TheUpsetGirl1: A Beautiful Nigerian Lady has set her standards.. and she says there’s no way she’d date a Nigerian Guy, or any guy who won’t be able to afford to give her N5 million naira as monthly allowance.
Identified as Love Anidi on Facebook, she took to YabaLeftOnline Facebook Group to declare her standards.. She simply wrote; “I can’t date a man that cannot give me 5million naira monthly allowance”
She have already place a cause of forever remain single. Weldon for worshiping money.
tomi4life: I am 35 and my wife is 29, we have been married for 6 years now, we have 2 children a boy and a girl. We didnt court much during our courtship because of long distance.
I really have a problem with my wife and not sure what can be done to address, now I must be very honest am not sure there is anything I can do I just want to use the platform to vent my frustration.
My marriage has not been very good, lately myself and my wife leave like room mates and not lovers, despite the age difference between me and my wife she doesnt really respect me. For the 6 years we have been in marriage 3 things have caused all our fights: cooking, Sex and finance
My wife rarely cooks in the house, things around welfare are not taken seriously, actually in a week, my wife can cook for me just 1 time. She cooks for the children and baths for them daily, we also have a help who does alot of cooking. She rarely askes me what I will eat, honestly I always have to go to the kitchen to sort myself, sometimes I buy food outside from eateries and bucker. Sometimes when she cooks it usually very late 10pm. I have complained severally and what happen is she tries to change, after a week, we are back to the same state. My wife can do without cooking for me for weeks. It really really pains me cos am a foody and I knw hw my mum treats matters of food. she is this person that forms busy, either she is busy with work or some church activities, she always has an excuse. She goes to work only ones a weeks the remaining 4days are remote. To address this issue I now order soups from major restaurant outlets, An example is today easter sunday, I had to tell our maid to prepare rice for myself and the kids, cos my wife was in church, we all went to church but she decided to stay back, knowing fully well no food was prepared.
Sex: [/b]our sex life is very boring, when we got married we always fight about sex, cos anytime I ask for it she always complain she is tired, so what I now do is ask for it only sat morning, brethen this is only day I get sex. If I miss that day, it is still next week. We sleep in different rooms, she sleeps with the children in the master bedroom while I sleep alone in another room. I can tell most time she doesnt enjoy it and never ever askes for it, I always ask and initiate it. She just lays like a log, even kisses is a no no, except she is really on, which rarely happens. [b] Finance: I have always earned more than my wife, when we got married, I was earning 3 times what she was earning, but she changed jobs and got promoted severally and we were earning the same amount. she also does alot of side runs where she gets 200-300k monthly as side hustle, there was even a time she was earning more than I did. I dint let it bother me I continue to foot the entire house bills. 95% of the enitre house of comes from me, she only pays the maid , buys cooking gas and my sons diaper. Every other thing in the house is covered by me, house rent, school fees, project, all the bills. I give her 75k as food money monthly. I have continue to question her why I should give her food moeny if I still have to end up going out to eat. I think the only reason she sometime listens to me is cause i still provide the finances for the house. The time she was earning more I could see how she belittle some of my decisions. I just prayed to God, cos I noticed the respect was gone, when I talk to her about her role as a mum and mother to the home, she says she is working, she is busy, I mentioned to her that the money she works is for her, she doesnt share with the house, I have never asked her for it and am not against her working, she however should not neglect her responsibility as a mum. That my role as a father, God helping me is to provide, and this is why I work. I also noticed when I got a new job and my salary increased she kinda off felt jealous she didnt tell me but i noticed it, she began to aggressively look for jobs.
I really dont think we have that initmacy, we are just there, my wife cant come to tell me anything bothering her, she keeps to herself. Funny part is she is a very religious person, my wife will sleep with bible on her hand, wake up with bible pray and serve in various church unit, I however dont think she really understands what she reads. She also has a very bad temper sometimes when I raise certian issues, the ways she talks sometimes I have to hold back a response if not the whole thing will escalate. There are days I will raise certain issue up, the next things she mentions is " let just dissolve this marriage as it is not working" sometimes , I just refer her to her bible cos the utterances that come out of her mouth makes me doubt her understanding of Christianity.
I have never assaulted her, we have nt had any physically fight, what happens is most times when we have issues, I dont speak to her for days, then she come back apologizing. Sometimes when am wrong I also apologies.
Am not saying am perfect, I know there are areas I can do better, like in the buying off gift, I rarely buy her gift, not cause I cant but Cos she earns well and I believe she should buy whatever she needs with her money my wife earns approximately 800k monthy.
I expect my wife will support me but it like she is stressing me. when we go see my parent or our parent, it is all smiles, they dont knw hw stressful their daughter is, she even forms trying to serve me food and all.
Dont get me wrong she has some good side, but this thing is really getting into me. I dont drink, smoke or womanise, divorce is also not on the table for me.
Some women really have problem oo, if dey don't see a husband to marry on time dey will b crying n disturbing our God for a husband. Now dat dey hav married no respect for d man, dey have forgotten so soon dat one of d strongest medicine for a man is a respect. She was lucky dat d husband allowed her to work becos if is some husbands she is going to choose either her husband or her work. This is d reason y some men don't want dere wives to know dere salary.
This present coach is not helping any matter n needs to b sack n Nigeria should think of calling d home base players n forget about all d foreign base players.
This present coach is not helping any matter n needs to b sack n Nigeria should thinking of calling d home base players n forget about all d foreign base players.
[quote author=StagethemTVee post=117447723]Adekunle Gold invited his music director and friend of 23 years Michael on the stage during a live concert, to gift him a Rolex watch worth £13,000 approximately N11,000,000.
Adekunle Gold tryly appears to be living the 5 star life he sang about presenting the gift to Michael as a token of appreciation for the years of service and loyalty.
Excober08: All the women in these pictures are dead! All within a space of 5 months.
They were all victims of domestic abuse and they all suffered extreme physical violence in the hands of their husbands up until their deaths.
Growing up, I was told the reason many women stay in abusive marriages is because they don’t have their own money and they can’t run back to their fathers house….
Let me shock you!!!
All the women in these pictures were the breadwinners; they were all independently and financially well to do. They all had their own money and they were all richer than their husbands. They were all equally educated and relatively exposed; everything you know about domestic violence, they knew much more! But yet! Yet! Their lives were ended by the dead-beat men they chose to love!
Dear Women, If he hits you once, he will definitely do it again and again and again. And if you make excuses for him the first time, you will see yourself making excuses for him, over and over and over again. Maybe one day he will change, but until then, leave! Because he won’t change if keeps seeing you to punch. He can only change when you leave him! So, leave now! Carry you bag and go. Just go! And don’t come back!
Under the flyover is better than a inside the casket.
We can blame society, we can blame religion, we can blame the church! But the truth is, you always have a choice and the choice is always yours to make.
Religion cannot go, tradition cannot go, society cannot go… only you can go!
If you love yourself, leave! If you love your children, leave! If you love your friends, leave! If you love your partner, leave!
The rate at which women are dying in the hands of their partners these days is alarming. It’s seems like the right question to ask is….Who Is Next?
Why is it only women some of u people talks about, wat about women dat kills dere husbands kor.....
Am wondering why all this argument n insults, as a fellow religional I don't expect this argument n insults from u all because even the God who made us has one doesn't recognize religion but LOVE that is wat he recognized, Because with love there will be no argument, insults, crisis or conflict because all aforementioned conflicts are the one destroying humanity..... The most painful tin is same u dat wants to go to heaven, is same u dat is arguing n insulting ur fellow human because of ur religion better than or his/ her religion is better than urs. Why cant u just sit down n think if the God or Allah u serve is really happy with the conflict u are causing in the name of religion or is d love u showed to ur fellow human dat makes him (God/Allah) happy? Please let's try n think n put things right. Thank u all.
Sancho n Calvani dat refuse to pass ball to CR7 to score, dey ar d real killers of today's game dat supposed to b a win to Man U. Dis players need to b at d bench.
All this u mentioned, without money ur family will not b at peace with u, without money u cannot have good meal or balance diet to stay healthy because without this money u cannot get wat u want in life and the most important in our life is to know God n be faithful to him because God alone provide family, good health n d peace of mind by providing the money for us to sustain on earh. Thank u.
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