance it looks simple… but the more you think about it, the more uncomfortable it gets.
Imagine this:
You and thousands of other people are placed in a situation where you must choose one of two buttons. You cannot communicate with anyone. You don’t know what others are thinking. You only get one chance.
Blue Button: If more than 50% of people press the blue button, everyone survives..
Red Button: If less than 50% of people press the blue button, only people who pressed the red button survive.
Which will you pick?
Now here’s the catch… You don’t know what the majority will do. So your decision is not just about what you want… it’s about what you believe other people will do.