₦airaland Forum

Dollarship:
Trams wey we dey drink like water for my side

ovieigho:
U no strong?
You took 50mg and your thing went on strike?

Guys take 200mg ( abuse thou) but thats the spirit
I remember in my university days ,i gave a bike man 200mg and i assured him he will look for me
Lo and behold he came looking for me from the woman we bought pure water to use it together..

Trams make men high and happy..

pinkygurl:
let mi just b packing to south korea. naija men wee not kill person

blingxx:
no mind them .. bear grylls can even eat grass if had as no choice

silenze:
i smell lies, who were the four Nigerian players signed by Chelsea?

just say you followed the money to Chelsea.

and BTW, did i just read Chelsea spent all that money for mikel?

Luukasz:
I don't know if i'm the only one who felt our boys weren't that impressive but they just made use of the few chances we had

edo3:
Segunda ke,how u go compare almighty segunda with eeedrisu??U go compare with those league wey livescore no fit carry their results until after 2days..

rapthugx:
I tell you!

"On the march again, on the march again MKO is our man! MKO is our man o!

Na him be the only hope o !"

Hope I got the lyrics right? Na wetin I hear sha.

unitysheart:
Only few on nairaland sabi. I was in Primary 6, then.

kapelvej:
PGA, hope you are not repeating my story. I may have to call you on phone, because now you are making me scared. Just imagine the last thing you said. This happened exactly to me the way you narrated it

kapelvej:
Waaaat, this is exactly my story, hope you are not quoting from my story

aycorporat:
I don't fall into category of kids who haven't tasted one quarter of life's experience but instead type on their keypad from the comfort of the room where their parents still feed them.

kapelvej:
Please do me the favour of letting me know your thoughts on the case

kapelvej:
Hello all, I will try and make this simple.We have been married for 6 years and two children, unfortunately there have been very few times we have enjoyed peace, I have done everything I could to make her happy, but non has ever worked.

She insults me anytime anywhere and she does not just care, her mother and brother sometimes chastise her, but she does not just listen, her mother however recently has been agreeing to anything she says or do, even with her other siblings no matter who is wrong(this is because she got a job lately and has been satisfying her mother financially). In fairness to her, she also disrespects every single person in her family, not just me alone. Also in fairness to her mum, (her mum) and her family members sometimes think I am too soft on her.

Well again in fairness to her , she exhibited these signs right from day one, not just to me but to everybody even her mother and elder ones. I explained this to the elders of the church, but they said she will change after the marriage.

Meanwhile while we were dating, there was a time I ended the affair because of her cynical behavior, and she came to beg and promised to change. I forgave her after like one month. But then, it only lasted for a while.

Many different things have happened since the marriage, even flirtatious activities, but not adultery, I have tried to handle and forgive those things.

Presently I am working in a different city, and we had a little misunderstanding and she started insulting me as usual and hung up on me. This is what she does regularly, but each time, I will be the one to call back because, I felt I should take the initiative and also because of the kids. I have told her to stop hanging up on me and insulting me on the phone. So, This time around, I refused to call her, and it has been like this for 2 months now, she refused to call as well. To worsen everything, I lost a close family member, just before this problem, she does not just seem to care. We have been like that since the past two months. Something tells me that with this kind of behaviour, she might as well have moved on, please what do you all think.

Anything we have misundertsanding , even when I try to resolve the issue, she will be busy with her phone, no matter how late it is, then immediately she drops the phone, she says she wants to sleep, and that is all.

NB. For this six years, I have been the only person working, so this is not a a case of her being the bread winner. She just got a job 5 months ago.

kapelvej:
chairman, you are learning, read my story, and tell me how it feels. https://www.nairaland.com/4447411/wife-finally-moved. And this https://www.nairaland.com/4457718/update-wife-finally-moved

aycorporat:
Let's learn from your experience my brother

Lloydfolarin:
Congratulations to you Bro. You have taken the best decision of your life.

Trust me, those children ll appreciate you for this in future.

Pls, do everything in your power to stay in those children lives by bringing them over to wherever you live to spend time with you either over the weekend or during the week.

Make time to pick them and drop them in school even if it’s only one day in a week or two weeks. Go through their assignments with them and tell them how much you love them.

If she(Their mother) wants to play any stupid game with you by keeping the children away from you, go straight to family court and let it be on official record you fight for custody of your children for future purpose.

It’s time for you to focus on your plans and execute them one after the others.

Enjoy every moment you have now.

WhoBeThisMan:
my brother if I tell you mine you go tire. The biggest mistake any woman can make is letting her family run her home. You will only drive the man away. And next thing they would say men are scum

Lloydfolarin:


You ll be in this your miserable cage for a long time as long as you maintain this sort of repulsive mentality.

Life is too short to spend each day regretting your marriage.

I was once in your shoes but bailed myself out and happy for taking that bold step then as a man.

Real men take tough decisions.

You ll be free from problems of this world right from the day you don’t allow anything to hold you down including your children.

Listen, if you die today, your children ll move on as if you are nothing.

You became a miserable fool cos of mere pussy of your wife and children. The day you zero your mind on those two advantages she has over you, trust me, happiness ll become all yours.

My guy, if you are the one feeding yourself, call the bluff of her parents in her present with little madness and see these people respecting your boundary.

If she is your wife, she ll remain your wife. If she isn’t your wife, separation ll eventually happen.

Mr man, children is not excuse to stay in marriage. Only peace of mind should keep you in marriage.

Trust me, i was once in your shoes cos of my children, i couldn’t leave the stupid marriage. I was miserable and scare for my children being raised in broken home. However, i later realise that if i die in that marriage, this children ll move on very fast...

You can stay in your children lives while living on your own. Trust me, you ll see the difference in a week. You ll see you are missing in term of peace of mind and sanity.

The day a woman knows that you are afraid to lose your children or don’t want your children to be raised in a broken home, trust me, you are finished. She ll use it against you.

Why do you think all these babe mama respect their babe dads? Why? Cos those guys don’t give a Bleep.

Look at those small children called Davido and Wizkid, no woman out of those babies mamas can disrespect them cos they are in charge.

Be in charge and prove to your in laws that you are a Mr nonsense man by throwing them out of your house and your wife if she wants to take side with them.

If you think anybody has a better method to make your marriage than what i have said here, you are in for a shock. That family ll never changed until you do what i ask you to do

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lonelydora:
My area has seen improvement shaa like 20 hours a day. But he shouldn't generalize it.

Malawian:
It a lie, You want to hit it again. Say the truth, we have all being in the boat one time or another.

Diso60090:
And you want us to wear t-shirt over it

Born2Breed:
LMAO..... Madman