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dahmelawlah(m):
please nobody should make me laffing stock. Am really at the bottom of the ladder in this dating game and i think i really need a whole load of help. Am 21 and in my final year in the university of Lagos, studying physics. Nobody would believe it if i say that with the amount of beautiful girls in unilag, av neva been in a relationship before and i av neva dated anyone before, and it's not that am d very serious or nerdy type. I dnt knw what i will attribute that to buh av neva really been a social person and am d shy and introverted type. Now that am going out of the system, i will like to make up for the past three years in this last year (dnt knw if dat is possible). Xxxtedyxxx, this is a personal plea for ur help


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Every human being possess a temperament according to Tim Lahaye in a book he wrote titled SPIRIT CONTROL TEMPERAMENT.

1.Melancholic(mel) - introvert

2.choleric(chol) - extrovert

3.phlegmatic(flag) - introvert

4.sanguine(sang) - extrovert

all humans possess not less than two of these atributes. Its either you are
mel+chol: introvert dominant

chol+mel: extrovert dominant

mel+sang: introvert dominant

sang+mel: extrovert dominant.

Phleg+chol: introvert dominant

chol+phleg: extrovert dominant

phleg+sang: introvert dominant

sang+phleg: extrovert dominant

But you can never be
mel+phleg or

chol+sang

because its just like joining two negative or positive wire together.

The reason why you see some people more jovial than the other is because their extrovert attribute is more dominant than the introvert. But the good news is that you can push through if you feel your introvert is more dominant than you extrovert, and the best way to do that is to find that thing that makes you happy. You can't despute the fact that even at you reserved mood. You are still friendly and jovial to very closed friends once in awhile.

Hey! that merely means you just dont know how to trigger your choleric or sanguine temperament just because its not dominant. What normally cause it is because you are so much into your phlegmatic or melancholic attribute. Now let me explain each of them.

1. SANGUINE : Sanguine is a sociable person. they laugh for the hard days, wise words when squeezed by the burden, creative, enthusiasm, and always have the energy to start. Sanguine love to be popular. They have a lot of friends. They love to talk, to perform, help each other and they always curious. Sanguine love to be children forever.

2. CHOLERIC : Choleric is a strong person. they have a strong leadership.They are faithful, brave, and have the freedom to be on one's own. They all forced and always want to make a change. Strong-willed and assertive, goal oriented, well organized, and they don't really need friends. They always be the superior one in the emergency time.

3. MELANCHOLIC: Melancholies is a sensitive person. depth to see the heart and soul of life. Artistic to appreciate the art.They are toughtfully, analytical, serious, and have a talent. they are perfectionist, so they love details. Melancholies lookin for some ideal mate.

4. PHLEGMATIC: Phlegmatic is a peaceful person. they always stable, patient, and have a compassion for the other. They always keep clam,when the other was in confusion.they are humble, silent, controlled, good listener, and always happy with their life. They always be the mediator, and easy to get along with.

lookin into your soul which one are you?

Who said she being beautiful is a must but atleast make she no ugly.

Every guy want a woman he can proudly display to the world. Two monkeys can't born a dove.

Beauty is not the main factor but ugliness cant be tolerated.

Guys have a spoken your mind. ****Feel free to comment

GENERALLY, most women expect there hubby as a man, to be almost perfect, in 70% of there dealings.

That is very possible if only they are ready to choose the right man.

Just because you are in a 5years relationship with a guy doesn't mean he owns you. Talk more of having the right to beat you or to tell you what to do all the time.

Most women make the mistake of given there guy the license to rough handle them during there courtship.

What are you even thinking(women). Do you think a miracle can change him when you guys finally get married. That will never happened dear. Or do you think you might not find another if you should breakup with him. That's a fantastic lie.

You never can tell what the future have for you. Maybe the right guy is just secretly looking at you. Praying and hoping for the upportunity when he will present his feelings to you.

Offcourse you know he cant come when that guy is still in your life. No guy is worth your tears dear, for the one who's worth it, won't make you cry.

Note: a guy who treat his lady like a princess is a prove he was raised by a queen

Its not all beautiful girls that are rude. I have meet so many beautiful queens that are well behave and respectful.

Gat no time in checking the content of an ugly girl.

Lolsssss

True love can't stand on it own without care, understanding, attention, confidence, and a little bit of jealousy covered by destiny.

Destiny is the driving license of love

The virtue of true love is not to find the perfect person, but to love the imperfect perfectly.

Note:
the main reason for failed relationship is because we have stop doing what we were doing when asking.

They is a saying that goes
''show me a beautiful lady and i will show you a guy who is tired of fucking her''

this is also applicable to guys
''show me a stingy guy and i will show you a lady who have lost count on the amount of money she has collected''

its just vice versa

Buy a nigerian girl a flower(ghetto girl to be precise) and she will whip your ass with the stem.

Lolssss

All these fellas that doesn't like putting there picture @dp. Its obvious you guys are badlooking.

I advice you shouldn't fail on marrying a beautiful one.

Note:

ugliness + ugly = ojuju

lolssss

Wather ''Press or pressed''. I believe my message was properly understood & delivered.

Gat on time for pals, that derive joy pinpointing someones error

Ugly woman also have there own advantage. Atleast, while sleeping together. witch can't press you.

Mean no offence ladies.....lolssssss

Nigerian ladies doesn't fancy flowers because, it can't pay there bills, fix there hair&nails, recharge there mobile, improve there beauty, update there status, and many more

Fellas on a serious note. Be it guy/girl, If you know you are ugly or should i say badlooking. Please make sure you marry some one that will help your children life. I mean someone beautiful. And forget the mentality of
''the beautiful ones like doing shakara''

please do this for the sake of your unborn children

Fellas what about these method

take her to a quiet place after you guys must have had so much fun.

Look into her eyes with all seriousness mixed with little frown and tell her you have something very important to say to her and start like this

call her name and say ''we have being in this relationship for (say the number) and i cant continue with this kind of relationship''

****wait and look at her then say ***

''i want to move it to the next level''
now with a beaming smile

''will you marry me''

fella's try it and tell me what her reaction is.

Herez mine....
we been friends for more than a year and we've had this chemistry all that time, so 2 weeks ago I asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes bt I've been the one investing my time and knowledge, sending texts, starting convos on whatsapp, and she's done nothing bt treat me as if we were still jux friends. I don't blame her though, our friendship has quite long.... I juz wanna get her to invest too, make her want me as I do her, what can I do?

With what you have written. i will say she has lost the sparks before you asked her out. So all you need to do is to refilled the sparks that once exist between you two. And that can't be achieve by phone call talkmore of chatting only.

But firstly
I will advice you to free-style her for like a week. And If she doesn't call back then just know that she has another guy that is keeping her company.

Dont be discourage it only means you need to stepup your game just like i had said earlier.

Call her after 1weeks interval from the 1week, just to know how she fairing. And mind you. Don't apologise or behave as if its been long you guys talked.

Just make you conversation short and brief. You can start by say.

You: my dearest, whatup

she: am fine & you

you: am good, just wanna know how your doing, bye.

Thats will make her feel she's slowly losing you too. She will be a bit unrelaxed because i believe she likes you that why she accept dating you in the first place. but its just the sparks that is missing.

Text her in the morning of the next day telling her how you miss her
note: the text should be short too.
You can try something like this:

''i miss the way you laugh''
or
''i miss the way you smile''

Call her the evening of that same day inviting her to you place. She wont refuse but incase she does just laugh telling her later then.

If you guys are staying in the same area it will be evening more easier. Just behave as if you guys aren't dating and flow with other girls.

That will make her jealous and when next you invite her. She wont refuse.

But if you guys aren't staying in the same area then you just have to find a way to make her visit you. And make sure you give her a little insight on why she's visiting you so that your move won't be surprise to her

Herez mine........i kinda askd diz gal out nd she said no dat she cnt date her bestfriend,my questn is hw cn i mve out of d friendzone so as 2 make her mine.

Like seriously, i will say you really screwed everything up by prolonging the friendship to be of best.

And another mistake i will say you made was asking her out without comfirming if she will actually like to be your girlfriend.

You have made her to adore the platonic friendship thats exist between you guys more to the dating one that you had in mind.

I have seen most guys make this same mistake severally.

Factors that contribute to the kind of are:

1. Being friends with her for too long without making a move

2. lacking of body contact

3. Lack of confidence

4. Lack of emotional expression

5. Choice of topic discussed

6. Being too nice and gentle

7. Being the easily predictable guy

8. Being too supportive

9. Being too caring

10. Always letting her to win during an arguiment

11. Apologising everytime over little things

believe me, as a guy. You are also important. To much of all these factors mention above only make her see's you as not being man enough.

To get her back, seriously wont be easy.

I cant be 100% correct. so you guys are free to comment

I sympatized with you my brother
women and wickedness. They is God o....chai!!!!

Hmmmm.... beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

Nigerian men being the best is a fact that can never be denied. We have the power. I believe you know the type of power i mean. Please no one should think dirty about this.

@Fellas.... love is not blind. But if you think love is blind, marriage will open your eyes

No cause for quarrels fellas. You guys should just take things easy with one another.

Almost everyone that dropped his/her number, claims to be hardingworking and bla bla bla...

Please am looking for a very lazy lady to flirt with...lolsssss

Nigerian guys are romantic@skinnydude. Most girls are just too photogenic, thats why i dont trust beauty @dp untill when seen physically.